Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank?

[iotlin]

1. Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank; higher rank because of age, femdom experience, financial and social power? All while staying dominant over the subs who serve her?

2. Or should a mistress always be seen in dominant positions of power by their subs? Imagine a sub witnessing his mistress being a submissive slut to a mistress of higher rank, would that be a turn off for the submissive?

3. Do you know of any erotic stories where a mistress is dominant over her subs, but is submissive to the mistresses above her in rank, and that story turned out to be an incredible turn on?

If someone could help answer these questions it'd be greatly appreciated, thanks!

 

[Ashesh9]

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1. Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank; higher rank because of age, femdom experience, financial and social power? All while staying dominant over the subs who serve her?

2. Or should a mistress always be seen in dominant positions of power by their subs? Imagine a sub witnessing his mistress being a submissive slut to a mistress of higher rank, would that be a turn off for the submissive?

3. Do you know of any erotic stories where a mistress is dominant over her subs, but is submissive to the mistresses above her in rank, and that story turned out to be an incredible turn on?

If someone could help answer these questions it'd be greatly appreciated, thanks!

Dr. Richard vonKrafft-ebbing the authority on Fetishism and sexual deviance has convincingly said " Nothing is Normal, impossible or unbelievable in the realm of Human sexuality!"
So thus yes it is entirely probable a Stern Dominatrix can lie meekly across lap of her Domme taking a painful OTK spanking/paddling meekly like a Good Girl!!!
the famous Canuck blogger Julie of Julie Spanks fame is both Mistress to her slaveboy hubby David as well as meek Sub to many Doms of both genders!!!!

 

[supercollider00]

There's really no rules except safe, sane and consensual. People that like do dom and submit tend to be called switches. One might be more towards to the Dom/me axis or sub, it's really all up to that person's personal preferences.

As for your second question, as a submissive, I'm not turned off knowing that my Goddess is a switch. I have no issues with that, quite the contrary really. I just want her to be happy in whatever capacity is necessary.

 

[Primalex]

1. Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank; higher rank because of age, femdom experience, financial and social power? All while staying dominant over the subs who serve her?

Yes - that is how I organize my plethora of submissives.

I'm at the top (obviously), then I pick a personal assistant, who is submissive to me and dominant partner in crime to the next lower level. Women are much better to keep the lower levels in check; they are ruthless.

2. Or should a mistress always be seen in dominant positions of power by their subs? Imagine a sub witnessing his mistress being a submissive slut to a mistress of higher rank, would that be a turn off for the submissive?

Well, there is no way to have a group of people without problems and without tensions. Humans are not ants. It takes effort to establish and maintain the pecking order - the law of entropy. Of course, you have to be careful and think all your actions through. If you humiliate your upper level so much in front of the lower level that the whole lower level revolts under her leadership, then you have screwed up. And the upper level needs to get preferential treatment; like, when you ravage the body of an upper level, they get water in an actual glass afterwards, unlike when you do this with a lower level.

3. Do you know of any erotic stories where a mistress is dominant over her subs, but is submissive to the mistresses above her in rank, and that story turned out to be an incredible turn on?

No, sorry.

 

[Ginlover]

It’s up to the people in the dynamic.

I’ve a friend who was in a LTR with his sub. She was Domme to several women but always submissive to her male dominant. They were in a poly dynamic. I know another male dominant with several play partners and ongoing dynamics with female submissives who every few months visits a a dominatrix for a heavy S&M session which leaves him with open wounds from the impact play he receives.

The ‘rankings’ are purely a decision for the people involved to decide.,

 

[touche]

doesn't it also depend on the consent between Her and Her sub and that/those between her and her Dom(me)(s)?

I don't think 'consent' per se is necessary between the Domme and her sub beyond moving outside of their relationship. (i.e. not cheating) As someone else mentioned a person can certainly desire both side of the coin. I consider myself a Switch. I'm definitely submissive to my Husband/Sir and honestly it would feel strange trying to Domme him. That's not the dynamic we have. Someone who is a sub would/should understand the desire to submit, but needs to accept that their partner may not be able to flip the script and submit to their sub or Dom their Dom/me.

Communication is key!!!

 

[IrisAlthea]

I don't think 'consent' per se is necessary between the Domme and her sub beyond moving outside of their relationship. (i.e. not cheating) As someone else mentioned a person can certainly desire both side of the coin. I consider myself a Switch. I'm definitely submissive to my Husband/Sir and honestly it would feel strange trying to Domme him. That's not the dynamic we have. Someone who is a sub would/should understand the desire to submit, but needs to accept that their partner may not be able to flip the script and submit to their sub or Dom their Dom/me.

Communication is key!!!

The talk of higher rank, makes me think of a hierarchy. That would mean that the newly instated ”higher rank” would have an influence on those already submissive to what would now become…middle management, I suppose?
I’d agree with Anja, that this would require informed consent, either beforehand about it being a possibility or when the issue comes up.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Look, I know I’m new to some of this, but ‘rank’???
Are there uniforms and officers?

Yes. The Great Kink Organisation is known by many names around the world, committee meetings are quarterly, subcommittee meetings monthly. Please PayPal me your subscription of $500 for the year. Those mysterious manor houses and all those servants don't come from nowhere, you know.

You know how in any hobby there are people who take it way too fucking seriously, whether that's obsessing over spotting trains at 5am, or baking 20 cakes before taking one to a party, or droning on about the historical significance of tango so no-one wants to be their partner in the dance class?

BDSM has a lot of them. Possibly many of the same people who took live role-playing way too fucking seriously when they were younger.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

1. Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank; higher rank because of age, femdom experience, financial and social power? All while staying dominant over the subs who serve her?

2. Or should a mistress always be seen in dominant positions of power by their subs? Imagine a sub witnessing his mistress being a submissive slut to a mistress of higher rank, would that be a turn off for the submissive?

3. Do you know of any erotic stories where a mistress is dominant over her subs, but is submissive to the mistresses above her in rank, and that story turned out to be an incredible turn on?

If someone could help answer these questions it'd be greatly appreciated, thanks!

I was once the submissive male to a woman who was a submissive to a very dominate man. She made it clear that anything she owned was his property. I was hers so I was his.

 

[Mrmusings45]

1. Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank; higher rank because of age, femdom experience, financial and social power? All while staying dominant over the subs who serve her?

2. Or should a mistress always be seen in dominant positions of power by their subs? Imagine a sub witnessing his mistress being a submissive slut to a mistress of higher rank, would that be a turn off for the submissive?

3. Do you know of any erotic stories where a mistress is dominant over her subs, but is submissive to the mistresses above her in rank, and that story turned out to be an incredible turn on?

If someone could help answer these questions it'd be greatly appreciated,

1. Can a mistress become submissive to mistresses of higher rank; higher rank because of age, femdom experience, financial and social power? All while staying dominant over the subs who serve her?

2. Or should a mistress always be seen in dominant positions of power by their subs? Imagine a sub witnessing his mistress being a submissive slut to a mistress of higher rank, would that be a turn off for the submissive?

3. Do you know of any erotic stories where a mistress is dominant over her subs, but is submissive to the mistresses above her in rank, and that story turned out to be an incredible turn on?

If someone could help answer these questions it'd be greatly appreciated, thanks!

We see this dynamic in every other relationship: your teacher at school is BOTH dominant over students and submissive to the principal. Your supervisor at work is BOTH dominant over her staff and submissive to her boss (but probably no spanking).

For me personally, I think it would damage the relationship if a lady I answered to was humiliated or degraded in public, or in front of me. But it would reinforce her authority to see that she herself is under the authority of someone else.