Can a Man be Faithful....?

[babs_2k3]

I was just wondering if it's true that all men will cheat at one point or are their actually genuine men who will stay faithful forever?

Thankyou for your views
babs x

 

[Cerberus666]

yes

 

[Lasher]

Faithfull? No.

Faithful? Of course.

 

[babs_2k3]

Thankyou for the correction...

 

[Olivianna]

Why does being "genuine" rest on marital fidelity?

Anyway, of course there are men who will be faithful in relationships - heterosexual or homosexual - though in my view and experience 50 years of monogamy (assuming that is the length of a marriage beginning in one's 20s) is unlikely to happen (in many cases, but of course does occur).

 

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[babs_2k3]

hello hanns thanx for your contribution.

 

[The Heretic]

Sorry, I tend to ignore rhetorical questions posed all by themselves.

 

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[babs_2k3]

i seriously think someone should take the stick out your ass for you...seems to be making you a little to ratty......have a good day

 

[Olivianna]

Yes, all men can be faithful, if they want to be.

A man who truely loves his mate, and knows how infidelity would hurt her, would do anything he can to keep her happy. That includes having sex with her and her/him only.

It does seem that way - but then how to explain infidelity in marriages, where the infidelity doesn't even begin until 30 years of marriage? Is the man who commits such infidelity a monster? What if the man is not capable of only thinking of his partner, but must think as well of his own need for love and intimacy (which he may not be getting from his own wife)? What I'm trying to communicate is that it doesn't just boil down to love or the desire to be faithful, that things are far more complicated (as if they could be more complicated than love) and that the result of such complications are far too often extra-marital affairs.

 

[babs_2k3]

most of you talk of love....how do u truly know love exists, i dont believe there is one person who could honestly say i was NEVER tempted to cheat. It doesnt matter whether they cheat at this point or not, its mainly the thought.......To think of it is to want it and to want it is to need it.....if u know what i mean.

 

[agezinder]

Of all the men I've known (not slept with), I only know a handful who would be faithful.

The other question is...can a woman be faithful?

 

[babs_2k3]

i feel a woman is more likely to be faithful for security or the feeling of 'love', yet if she finds another male who could furfill her needs better than her 'lover' then the temptation does arise............then most of the time id say they take the same path as the man. So far i have been faithfull to my b/f of 5 years..but...you never know whats around the corner.

 

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[babs_2k3]

hanns what the fuck r u on???

 

[agezinder]

Hanns, why the foul attitude? Did your man cheat on you? Is he not faithful?

 

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[babs_2k3]

hanns, whats wrong werent you breast fed as a baby?

you wouldnt be lucky enough to get my ma mate.....LMAO