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Ouch!
No thank you.
I will never completely understand the male fascination with pushing the female form to every physical limit they can think of like their life partner is a labrat or something. WHY do you even want to do this?
Of course, 99% are women. And all arguments supplied here so far are valid for anal sex or anal fisting, too.
Fast remedial anatomy lesson:
Shit comes out of your anus, unless you've had some serious surgery. IE infectious matter. The necessity for sterile (not just CLEAN but STERILE) implements is thus mitigated unless you PLAN on perforating the person, which is a pretty idiotic idea.
This post is the equivalent of "I'd like to ass fist my partner. With a brillo glove."
I'm all for torturing slaves but if you break your toys you can't play with them again.
And yet someone right now is going "Damn. That's hot. Brillo, fuck yeah."
I guess I just wonder in regards to the original poster if he heard that someone wanted to penetrate and fuck a man's urethra (how is another issue) he'd just shrug and say 'whatever their kink is.' Perhaps he would. I certainly don't know him to say otherwise.
For me, I think that both ideas stretch credibility. I'm all for torturing slaves but if you break your toys you can't play with them again.
The problem that people are having with your idea, YC, is that it's not something (in most people's opinion) that can be reasonably risk managed. There is no telling what immediate and/or permanent issues will come from penetrating a woman's cervix deliberately. Even with a finger the risk of inordinate pain, infection and long term impact on a woman's sex life is significant. If you're still harbouring ideas of getting your cock in there, you could cause tearing, bleeding and even the prolapse of the cervix or womb. The risks greatly outweigh the possible pleasure for you and I can tell you now that there will be no element of enjoyment for any woman you try this on.
The thing that I don’t understand is how everyone can so blatantly assume that. This is something their is not much information on, all that is present here so far is just initial impression sort of stuff. Speculation and doctors who don’t want to spend the 8 hours necessary to dilate a cervix without injury are not sufficient reasons in my opinion.
Right now I am looking into early medicine, they used to put instruments in through the cervix that where about 3-4 cm in diameter. That was with primitive sterilization techniques, yet operations of the uterus through the cervix where claimed to be successful.
It’s not easy finding details about hysteroscopies done over 100 years ago, and of course it is not information that can be acted on. Its just as vague as everything else. However it does open the door to more questioning.
Modern surgery also requires a greater dilation of the cervix, how much that is I don’t know yet.
Maybe its just my seemingly unique kink driving me, but I am not gonna discard this until I have reliable data. I am not going to do anything rash, that would be stupid.
First thing to understand is if you post anything publicly anywhere for public opinion, that is what you are going to get. I am sorry if you were under the misconception that being kink oriented meant we had to agree with anything and everything brought here for discussion by you or anyone. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I'm afraid if you present as being totally devoid of any concern for the health and well being of the person on the receiving end of your idea of fun, but totally absorbed with your need to do whatever it is regardless of what the permanent and damaging (and possible life changing) outcome for your victim might be, then yes, you are going to get a lot of very honest opinions which are not likely to be what you were hoping for. That does not mean people are running scared as you put it, just that some do not share your view that what becomes of the pyl is of no consequence to you as long as you get your fix.
I imagine it is what you have gathered is acceptable for a PYL, and in part you are correct, just I think you have misunderstood a lot of the underlying factors which change the whole concept for most from being one of pure self indulgent abuse where the pyl basically becomes your lab rat to one of honest and consensual power exchange which both go into informed and completely aware. The thing which strikes me about a lot of ambitious and often newer Dominants is this thought that a pyl has to prove their devotion and submission by whatever means the mind boggled PYL decides is proof positive and usually without any thought as to why they should feel that when there has been no demonstration of reason to from the PYL...IOW it is usually earned, not demanded cold. Why should they feel that level of devotion to someone so quickly and without reason other than 'Iam Dom, you are sub' speeches and assumptions? What are you going to do before the event to deserve and win such devotion? pyl's are not automatons nor are they brain dead and stupid. Granted you might find someone willing to submit to your idea of fun, but that doesn't mean we have to pretend we wish to be on either side of the whip you choose to wield, nor that we feel you view the pyl as a human being. Part of the maturity of entering this lifestyle is being able to accept that others are not going to always pat you on the back for your ideas and desires, and being able to accept that as their right as an individual...we are not sheep, nor does one size fit all. Another part of the maturity is being able to take in what others say, weigh it up in terms of value, then if necessary reassess your original intentions and/or thoughts accordingly. There is no shame in learning something new, nor seeing something from a POV you might not have fully considered before, there may at times be in carrying on blindly and relentlessly to prove you can.
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They also did trepanning over 100 years ago and people survived it some of the time - should you get out the cordless drill?
It's not rejection of your kink. Why is kink so sacred that it's horrible to say "this is best left a fantasy, it's a bad idea?"
Fuck, I thought M's hernia operation pics were kind of erotic, but the clear line that says "this is better off a fantasy" for me says that at home surgery would be a fucking bad idea.
YC, just ouch!!! I get how the concept/fantasy could be erotic. The actuality...*winces* as for inserting IUD's the cervix is still not dilated any more than necessary for the device to be inserted. And even then there is risk of infection, tearing, discomfort, spotting. You're talking highly vascularized tissue. There are reasons the body protects itself so well. Messing with that...dunno YC...sometimes it's good to respect the body's defense systems...
And to think about the consequences...if you were actually to do it you'd have to effectively sterilize yourself...somehow. She'd have to be prepared for the possibility of a failed cervix, and the likelihood of not being able to carry a child. Not to mention the immediate pain and grossness of the sloughed uterine lining. Now why is this still appealing???
The examples you gave above...yeah, you're probably right that at one time they were less common, but they can be accomplished without undue long-term damage. I don't believe there's a way to accomplish cervical penetration without severely traumatizing the woman, definately physically and probably psychologically as well if she consents and then realizes afterwards what she chose to put herself through. Good luck tho on figuring it out. No doubt if there's a safe way to accomplish this you'll find it...
Wow. That sounds like the kids who jumped off the roof watching the Superman movie.
They also did trepanning over 100 years ago and people survived it some of the time - should you get out the cordless drill?
I never thought to look in the GB, I'll be looking though this.
Spotting? You mean like bruising?
and thanks for the luck, I need it.
That happened after my colposcopy. Which is them just taking off a small bit of it for biopsy. Needless to say this wasn't a joy.<snip>