Cell Phones

Gilly Bean

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This is one of my favorite topics to debate, so be forwarned, there is ranting ahead.

I was reading (and responding) to the phone about people using cell phones in public restrooms.

I, personally, don't use a cell phone unless absolutly needed. However, as the trend grows, more and more people use them, and it's not uncommon for even kids in junior and senior high to have them.

People become more and more comfortable talking on them, doing other things while on them, and just plain being rude to those around them while on them.

Things I have personally witnessed, and will rant over, include:

A: Three days ago, I picked hubby up at work. On the way, I saw a woman driving a car (with two very small children in the back seat) talking on the phone. She was using one hand to hold the phone, and using the other hand to smoke a cigarette (also a pet peeve of mine- smoking around children: it's just plain selfish). The guy in front of her breaked, and because she was preoccupied trying to do two things at once, with no hands on the wheel, she came within an inch of rear ending him, and dropped the cigarette in the process.

She not only endangered her children, but also those people around her on the road, all by talking on a phone, and smoking a cigarette.

Gilly's verdict: Rude, stupid, and just plain imbred.

B: While waiting in a grocery line, the woman in front of me was chatting on the phone rather loudly about how a friend of hers had gotten trashed the night before, and ended up sleeping over at a guys house. She said that said friend didn't know the guy's name the next morning, and laughed before saying that was so typical. She even went so far as to call her 'friend' a slut, but laughed and said it was funny.

Meanwhile, it was her turn at the counter, and she turns around to pay, only then realizing that the girl working was another friend entierly. The girl at the counter (you know, the one being paid to complete a task, thus making our lives go easier at check out lanes) asked who was on the phone, and the first girl handed the phone to her. They sat there for nearly five minutes chatting back and forth between the three, making plans for that night. Meanwhile, the line behind me had more than gotten restless, and frozen foods were now warm gooey foods.

It took the woman behind me asking rather loudly for a manager to get the check out girl to get off the phone, and finish her friends checkout. Both the first girl, and the check out girl glared at those of us waiting behind her. She was rather unhappy when I got up there, handed her my have thawed ice cream, and asked her to get me a new carton.

Gilly's verdict: Stupid people should neither breed, nor use cell phones

C: Hubby and I got a sitter for all 3 kids ( a feat all on it's own), actually had extra money, and went to see Lord of the Rings 2 back in December. We get started in the movie, and more and more people move in around us, until we are surrounded (I have major personal space issues, and hate sitting next to anyone), so we moved over a few places.

The person sitting down about 5 spaces got 'beeped' (you know, those two way cell phones) during the first half an hour.

Those are the ones that beep each time you two way back and forth. Now, in this time, the person on the other end (whom we could all hear loud and clear) asked what was going on, and the guy in the theater said: "Nothing, just at the movies", and then proceeded to have a nice chat with the person. Finally, after about 10 minutes, he shuts up, and the movie can continue in peace.

About 30 minutes later, it happens again.

In the span of a movie, he had no less than 4 conversations with people, and told each of them that he was AT the movies, but also said (when asked if they should just beep him later) that he could talk at the moment.

Gilly's Verdict: Cell Phones are the bane of the world, and people using them must get dumber with each use.



Now, I am not saying all people are like this, but the trend I am seeing with cell phones, is that people just get more and more comfortable with them, and the more so they are, the more lax they are about using them anywhere they please, while doing anything they please.

I am sure that to those who are the phone, it doesn't seem like a huge problem, but to those of us standing around them, waiting on them, and trying to live away from them, the people come off as rude, and very stupid.

I don't see why a single person has the need to be contacted at any given time, in any given place, while doing any given thing.

It bugs the hell out of me. Again, I'm not saying all people who use them are so rude about thier use, but the trend is rising.

So, what do you think? Have you noticed any really stupid things people do while on phones? Have you yourself become a victim of cell phone comfort?

Tell us!


Now, I highly expect to get a flame or two, so hey, bring em on. I am a firm believer in my ways, and I firmly believe cell phones to be the bane of modern society.
 
I've heard that some people actually have phone sex while driving in there car. I wish I could watch, err I mean, I think they should be shot.
 
I hate the damned things.

I used to have one, but gave it up. I realized that I value the time in transit when I can just be by myself and think. Whatever someone needs to tell me I can get on my machine at home, at work, or wherever I'm headed to next.

Whatever inconvenience I might suffer from not having a cell phone (like having to go back to the store because I forgot to list something, etc) just isn't that big a deal.

And I see far more rude, inconsiderate, and just plain dangerous behavior because of cell phones than I have before. I can't help but blame the phone for being a contributing cause.

I've actually walked up to people and told them to take their phone outside or I'd take it from them in places like restaurants, movie theaters, and concerts.

I just hate the things. And pagers. I hate them, too.
 
Must agree with my wife's posting here. I work at a college. Good lord EVERYONE has cell phones. cripes, one of the people in my room has 2 of the damned things, plus a pager and a beeper. What the hell is up with that? rofl

I have a cellphone I use for work. I won't answer it in the car unless stopped at a light or intersection. I don't bring it home with me. As a matter of convenience, I find it damn annoying. ;P
 
Idiots are idiots, this way they're just that much more obnoxious and noticeable.
 
I wish I had the guts to tell someone to get off, or get out. ;)


It's disruptive, especially the people who insist on having those god awful loud ass 30 seconds seongs for each and every ring.

My god, people, can we be more inconsiderate of those around us?
 
Heh, I had to keep gilly from hurtling candy at the idjits at the Lord of the Rings showing. :p
 
modest mouse said:
You cannot get cell phone reception where I live. Its wonderful.

Actually I like them, gives you control over my job situations. But to each his/her own, I guess.
 
I so agree!!!

I have a cell phone but we do not keep it turned on. It is for when my husband crashes the car into canals or things like that.

My husband has one of those two way pagers (from work) that is never on beep. He can talk to people that have them by typing a message. We us it as a pager for family when we go out in case they need us for the kids.

I think I have seen some of the same people as you the mom on the phone having a cig. *shakes head* This is why I wait until late at night to go outside before I have my first one of the day.
 
I have one.
I use it.
It usually stays on.

I don't talk and drive...because if I did..reaction time would definately decrease.

Yes there are those who act irresponsible on the phone... thats their problem. *shrugs*

Cell Phones can save lives, by reporting accidents...by being able to dial 911 and not have to go in search of a payphone.

They are extremely helpful when your car breaks down on the highway, and there is nothing for miles... and you have kids in the car.

Blame not the phone...blame the rude ass person.
 
i won't go so far as to say it's all the phone's fault. Stupid people using them do make the problem a lot worse, however, how is it saving lives to talk on the phone at a movie?

I know some damn smart people who use them while driving. I would not normally consider the person stupid, but when the phone is attached to thier heads, I swear, it sucks the brain out of thier ears.

I am all for using them in certain situtations. Such as car accidents, finding people when they are needed.

However, society as a whole has gotten overly dependant on them.

School forms now have a slot for email address, pager numbers, and cell phone numbers.

It gets pretty bad when they feel they need all of that to get ahold of someone.

I can understand emergency use. It's the use of it while being rude and inconsiderate to others that bothers me.
 
Well, there are a lot of people here that only have a cellphone.
It's jut not cost effective to have a landline anymore.
 
Gilly Bean said:
I am a firm believer in my ways, and I firmly believe cell phones to be the bane of modern society.
Inconsiderate rude people are the bane of modern society. Cell phones are just a tool - you could point to the fact that people who wouldn't consider cutting in front of you at the checkout stand think nothing of cutting in front of you on the highway. People who wouldn't think of stepping on your heels when walking behind you, who give you enough space while walking behind you, tailgate you while in their cars.

Is it the fault of the cell phone? The car?

No. People do it because they can get away with it. That is the difference between someone who don't do something because society will punish them or look down on them in one way or another, and people who don't do something because they have principles and live by them all the time whether they will get caught or not.

Whenever I or someone else poses a hypothetical question along these lines, I find that about three-fourths (or more) of the people here never fail to dissapoint me. Ask them what they would do if they were invisible and they say they would spy on people, steal from people, even rape people. Ask them what they would if they found a large amount of money and they say they would keep it - even if it is a small maount of money, most people will keep the money if a cashier mistakenly gives them too much change.

Yes modern conveniences make it easier for people to be rude, and for people to endanger other people. But it is the person's fault, not the convenience.

FWIW, I always turn my phone off when going to a movie, to a meeting of any sort, to the library, etc. - I do not generally make calls while in heavy traffic, usually only making calls when on a long trip to let someone know I will be late, early or on time. I keep those calls short. If someone calls me while driving I may or may not answer depending on where I am and how safe it is - the issue rarely comes up. If necessary I pull over to talk.
 
The Heretic once again said it so well.

I have a cell phone.. my boyfriend has a cell phone and my three teenagers have cell phones. But we use them responsibly.
 
Well said, Heretic. Rude people are rude, no matter what they are doing. I have been know to complain to the manager at the movies when people are yacking on their phones & if I were in the grocery store & the checker was talking, I would have had a manager there the minute she touched the phone. I love my cel phone, but I am considerate about the people around me. I have voice mail, so when we are at the movies or out to dinner, it will take messages. The ringer is set very low & can be set on vibrate. When my dad was in the hospital, it was invaluable for us. I feel much safer when I travel knowing that I can call if I have car trouble. Most of the teens I know have a cel phone & know the rules for using it.
 
A lot of those people you see driving and using the cell phone or at restaurants using the cell phone are using them for work purposes. Some of the blame should also go to companies who expect their employees to work longer and longer hours and to be available 24/7.
 
If humans were meant to be in constant contact with each other, God would have given us ESP.

TB4p
 
teddybear4play said:
If humans were meant to be in constant contact with each other, God would have given us ESP.

TB4p

If humans were meant to communicate over long distances god would have given us the internet...

Oh wait...

:rolleyes:
 
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