cfnm

[wild-thing]

Being naked and exposed and vulnerable in the presence of an attractive woman is a major sexual turn on for me. I think it must go back to my first time when the kind woman who took my virginity took command of the situation and stripped me naked while she stayed clothed for the first half of our tryst. I'm just curious whether others, both male and female find this as erotic as I do, and what experiences people have had. Do any women out there enjoy their lover remaining dressed while they expose their sexual vulnerability?

 

[College_geek]

I sometimes like to keep my clothes on when my SO is nakie, but he's rather me be naked too. He can be persuasive...I guess I'll have to persuade him to let me stay clothed just once so I can play like that.

 

[wild-thing]

It's sort of a power exchange situation I suppose, but oh so erotic!

 

[emmessemm]

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[College_geek]

It's sort of a power exchange situation I suppose, but oh so erotic!

I do oh so love to dom him sometimes, though, so I loooove the power exchange. It's my idea of a good time.

 

[wild-thing]

College_Geek, if you're willing to share, would love to hear how you take control of your boyfriend sometimes. I'm sure I'm not the only on who is curious.

 

[College_geek]

College_Geek, if you're willing to share, would love to hear how you take control of your boyfriend sometimes. I'm sure I'm not the only on who is curious.

Well, I'm not really big on domming, like I don't go into the verbal part of it, and there's no S&M involved (at least at this point in my experience). The few times I've done it I basically tied his wrists to his bed and crouched over him. I slowly worked from his top to his bottom. I gave and refused him kisses, kissed his neck, brushed lightly behind his ears (I know that doing that to myself really tickles and feels nice, so I tried it on him). After a while I went to his nipples, then down to his inner thighs. I ended up using my tongue all around his cock, without touching it, which was fun because it drove him crazy and I definitely felt like I was in charge of it all. He didn't hold anything back and made a lot of noise, which really really turns me on, so when I was done with him, I was all ready for whatever I was in store for.
There is a feeling of power when you're the clothed one (not that I was at that time, but in general) and your SO is the naked one because there is so much vulnerability in nudity. I wonder what the world would be like if there was no vulnerability for that. I guess we'd all be walking around nakie all the time. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[jase_conner]

I totally agree with "Wild-thing" I too have had powerful dreams, and fantasies about "CFNM". Though I've never found a partner for my fantasy fulfillment, I have dremt about so many women being a part I ;ve lost count. My favortie is an older married woman of group of women, like a tennis team or somthing. One on one, has been my prime fantasy for a long long time. Heck, I imagine women watching and encouraging me when I take photos for my thread. some day I'll fulfill it I hope, there just has'nt been any attached women in my area with the desire to partake. I can see it being a little scary if you don't know the person though, for both of us. That may be why I'm intrigued?

 

[jase_conner]

OK, I know my spellchecking is the worst sorry.

 

[Ylvie]

Well, have done it in the way that I was the naked one while my boyfriend was clothed. I enjoy being submissive... Now that I read what College_geek had to say, though, I think I will try exactly what she wrote and be clothed while I do so. *can't wait*

 

[College_geek]

Well, have done it in the way that I was the naked one while my boyfriend was clothed. I enjoy being submissive... Now that I read what College_geek had to say, though, I think I will try exactly what she wrote and be clothed while I do so. *can't wait*

Always glad to give some inspiration to someone. One of my favorite parts about being in control of him is that I get to tease him, which makes him ache and therefore a handjob or blowjob is quicker and much more of a release. I hope that you and your boyfriend have a lot of fun.

 

[JoseIsWild]

It wouldn't bother me as long as they were females I knew pretty well and was comfortable being around them.

 

[sheath]

I love being naked, lying around in bed when a man comes home from wherever...and then going down on him while he is fully clothed, or wrapping myself around him while he fucks me, and the only thing not clothed is his cock...it's especially hot if he's wearing a suit. With suspenders to yank on to pull him closer. Oh, yeah.

It gives that element of rushed passion, of something almost illicit and wrong, of wanting each other so badly you can't wait to get out of the clothes...and it makes me feel like a bit of a slut, being completely naked while he is fully clothed.

Ahem. I need to stop now...

S.

 

[Tacky Daddy]

i absolutely LOVE it when the woman is in control...

im a newbie, sorry for asking... but what does CFNM stand for???

 

[College_geek]

I love being naked, lying around in bed when a man comes home from wherever...and then going down on him while he is fully clothed, or wrapping myself around him while he fucks me, and the only thing not clothed is his cock...it's especially hot if he's wearing a suit. With suspenders to yank on to pull him closer. Oh, yeah.

It gives that element of rushed passion, of something almost illicit and wrong, of wanting each other so badly you can't wait to get out of the clothes...and it makes me feel like a bit of a slut, being completely naked while he is fully clothed.

Ahem. I need to stop now...

S.

Man oh man, sheath! You can't just go and do that to people! Now I'm all hot and bothered...

 

[Tacky Daddy]

can anybody explain what cfnm stands for???

is it about women being in control??? cause i really looove that

 

[CelticFrog]

Something that really turns me on is the thought of J being totally clothed, teasing me in every which way while still clothed, and then LEAVING for a little while. To do whatever, it doesn't matter. We've done something similar, but... hell.

Basically, it's the control issue. I would want to be instructed to be naked by the time he gets home from work. (Easy with a baby for us because he works swings and Alekz goes to bed at 7ish and sleeps through the night).

So... naked when he gets home, I would want to be restrained (love that) and teased mercilessly. Then the twist. It would be great to be released from the bonds but then instructed not to move until he gets back, while he goes out to get some soda or whatever. The nature of being expected to do that and knowing that I'll obey is just plain HOT.

The sight of him fully clothed and flushed from walking outside in the cold... whew. And then using my body? Yeah. I'd like that.

I have to go take a cold shower now.

Ang

 

[sheath]

can anybody explain what cfnm stands for???

is it about women being in control??? cause i really looove that

Clothed Female Naked Male.

S.

 

[Tacky Daddy]

^^^^ ahhh ok, thanx a lot... does anybody write stories on that?

 

[WildRose40DDD]

CFNM

Jase - nice to see you around and I love the avatar

I have a story on my web page I wrote for Jase that revolves around CFNM. The title is Jase, okay kind of obvious but oh well.
www.geocities.com/wildrose40ddd

 

[Tacky Daddy]

that was a good story...

actually got me kinda horny... (i read the controlling him story as well)

 

[bobsgirl]

Something that really turns me on is the thought of J being totally clothed, teasing me in every which way while still clothed, and then LEAVING for a little while. To do whatever, it doesn't matter. We've done something similar, but... hell.

Basically, it's the control issue. I would want to be instructed to be naked by the time he gets home from work. (Easy with a baby for us because he works swings and Alekz goes to bed at 7ish and sleeps through the night).

So... naked when he gets home, I would want to be restrained (love that) and teased mercilessly. Then the twist. It would be great to be released from the bonds but then instructed not to move until he gets back, while he goes out to get some soda or whatever. The nature of being expected to do that and knowing that I'll obey is just plain HOT.

The sight of him fully clothed and flushed from walking outside in the cold... whew. And then using my body? Yeah. I'd like that.

I have to go take a cold shower now.

Ang

Okay, Ang, can I use that cold shower after you?

Mr. Bobsgirl is snoozing on the couch in front of the TV. Wonder what he'd do if he woke up with his hands tied together and a naked hot wife on top of him...

Not sure I have the nerve to actually do it.

 

[College_geek]

Okay, Ang, can I use that cold shower after you?

Mr. Bobsgirl is snoozing on the couch in front of the TV. Wonder what he'd do if he woke up with his hands tied together and a naked hot wife on top of him...

Not sure I have the nerve to actually do it.

I say go for it. I'd assume the worst he would do would say that he's tired and not interested...but he may just be ready to play, you never know.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

I say go for it. I'd assume the worst he would do would say that he's tired and not interested...but he may just be ready to play, you never know.

If he's like most men then I have to agree with CG, go for it. I mean the worst that can happen is he doesn't do it, and at best you two can *censored* and *ceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeensored* wiffle ball *censored* *censored* cat. Then again maybe that would be hoping for too much....

-Zergplex

 

[jase_conner]

Wild rose, I am both incredibly horny and very honored, your story is amazing. If onlyI could convince you to write a little non-fiction...

Starring me of course.