Charity sex (can't think of a better description)

[janglydangly]

I have this strange kind of fetish that I'd love to know if anyone else shared.

It's based around the idea of a woman having sex with a guy who she holds no attraction to whatsoever. For her, there is no sexual gratification at all. It's an act of generosity, of kindness; a recognition that sexual release is as basic a human need as food or warmth. It isn't prostitution and it's not submission, her motivation is love or perhaps even pity, but she offers up her body selflessly, merely for the gift of giving.

 

[nooneinohio]

Great Question first off. ..

I personally wouldn't say "Charity" ... I'm an experienced (old? ) male and I do the same. ..it goes way more deep ...
I'd say more " empathetic"

 

[MarkMphsTN]

is there any other kind?

 

[perrafuker]

I have this strange kind of fetish that I'd love to know if anyone else shared.

It's based around the idea of a woman having sex with a guy who she holds no attraction to whatsoever. For her, there is no sexual gratification at all. It's an act of generosity, of kindness; a recognition that sexual release is as basic a human need as food or warmth. It isn't prostitution and it's not submission, her motivation is love or perhaps even pity, but she offers up her body selflessly, merely for the gift of giving.

this kind of stuff is almost dead ihmo. today women are let's say more assertive about her own sexuality to give a damn about someone else and much less when the guy that is asking is not attractive or does not have a substancial bank acc

 

[janglydangly]

is there any other kind?

Haha. I actually thought as I was writing it up that I was probably describing the tacit underpinnings of many a relationship!

I guess the "fetish" bit is in the extent to which the tacit is made explicit...each party knows full well the dynamics of the interaction.

 

[janglydangly]

this kind of stuff is almost dead ihmo. today women are let's say more assertive about her own sexuality to give a damn about someone else and much less when the guy that is asking is not attractive or does not have a substancial bank acc

If I understand correctly your point, that's really not where I'm coming from. Your point, it seems to me, is about power (women gaining or exerting power through the use of sexuality). You may or may not have a point, but that's a wholly different topic I think.

 

[Privates1stClass]

I've heard the term 'sympathy fuck,' which is probably similar. It usually occurred when the guy was going off to war and the gal offered him sex because she genuinely felt sympathy toward him, not because she was in love. He then departed, having left a 'little piece of home' with her, and a smile on his face.

 

[janglydangly]

That's kind of where my thought process is going, yes. But perhaps with a more "cards on the table" understanding - no faux romance or just being caught up in the mood; a rational choice if you like. And maybe more long term.

 

[djyak]

I have this strange kind of fetish that I'd love to know if anyone else shared.

It's based around the idea of a woman having sex with a guy who she holds no attraction to whatsoever. For her, there is no sexual gratification at all. It's an act of generosity, of kindness; a recognition that sexual release is as basic a human need as food or warmth. It isn't prostitution and it's not submission, her motivation is love or perhaps even pity, but she offers up her body selflessly, merely for the gift of giving.

I've done "mercy" sex before, a couple of times actually when I was single. Incredibly horny and thought it'd be nice to help out. At a party, a friend who had a very bad break up, apparently hadn't had sex in a while, and I was feeling a little drunk, and very horny. So I stayed after to help him clean up the party, then I snuck off to his bedroom, stripped, and lie waiting on the bed, fingering myself when he walked in. I told him I was his for the night, do anything he wanted. I was extremely horny, and I knew he'd often wondered what it would be like to fuck me. I wasn't attracted to him, but I figured why not? All night long.....

Tifani

 

[MatthewVett]

I've done "mercy" sex before, a couple of times actually when I was single. Incredibly horny and thought it'd be nice to help out. At a party, a friend who had a very bad break up, apparently hadn't had sex in a while, and I was feeling a little drunk, and very horny. So I stayed after to help him clean up the party, then I snuck off to his bedroom, stripped, and lie waiting on the bed, fingering myself when he walked in. I told him I was his for the night, do anything he wanted. I was extremely horny, and I knew he'd often wondered what it would be like to fuck me. I wasn't attracted to him, but I figured why not? All night long.....

Tifani

Lucky SOB...

I admit, the idea turns me on, too. One story plot bunny I had is that a guy breaks his arm or hand and can't jerk off, and he's just being completely insufferable because of it, so one of his female friends (or, let's face it, we're on Lit: relatives) decides to take one for the team and offer him some relief. For her, it's completely asexual and aromantic. She's just doing a task.

 

[MatthewVett]

Possibly relevant gif? http://imgur.com/Qyv6BKo

 

[littlecordelera]

I have this strange kind of fetish that I'd love to know if anyone else shared.

It's based around the idea of a woman having sex with a guy who she holds no attraction to whatsoever.

Whoever that woman might be, please send her my way. She and I need to have a long talk.

 

[ella_v]

I have this strange kind of fetish that I'd love to know if anyone else shared.

It's based around the idea of a woman having sex with a guy who she holds no attraction to whatsoever. For her, there is no sexual gratification at all. It's an act of generosity, of kindness; a recognition that sexual release is as basic a human need as food or warmth. It isn't prostitution and it's not submission, her motivation is love or perhaps even pity, but she offers up her body selflessly, merely for the gift of giving.

I like this... might be a nice idea for x-mas

 

[EctoJohn]

How do I apply to this charity? >_>

 

[twister947]

I like this... might be a nice idea for x-mas

I can see it now...IOU one Christmas pityfuck. LOL

 

[ella_v]

I can see it now...IOU one Christmas pityfuck. LOL

It would be fun gift for the secret santa raffle...

 

[janglydangly]

Now that's a secret santa I could get excited about. Would fit in with the ubiquitous under a tenner rule too.

 

[want2dare]

That's how I got my present GF. We lived in the same condo complex and used to get together for a few cocktails and laughs. I'm 67 and she's 51 - so one night as she was leaving with a nice buzz and I said - "Hey if you ever want to throw an old guy a sympathy fuck - keep me in mind." Nothing happened then, but shortly after we hooked up and are now living together. She said it wouldn't have happened had I not gotten into her head with that line.

 

[prdigy666]

PITTY FUCK!!!!!! Hahaha

 

[djyak]

PITTY FUCK!!!!!! Hahaha

Yes, and loved helping out the needy......

Tifani

 

[prdigy666]

Yes, and loved helping out the needy......

Tifani

Y'all are like the Salvation Army! Hahaha

 

[djyak]

Y'all are like the Salvation Army! Hahaha

hahaha, I was horny and these guys sure as hell weren't complaining Especially when I'd tell them they could do things that their ex wouldn't

Tif

 

[prdigy666]

hahaha, I was horny and these guys sure as hell weren't complaining Especially when I'd tell them they could do things that their ex wouldn't

Tif

You'd get a shit load more change outside of Walmart Hahaha

 

[akaradar]

hahaha, I was horny and these guys sure as hell weren't complaining Especially when I'd tell them they could do things that their ex wouldn't

Tif

Even the thought of regifting takes on a new non repulsive connotation.

 

[notnice66]

It was a bit desperate, but yeah, when I was house sitting I fucked the disabled guy who tuned my sister's piano.