'Cause I gotta say something somewhere!

[Caressa]

Yes...another vent thread!

So, I found out very recently that one of my closest friends is cheating on his girlfriend....who also happens to be one of the other closest friends. GRRRRR....

The awful thing is I totally saw this coming - I know the girl who is the other woman - the three of us worked together this past summer...

It frustrates me so much because I KNOW that I have to stay out of it...but I never wanted my two friends to date anyway...I always thought it was a bad idea...plus I was a little jealous. And - he's done this before...dating two girls in different states. And from what I understand the "new g/f" thinks he's broken up with his "old g/f" - and the "old" g/f thinks he's just still hung up on his "ex love of his life". (Sometimes life is too much of a soap opera)


Ok...that feels a little better...

 

[Wiggles]

{{Hugs}}

What a horrible situation to be put in!

Poor thing!

 

[Caressa]

Thanks Wiggly! You are always so good to me.

but the thing that really gets me...is I don't know how to act around this guy now...not that I see him often...but when I call his "old' g/f and he's over there and she puts him on the phone...I don't know to act as if things are normal...or get all short and snippy....such a fine line...

 

[Wizard]

See no evil , Hear no evil, do no evil......................Stay out of it if you know all 3 .......well lets say nothing good is going to come out of this!!!!!!!
This will blow up him just give it time.....
If you like your friendship then let it run it's coarse..........I know it can be hard but thats my thoughts..............

 

[Caressa]

See no evil , Hear no evil, do no evil......................Stay out of it if you know all 3 .......well lets say nothing good is going to come out of this!!!!!!!
This will blow up him just give it time.....
If you like your friendship then let it run it's coarse..........I know it can be hard but thats my thoughts..............

Thanks Wizard...

I'm doing my very best to stay out of it....which was I said something here and not to anyone else I know...I certainly don't want to make the situation worse - and I don't want to get in the middle of it (even though I feel like I'm somewhere on the edge of the middle)

 

[Guest]

Don't you think it will come out that you knew what was going on and said nothing? Don't think I'd be counting you as a friend of mine if you let something like that go on without telling me. Give the other friend some warning if you want. Let them know that you consider that person a friend and can't in good concious let her be hurt like that. I'd rather have friends I could count on than have ones that don't want to be involved.

 

[Caressa]

as much as I understand where you are coming from...this is hard for me because it involves 3 friends....yes...all three of them are my friends with two of them being two of my closest friends. How do you choose in that situation....and as much as I want to keep people from being hurt....I really don't think I should get involved...it doesn't involve me directly...and I think Wizard is right...all will be resolved eventually...and those who deserve it will get what's coming to them.

But being silent still isn't easy.

 

[Wizard]

Caressa, the way this sounds it isn't going to take to long either.........

You stand to loose either way...........For me, the best hope is to let things run it's own coarse.................