Chasing Rainbows

[dolf]

Has anyone else found this when they have started dating again, either after a long term relationship or after a period of being alone?

hmmmmm

i like him.
i've never met him and i like him.

 

[sexycaz22]

OK...so shy...FF....

It was a meet and greet meeting only but dayem the sparks that flew and when he offered to haul me off to my place for a "little demonstration of my oral skills" I almost said yes.

But no...I kept my head ha..ha and we have set the date of our first engagement for Tuesday next.

He is a delightful man, intelligent, witty and like yours shy, self contained and yes I did feel a bit shy in his presence and know I will feel it even more so when he first strips and inspects me as he has already said he will do. I blush now at the thought.

It is difficult to meet new Dominant men shy. They have agendas you know and you never know if you'll live up to them until you hear their first grunt or moan of pleasure.

Ah well...onward to Tuesday. I'll keep yall posted.

BB, sounds good! Pleased for you!

All the best of luck for Tuesday and hopes everything goes the way you wanted.

{{{HUGS}}}

And another {{{HUGS}}} for shy slave......and glad to see that things are going well for you and your Dom. All the best of luck.

Caz

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

hmmmmm

i like him.
i've never met him and i like him.

: nods with great enthusiasm :

 

[shy slave]

BB I am glad it went ok for a first date, I am now wondering how it was today.
Did you find he was ok, I hate that whole being undressed with a new person thing. It makes me cringe in the worst possible way.
I hope he treated you well and you felt it went as you would have wished.
Let us know how you feel now, ok?

As for dolf and Miss Rebecca
*Sigh*

We are still seeing each other, I am still uncertain; but on the other hand he does press quite a few good buttons.
We shall see..

 

[shy slave]

BB, sounds good! Pleased for you!

All the best of luck for Tuesday and hopes everything goes the way you wanted.

{{{HUGS}}}

And another {{{HUGS}}} for shy slave......and glad to see that things are going well for you and your Dom. All the best of luck.

Caz

Thanks Caz

 

[Blushing Bottom]

So Miss shy and those who wonder, my first scene with the new Dom went without a hitch.
...but only because I declined to be bound in a first scene. He was patient with me and found several of those, we'd like to think, hidden buttons shy speaks of. He had me on my knees almost before we got through the door as an introduction on the correct use of the tongue. He complained that mine has a rather sharp edge to it but regular filing with his "special tool" will indeed cure that.



No really I had a great time and we have set a date for our next meeting next week. You'll have to guess or try and imagine all the rest of the dynamic details as I'm keeping my mouth shut for a bit and going to sit on an ice pack for awhile but I''m still smiling.

BB I am glad it went ok for a first date, I am now wondering how it was today.
Did you find he was ok, I hate that whole being undressed with a new person thing. It makes me cringe in the worst possible way.
I hope he treated you well and you felt it went as you would have wished.
Let us know how you feel now, ok?

As for dolf and Miss Rebecca
*Sigh*

We are still seeing each other, I am still uncertain; but on the other hand he does press quite a few good buttons.
We shall see..

 

[shy slave]

BB

Glad it went well

Needing to keep your mouth shut and use ice packs to sit on, sounds like a perfect way to end a date

Keep us informed, even if you do keep the details to yourself, with a few details we can fill in the gaps lol

 

[dolf]

i need to chase something...

 

[shy slave]

i need to chase something...

Try chasing men!

It works for some of us y'know lol

I like the new av, very sultry

 

[dolf]

Try chasing men!

It works for some of us y'know lol

I like the new av, very sultry

no, it works the other way around!

thank you

 

[shy slave]

A bump for my own thread lol

Lots of reasons to bump this, including seeing dolfs, new and gorgeous av

Some of you know I went to the US with a man, met ADR; had a fabulous time and generally had fun.

But, he and I from anything other than a friendship just doesn't work. We tried but that sexual connection wasn't there.
We continue to talk, have meals together etc; but in a very non sexual way.

He is a nice man who makes me laugh, but he doesn't have the Dominant edge to make me want to submit. Nor do I have the submissive edge he is seeking.

So back onto collarme and alt....

I met a man who was lovely when chatting on IM. We agreed to met and he was quite something. I liked him but it was all very intense and for that reason alone after just one meeting I opted out, it was too much like when Andante and I met; I can't go through that again.

The next man I met for one date was quite strange.
He decided I was 'fucked up' needed saved and was too quiet. Nor did he understand submission outside the bedroom. Despite a very indepth profile it turns out he has done little more than spank a submissives bottom. I have no issue with that but I do prefer upfront honesty. As for my being quiet

Last night I had another first date.
We have a couple of friends in common which made things easier. We both knew in advance the other person was not a wannabe, idiot or player.
We talked about a whole range of things, he has a quiet measured voice, a very indepth stare and I like him.

I am in no rush, it was enough for him to refer to visiting again when talking generally.
He lives a few hours drive away, but I am no stranger to distance.
He made me feel ok about being with him, slightly under pressure but not to the point of being uncomfortable.
It was all very vanilla, very normal but there was no doubt that had he chosen to it would have been different.
He seems cautious too, and thats ok.

It is enough that I liked him and respected him.
It has given me hope that I am over Andante and can move forward

 

[sexycaz22]

All the best, Shy, it does sound promising, I will keep my fingers crossed for you.

 

[dolf]

the one i've met?
i liked him! he's actually attractive and lacks the severe tosserness of most on the scene.

 

[shy slave]

the one i've met?
i liked him! he's actually attractive and lacks the severe tosserness of most on the scene.

Ummm no not the one you met, he is nice, but poly nice lol.
Although I agree he is not a tosser and and is attractive.

Nope this person is from 'up north,' he knows someone you have talked to from 'up north' too!

A small world lol.

Thanks Caz, if we like each other enough it will be great, if not then it was still good to meet and talk to him.
I get tired of only talking on the net.

Are you coming to the London Lit? I hope so, it would be good to meet you.

OI!!
Dolf?
Are you coming to London in Feb???
Do you want a lift and a place to stay overnight??

 

[dolf]

Ummm no not the one you met, he is nice, but poly nice lol.
Although I agree he is not a tosser and and is attractive.

Nope this person is from 'up north,' he knows someone you have talked to from 'up north' too!

Are you coming to the London Lit? I hope so, it would be good to meet you.

OI!!
Dolf?
Are you coming to London in Feb???
Do you want a lift and a place to stay overnight??

a northerner? ew!
and i knowyour definition of attractive

what's in feb?

 

[shy slave]

a northerner? ew!
and i knowyour definition of attractive

what's in feb?

The BDSM Lit Get together, last weekend in Feb.

Pleeeeeeease come and keep me company in the car....

 

[dolf]

The BDSM Lit Get together, last weekend in Feb.

Pleeeeeeease come and keep me company in the car....

hmmm...
i'll see what i can do

 

[shy slave]

hmmm...
i'll see what i can do

Great