Can Sex ever bet "mature"?
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YinandYang
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I think its impossible to 'grow up' where anything is concerned, we spend our whole lives learning and experiencing, so I don't think sex should be any different. Whether someone is a virgin and fantasising about their first time, or mature and 'experienced' there is always something to learn. People have such different things to offer in any situation it would be futile to expect a person to be 'grown up'. Maybe the words this person should have used is 'bring yourself up to my expectation', which is kind of to do with them not you. After all if we go around with expectations sooner or later our ideals will be shattered.
I think you should be just who you are, be happy with yourself and enjoy your experiences. You sound very grown up to me....The journey is as important as the destination, and anyway learning in a sexual way is fun
I think you should be just who you are, be happy with yourself and enjoy your experiences. You sound very grown up to me....The journey is as important as the destination, and anyway learning in a sexual way is fun
LadyNatasha
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To me, sexually 'grown up' would denote responsible. I care about my health and yours, I take care not to become pregnant, or to catch/spread anything communicable, etc. Creativity doesn't really age per se, IMO. If anything, as it matures it would become richer and fuller.
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In my opinion to be a "grown up" or "mature" about sex , even if these are not exactly the words I'd use to define it, means simply an higher degree of awareness about oneself , being able to follow one's own desires with more consciousness and less fears .
Of course it is not a matter of age but rather about experiences and innate capability to relate in all honesty with the true inner person one is without cheat with others but mainly with oneself.
Some people get there very early in life, others never get there , some others ..like me for exemple try to make a journey in themselves with the hope to get somewhere soon or later !
But the one above is just a personal thought
Of course it is not a matter of age but rather about experiences and innate capability to relate in all honesty with the true inner person one is without cheat with others but mainly with oneself.
Some people get there very early in life, others never get there , some others ..like me for exemple try to make a journey in themselves with the hope to get somewhere soon or later !
But the one above is just a personal thought
