Cant Cum !!! need help!!
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doublebull
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I would like to help you with your situation . I can make no guarantees except one - I will do my best to help you figure out what to do . Seriously .
I would like to help you with your situation . I can make no guarantees except one - I will do my best to help you figure out what to do . Seriously .
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Dr Ruth says...
Why not try masturbating at the same time as you're having sex, Army Girl? Clitoral stimulation is the key and you don't really get much of that from penetration alone. Also - like the saying goes "the brain is the biggest sex organ". Are you thinking the right thoughts - getting yourself turned on with wicked little fantasies? Maybe talking dirty to each other could work for you. Another thing - are you relaxed when you're having sex? Why not ask your lover to pamper you a bit beforehand - maybe give you a full-body massage with talc or lotion?
Why not try masturbating at the same time as you're having sex, Army Girl? Clitoral stimulation is the key and you don't really get much of that from penetration alone. Also - like the saying goes "the brain is the biggest sex organ". Are you thinking the right thoughts - getting yourself turned on with wicked little fantasies? Maybe talking dirty to each other could work for you. Another thing - are you relaxed when you're having sex? Why not ask your lover to pamper you a bit beforehand - maybe give you a full-body massage with talc or lotion?
First things first, its not so unusual a situation as you make out to be, you dont have to get so mad with yourself.
a pussycat that runs around the pole trying to reach its tail will never manage to catch it. But if it leaves the tail alone and goes on wherever it feels like, the tail will follow.
one cant get high on drinks while one is focusing on that aim.
has a monk every achieved enlightenment while consciously thinking about it, not really! it will flash by as a lightning unannounced.
i suggest you let things flow naturally, just do what you feel you enjoy most while having sex and the bliss will follow sometime soon. If other stimulation pleases you more do that, if dirty thoughts and words give you the kick do that, but do it for pleasure not just mechanically and the reward will come gushing unexpectedly one of these days to flood you with happiness ...
a pussycat that runs around the pole trying to reach its tail will never manage to catch it. But if it leaves the tail alone and goes on wherever it feels like, the tail will follow.
one cant get high on drinks while one is focusing on that aim.
has a monk every achieved enlightenment while consciously thinking about it, not really! it will flash by as a lightning unannounced.
i suggest you let things flow naturally, just do what you feel you enjoy most while having sex and the bliss will follow sometime soon. If other stimulation pleases you more do that, if dirty thoughts and words give you the kick do that, but do it for pleasure not just mechanically and the reward will come gushing unexpectedly one of these days to flood you with happiness ...
Skitten
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I think you are worrying to much about it. First off if you just started having sex, you probally are a little worried and overly enthused so relax. It will happen just don't get overly anxious that it isn't now. I don't know how old you are but you have to give your body a chance. Theese are different feelings that your body is having so try to be patient it will happen and when it does it will be worth it.
insideShiraz
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Dictionary in one hand...
Cock in the other...
Cock in the other...
Now there is a reason why i like fucking older women - cause they know what to do to enjoy themselves and cum silly.
Maybe you need a little time to learn about your body and sex and what you like. Try fantasizing. I know most women would like to try 3somes with another man, try it while you have sex (with a dildo) maybe. Who Knows ??
Maybe you need a little time to learn about your body and sex and what you like. Try fantasizing. I know most women would like to try 3somes with another man, try it while you have sex (with a dildo) maybe. Who Knows ??
