cervix rubbing on head

[rosebud5446]

my boyfriend told me last night that sometimes, especially when i'm on top, my cervix rubs on the head of his penis and it can be uncomfortable, or mabye it's too sensitive he said... he notices it particularly now because he has been putting this medicine on his penis that makes it more sensitive. a few months ago, a new doctor said that my cervix was more up to the front than usual, but just mentioned it, didn't really seem concerned, just pointing it out... but i still feel wierd about it, and wonder if it's just the way i'm made, and more specifically if others experience this too, or if it's more rare... i feel like i'm not made right now, like there's something wrong with me... my bf was really nice about it, didn't seem like too big of a problem, but it's still a problem to me, and i... just feel like a freak

 

[rosebud5446]

i read that your cervix hangs lower at different times in your cycle, however i'm on oral contraceptives. does anyone know how this affects cervical position?

 

[emap]

Oh my calm down. We are all different, some women are so deep that they can take a 2 foot dildo or other cock like thing. When I say cock like thing I'm speaking of this donkey sex show in mexico, I've not seen it but have heard of them.

My guy nudges at me and he isn't even a foot long, above average of course but not that above.

I have heard stories of women who can take under average only, average hits her cervix.

Basically, we are all different and it actually sounds more like your guy is nudging at you since your not talking about any pain to you, he notices. I bet he is only noticing because of that sensitivity cream he is applying.

On a side note, why is he doing that? Most guys either don't care how long they can last or want to last longer, so a sensitivity increase would be counter productive. OK, honestly I am confused and curious.

 

[rosebud5446]

he had this irritation on his penis, and his doctor was an idiot, so i told him to go to mine and he recommended this hydrocortisone (or something, not sure) cream, and it helped quite quickly, but it has made him very sensitive. lol, he says he hates it because it makes him feel less manly, because he's too sensitive to fuck really, and slower feels better, but it makes him feel like a wuss or something... lol, just funny... i don't mind. he said he's noticed it before though... i think it was jsut bugging him more with the extra sensitivity.

 

[SweetErika]

So, use condoms while he's using the cream and too sensitive. That will also protect the skin of his penis, so his condition is less likely to be irritated/flare up.

My uterus and cervix are tilted; it's not a problem, it's common and just the way it is.

Since the Pill makes you not have a cycle (your body basically thinks it's pregnant permanently, and your 'period' is really just breakthrough bleeding from hormone withdrawal), your cervix should be in one position as long as you're on the birth control. I can't recall if it stays high or low, but that's immaterial - the issue here is HIS skin condition/sensitivity--NOT your cervix--and condoms should help with that.

 

[5pintshefound]

he had this irritation on his penis, and his doctor was an idiot, so i told him to go to mine and he recommended this hydrocortisone (or something, not sure) cream, and it helped quite quickly, but it has made him very sensitive. lol, he says he hates it because it makes him feel less manly, because he's too sensitive to fuck really, and slower feels better, but it makes him feel like a wuss or something... lol, just funny... i don't mind. he said he's noticed it before though... i think it was jsut bugging him more with the extra sensitivity.

hey, you might wanna be careful with hydrocortisone.. some variants, can cause the skin to thin permanantly { was told that from my physician}... Ive been having serious girly itchies, and a doc gave me hydrocortisone valereate 0-- my doc, told me later, taht it can cause skin thinning, and we all agree, that would suck int hat area... eh??

~5PHF

 

[emap]

Hmmmm, I would say slap him in a condom too Also, I think you better go to your gyno an get checked out since an irritation on him can travel to you or came from you in the first place.

I've done that a time or two.

 

[rosebud5446]

eh, we've both been to the doctor. he eventually went to my doc, because his didn't know what the fuck he was talking about and we couldn't have sex for like a month! but my doc gave it the green light after 3 days of the treatment if it had cleared up... which it did... we both got tested for everything under the sun, the meds his doc kept prescribing didn't work (actually mabye made worse?), so i made him go to my dr. now we can have sex! he's just all sensitive

 

[shy slave]

Sometimes, when I am due on, it can feel as if he is hitting my cervix and it fucking hurts!
Like a dull pain that spreads across your stomach and won't stop.

When that happens I breathe deeply and sit more upright as though pulling my insides upwards.

That does help.

He has never said he can feel it so it is different from what you are experiencing, but if he likes you on top then moving slightly at different angles may take the pressure of the head of his cock.

Other than that there are lots of different positions which you could try until his cock is less sensitive.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I've had trouble with sensitivity at certain points in time. There are a couple things you can do, but the most effective are comdoms and extra lubrication. If the problem is the sensitivity making sex painful, those are the best options. It the problem is cumming too quickly, then maybe look at a cock ring, or getting him off in another way before intercourse.

As for the cervix being forward, that is quite commom. My wife also has a tilted uterus and cervix, and as emap said, everyone is created different. Sensitive or not though, bottoming out while a woman is on top and slamming away hurts like hell. There have been a couple occasions where I've thought my dick has been busted.

There are also some creams out there designed to redce sensitivity to help with premature ejaculation which might aid in his sensitivity problems. I personally tend to avoid such things though, because pain is the body's way of informing us as to our limits.

As for him not feeling manly, bullshit! Sex is about a lot more just pounding away with abandon. Slow, passionate sex can be more intense than fast rough sex. It's all in your attitude.