Fallen Angel
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Nov 22, 1999
- Posts
- 350
As the proud daddy of four girls it is my pleasure to say this is what life is all about.
I really don't know what we did for entertainment till the little ones came but the clubs and nights out don't hold a candle to watching a little one discover the world for the first time. Listening to their discoveries as they make friends and learn to do new things. Lets see first pet, first bike, first boyfriend. first broken heart, first prom, first night away from home. Yeah mine are getting older now soon it will be weddings and grandbabies. (Grandkids, the really good reason to have kids of your own)
Money is always a problem but what good is it if there is no one to leave it to. In fact it would seem that one of our main purposes in life is to pass on what we have learned to the next ones in line. True it doesn't have to be your own kids or even kids at all.
There is nothing in the world as great or as frustrating as kids unless it is husbands and wives.
If kids are what you want then I hope that you get them but time is running out. Sit the hubby down and have a long looong talk. It may be that you never have biological kids even if you try but trying may be the only way to save the marriage that you have now.
"It was so important to me, that I wouldn't have married him otherwise."
Good Luck
I really don't know what we did for entertainment till the little ones came but the clubs and nights out don't hold a candle to watching a little one discover the world for the first time. Listening to their discoveries as they make friends and learn to do new things. Lets see first pet, first bike, first boyfriend. first broken heart, first prom, first night away from home. Yeah mine are getting older now soon it will be weddings and grandbabies. (Grandkids, the really good reason to have kids of your own)
Money is always a problem but what good is it if there is no one to leave it to. In fact it would seem that one of our main purposes in life is to pass on what we have learned to the next ones in line. True it doesn't have to be your own kids or even kids at all.
There is nothing in the world as great or as frustrating as kids unless it is husbands and wives.
If kids are what you want then I hope that you get them but time is running out. Sit the hubby down and have a long looong talk. It may be that you never have biological kids even if you try but trying may be the only way to save the marriage that you have now.
"It was so important to me, that I wouldn't have married him otherwise."
Good Luck