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MagicaPractica said:
I got the Haagen Dazs and it's not nearly as good as the Friendly's I had a month ago. More like vanilla ice cream with pecans.

How are you? Did I see you were getting together with your Mother to tell her the divorce was in the works? Or was I reading someone else's post about getting together with their Mother?
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I did say I was getting together with my mother tonight for dinner to discuss stuff.

What I didn't know was that I would be telling my husband that I want a divorce tonight, which I did.
 
shadowdame said:
I did say I was getting together with my mother tonight for dinner to discuss stuff.

What I didn't know was that I would be telling my husband that I want a divorce tonight, which I did.
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:rose: How are you?
 
shadowdame said:
I did say I was getting together with my mother tonight for dinner to discuss stuff.

What I didn't know was that I would be telling my husband that I want a divorce tonight, which I did.
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Jeez SD.... how did that go. {{{{HUGS}}}}
 
shadowdame said:
Not that good, I didn't think it would hurt as much as it is.
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Do you think that on some level, in some way, you hoped he might protest and try to make things better?

I think that even if you don't mourn the loss of what was, you lose the hope for what might have been. Either one is bound to be painful. You've been trying for a long time to build a good life with him. Even when you give up on the consious level, there's always a little hope buried deep inside. (Then again, I don't know you well enough to say that so those are just some possibilities based on human nature.)

Give yourself time to be sad. Don't push it away.
 
shadowdame said:
Pretty much how I thought it would. He isn't going to fight me on it.
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I'm so sorry to hear that your hurting... I know it's hard. You do know that if you want/need to talk I'm here for you. You've been there for me when I needed someone, so now it's my turn. Have plenty of tissues on hand if we need them. I really hope all turns out in the end for you. {{{{hugs}}} :rose:
 
Shadowdame ~ I have to go but I just wanted to say, take care of yourself, not theoretically but in every way. Take time for yourself. Surround yourself with those who know you well and love you. Do something to pamper yourself. Doing what is good for yourself doesn't necessarily feel good so doing something to help yourself feel good too. Hope to talk with you again soon. :rose:
 
MagicaPractica said:
Do you think that on some level, in some way, you hoped he might protest and try to make things better?

I think that even if you don't mourn the loss of what was, you lose the hope for what might have been. Either one is bound to be painful. You've been trying for a long time to build a good life with him. Even when you give up on the consious level, there's always a little hope buried deep inside. (Then again, I don't know you well enough to say that so those are just some possibilities based on human nature.)

Give yourself time to be sad. Don't push it away.
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I knew he wouldn't protest, but I can't control how I react to him and I always react negatively. I mourn the past 20 years and the fact that I can't get them back. The only good that has come out of this is my two girls and the fact that I've become stronger, more confident, but I still have a long way to go.
 
:rose: Hello Mz Shadow ( It is me ) Baby ...My dragon is here & I am using his sn LOL !!!
How are you doing hon?? .. I sure do miss talking with you .. < remember it's me BABY !! ) lol :rose:
*************Mz . Shadow ....Baby Hugs*************** :rose:
 
damn it! I leave for a week and eveyone goes nuts on me .... LL is gone :(
and SD needs someone hold her as she cries... I know what your are going through SD I was there, I was at the brink. I can remember the feelings when I felt that my marriage was over.

I was lucky, I have been given one last chance to make things right again.

I know that in your situatuion that is not possible. It will hurt like the devil itself is tearing your heart out. Try not to dwell on what was, or what could have been but rather the path that is now open before you. every change in life has its share of pain, and joy. it makes us who we are. You have a good support system here on LIT. Use it

on a side note: I'm fine, no really. My jobs are long and tireing,but worth the sacarfices I am making for the good of my family as well as to myself. My and the wife a rekindling the love that I thought I had lost. I may return to lit on a regular basis in the near future. Till then I keep an eye on this thread... just in case....

MMS: Love the FFX2 Avatar :D
 
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{[shadow}}}}}}}}}}}}} hope you're feeling a bit better today.


Hey Thump! {{{{{{{MMS}}}}}}}, Keiffers, Raja, MP ... who'd I miss?
 
Gypsybyrd said:
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{[shadow}}}}}}}}}}}}} hope you're feeling a bit better today.


Hey Thump! {{{{{{{MMS}}}}}}}, Keiffers, Raja, MP ... who'd I miss?
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Hey GB.... how's your day been?

Hi to everybody else!!!! :nana: :nana:
 
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