Calling all BBW's

[Calibetsy]

just a hunch they might be the one with the problem. Guys can feel the peer pressure to an epic pitch and fold like a tent, personally walking arm and arm with someone like you would produce a tent instead.

I agree that in high school there is a lot of peer pressure to fit in but by the same token if they like big girls then there not going to stop. So they can either grow up and admit what they like, or take a chance on missing something special. You can' follow your friends all your life and if they're true friends all that matters to them should be whether or not your happy not what the girl on your arm looks like. And if more high school guys admitted their desire they would probably get laid a lot more.

And on the subject of high school jokes admitting they like big girls my next story on Lit covers just that and also who truly wins out in the end.

 

[snowhugs]

Good afternoon everyone

 

[ronv59]

Good afternoon everyone

good morning snowhugs. how are ya doing today?

 

[snowhugs]

good morning snowhugs. how are ya doing today?

im going well thanks, how are you?

 

[ronv59]

im going well thanks, how are you?

not bad. feeling frisky as usual.

 

[A Kilted Rogue]

Just found this thread wondering why I missed it before, anyway I am a BBW and I have had more than my share of esteem issues past and present. I have found guys who like to sleep with me but not date me it's the moped syndrom...both are fun to ride until your friends see you. But I finally decided fuck em if you don't want your friends know you like me I ain't gonna be fucking you and surpising they get very touchy when you turn them down. Grow up little boys high school is over. And it's their lose because I am totally sensual(?) completely comfortable in my sexuality and damn good in bed

May I ask a question?

I understand that this is Literotica and all that it represents. Are there that many guys out there interested in BBWs just for sex? I always thought there was more to a woman than just a few parts. An acquaintance of mine on another thread has in her signature a line that states 'The world is full of guys. Be a man, don't be a guy'. Are there not enough of us out there trying to fulfill the better part of that line? I know what I have to offer, and sex just isn't on top of that list. Some times I just don't understand others in my gender, and am downright ashamed of them.

On behalf of they guys of the world, a wholesale apology from the men of the world.

s to the lovely ladies of Lit.

KR

 

[foofoo416]

May I ask a question?

I understand that this is Literotica and all that it represents. Are there that many guys out there interested in BBWs just for sex? I always thought there was more to a woman than just a few parts. An acquaintance of mine on another thread has in her signature a line that states 'The world is full of guys. Be a man, don't be a guy'. Are there not enough of us out there trying to fulfill the better part of that line? I know what I have to offer, and sex just isn't on top of that list. Some times I just don't understand others in my gender, and am downright ashamed of them.

On behalf of they guys of the world, a wholesale apology from the men of the world.

s to the lovely ladies of Lit.

KR

Wow! What a wonderful thing to say. I'm sure many ladies on here will be loving you for that! In answer to your question: yes, there are tons of shallow men who look for bigger girls on the side for quickies, one night stands, or even mistresses. Not all of them are closet bbw lovers either, some of them are looking for us because it has gotten around that we are easy because we are grateful. So grateful that a man is actually speaking to us, that we will do anything kinky to keep him around. It couldn't possibly be because we are sensual, sexual beings...full of lustiness and appreciation for what makes us feel good. Of course not! It's all based on needing any man to make us feel normal!(I really hope the sarcasm is coming off here) And we're not choosy at all, no no. Any man will do! LOL. It would be funnier if I didn't actually know people who thought like this. My husband actually told me once that there is a bunch of guys he works with who will go out looking just for big girls when they want an easy lay. They actually call it "going hogging"! Can you believe that shit! I love it when a man can appreciate a big girl, or see the beauty in all shapes and sizes. But doing that sort of thing is just sick. And what is sick is that so many of these women just think that they have met a cool guy and had a good time, a nice sexy consensual fun time. No idea that is what's going thru their mind. I absolutely hate men like that, and to me they are the ones that make it hard to trust new people. Of course, they are not all like that, and seeing someone on here like you is so lovely. Just wish there wasn't such ugliness out there, spoiling it for everyone else.

 

[michaelinteas]

for some reason I have missed this thread, but I am glad to have found it.

There are some very good opinions here.


I JUST LOVE BBW'S

 

[foofoo416]

for some reason I have missed this thread, but I am glad to have found it.

There are some very good opinions here.


I JUST LOVE BBW'S

I know you do baby! You are one of the few loud and proud! Beautiful!

 

[aching1]

My husband actually told me once that there is a bunch of guys he works with who will go out looking just for big girls when they want an easy lay. They actually call it "going hogging"! Can you believe that shit!

Yeah.. I've heard of that too!

 

[babydoll2u]

May I ask a question?

I understand that this is Literotica and all that it represents. Are there that many guys out there interested in BBWs just for sex? I always thought there was more to a woman than just a few parts. An acquaintance of mine on another thread has in her signature a line that states 'The world is full of guys. Be a man, don't be a guy'. Are there not enough of us out there trying to fulfill the better part of that line? I know what I have to offer, and sex just isn't on top of that list. Some times I just don't understand others in my gender, and am downright ashamed of them.

On behalf of they guys of the world, a wholesale apology from the men of the world.

s to the lovely ladies of Lit.

KR

yes sweetheart... there are many, MANY men out there, who are interested in BBW's just for the sex. Unfortunately, I know this from experience.

 

[babydoll2u]

Wow! What a wonderful thing to say. I'm sure many ladies on here will be loving you for that! In answer to your question: yes, there are tons of shallow men who look for bigger girls on the side for quickies, one night stands, or even mistresses. Not all of them are closet bbw lovers either, some of them are looking for us because it has gotten around that we are easy because we are grateful. So grateful that a man is actually speaking to us, that we will do anything kinky to keep him around. It couldn't possibly be because we are sensual, sexual beings...full of lustiness and appreciation for what makes us feel good. Of course not! It's all based on needing any man to make us feel normal!(I really hope the sarcasm is coming off here) And we're not choosy at all, no no. Any man will do! LOL. It would be funnier if I didn't actually know people who thought like this. My husband actually told me once that there is a bunch of guys he works with who will go out looking just for big girls when they want an easy lay. They actually call it "going hogging"! Can you believe that shit! I love it when a man can appreciate a big girl, or see the beauty in all shapes and sizes. But doing that sort of thing is just sick. And what is sick is that so many of these women just think that they have met a cool guy and had a good time, a nice sexy consensual fun time. No idea that is what's going thru their mind. I absolutely hate men like that, and to me they are the ones that make it hard to trust new people. Of course, they are not all like that, and seeing someone on here like you is so lovely. Just wish there wasn't such ugliness out there, spoiling it for everyone else.

I couldn't have said it better myself.

UNfortunately, there are men on here who come off sounding just like Kilted and you meet them and they turn out to be just like all the other men... I know from experience.

I hate phrases like "more pushin' to the cushion" and other hideous phrases they come up with.

Just my .02 cents

 

[A Kilted Rogue]

I couldn't have said it better myself.

UNfortunately, there are men on here who come off sounding just like Kilted and you meet them and they turn out to be just like all the other men... I know from experience.

I hate phrases like "more pushin' to the cushion" and other hideous phrases they come up with.

Just my .02 cents

I don't know if I should be offended by that! Maybe I'm reading into it too much...help! <grabbing an umbrella for all the rain that might fall>



KR

 

[Calibetsy]

I don't know if I should be offended by that! Maybe I'm reading into it too much...help! <grabbing an umbrella for all the rain that might fall>



KR

I dont think she intended for you to be offended. However what she was saying is that I suspect most BBW's have found a man not a guy and thought that they truly meant it until he got what he was after and then suddenly the guy was back. I too have had people play in my yard and then go home to their own. I actually had a guy tell me that he was glad he was with me cause this way he could fuck me and his girlfriend could stay a virgin. Never did get that one and he never got anything after that remark.
I also think that no matter how much self esteem you have as a BBW it seldon takes more than one of two remarks to break it all down again. When we finally come across real love we wind up losing it because we refused to believe it can happen to us.

 

[A Kilted Rogue]

I dont think she intended for you to be offended. However what she was saying is that I suspect most BBW's have found a man not a guy and thought that they truly meant it until he got what he was after and then suddenly the guy was back. I too have had people play in my yard and then go home to their own. I actually had a guy tell me that he was glad he was with me cause this way he could fuck me and his girlfriend could stay a virgin. Never did get that one and he never got anything after that remark.
I also think that no matter how much self esteem you have as a BBW it seldon takes more than one of two remarks to break it all down again. When we finally come across real love we wind up losing it because we refused to believe it can happen to us.

Wow...are we collectively as a society that screwed up? All we hear preached is 'tolerance, acceptance, diversity', yet things like you say still happen...no wonder so many believe in the 'me first' mentality, and men like me get left in the dust. <sigh> Maybe I need to change my approach somehow...



KR

 

[josephanthony69]

If we look around us and saw only stud muffins and nubiles wouldn't life become very, very boring? Only another opinion here, but, most men or guys really do let the little head rule their world some of the time ~~ HOWEVER, is that to say women or gals don't do the same with their wide on? Yes there is the one true love thing, but in today's society, monogamy can become boring ~~ so why does it have to be one? why only love? why not just good old healthy lust relief? why are there so many 6 month and out relationships? If 2 or more people are having fun and enjoying one another's company, why does sex have to screw it up? Why can't it just be a normal part of the normal desires we (men and women) all feel and be ok? Why is it bad to enjoy sex with more than one person (other than disease, pregnancy etc.)? When there are 2,3,4 or more willing participants why are the guys called dogs and the women sluts? Why can't they just enjoy the moment. Medical dorctors have said numerous times it's good for the complexion, good for the blood pressure, good to releave cramps and even good for the prostrate!!

In the early '70's I seem to remember a term called "free love" and if my CRS doesn't act up, I also think it was really "free lust". Men, women, guys and gals all expressed themselves and there seemed to be a lot of "oh wow" going on!!

Another question that always bothered me ~~ if men can never see past a woman's breast/ass/legs is it also true that women can not see past a guy's abs/crotch/ass?

Make love not war!! lol...ok..so I'm getting really retro and remember, it's only one guy's questions.

Wow...are we collectively as a society that screwed up? All we hear preached is 'tolerance, acceptance, diversity', yet things like you say still happen...no wonder so many believe in the 'me first' mentality, and men like me get left in the dust. <sigh> Maybe I need to change my approach somehow...



KR

 

[babydoll2u]

I don't know if I should be offended by that! Maybe I'm reading into it too much...help! <grabbing an umbrella for all the rain that might fall>



KR

OMG No! Don't be offended... I'm not saying that YOU are like that... not at all! I've read your posts on the various BBW threads... I know better

 

[babydoll2u]

I dont think she intended for you to be offended. However what she was saying is that I suspect most BBW's have found a man not a guy and thought that they truly meant it until he got what he was after and then suddenly the guy was back. I too have had people play in my yard and then go home to their own. I actually had a guy tell me that he was glad he was with me cause this way he could fuck me and his girlfriend could stay a virgin. Never did get that one and he never got anything after that remark.
I also think that no matter how much self esteem you have as a BBW it seldon takes more than one of two remarks to break it all down again. When we finally come across real love we wind up losing it because we refused to believe it can happen to us.

again... I couldn't have said it better myself (and I tried!)...

 

[babydoll2u]

If we look around us and saw only stud muffins and nubiles wouldn't life become very, very boring? Only another opinion here, but, most men or guys really do let the little head rule their world some of the time ~~ HOWEVER, is that to say women or gals don't do the same with their wide on? Yes there is the one true love thing, but in today's society, monogamy can become boring ~~ so why does it have to be one? why only love? why not just good old healthy lust relief? why are there so many 6 month and out relationships? If 2 or more people are having fun and enjoying one another's company, why does sex have to screw it up? Why can't it just be a normal part of the normal desires we (men and women) all feel and be ok? Why is it bad to enjoy sex with more than one person (other than disease, pregnancy etc.)? When there are 2,3,4 or more willing participants why are the guys called dogs and the women sluts? Why can't they just enjoy the moment. Medical dorctors have said numerous times it's good for the complexion, good for the blood pressure, good to releave cramps and even good for the prostrate!!

In the early '70's I seem to remember a term called "free love" and if my CRS doesn't act up, I also think it was really "free lust". Men, women, guys and gals all expressed themselves and there seemed to be a lot of "oh wow" going on!!

Another question that always bothered me ~~ if men can never see past a woman's breast/ass/legs is it also true that women can not see past a guy's abs/crotch/ass?

Make love not war!! lol...ok..so I'm getting really retro and remember, it's only one guy's questions.

well I'm not that way.... personality, what's on the inside of a man, counts for much MUCH more than what's on the outside, tho the outside does help, but it's not even close to everything.

As for free love, or just sex to relieve lust or tension.... no thank you! Way too dangerous, too many diseases, too many screwballs out there. I won't have sex with just anyone, just to relieve some tension. As I've stated on other threads, if there's no connection, no friendship (at the VERY least), then there's no sex. What good is casual sex? To me, THAT is what's boring !! No feelings involved? No closeness? No commitments? No RESPONSIBILITY? If I wanted sex just so I can relieve some tension, I can take care of myself. I HATE casual sex... it's so.... boring.

 

[HouseToy]

BHM with appetite

Just popping in to say hi...another confessing BHM with a healthy appetite for women. fwiw, women that acknowledge their size.. and are ok with it, have been great to know. Size has never been the problem, attitude (small and large) certainly is.

<done preaching to the choir>

 

[Calibetsy]

If we look around us and saw only stud muffins and nubiles wouldn't life become very, very boring? Only another opinion here, but, most men or guys really do let the little head rule their world some of the time ~~ HOWEVER, is that to say women or gals don't do the same with their wide on? Yes there is the one true love thing, but in today's society, monogamy can become boring ~~ so why does it have to be one? why only love? why not just good old healthy lust relief? why are there so many 6 month and out relationships? If 2 or more people are having fun and enjoying one another's company, why does sex have to screw it up? Why can't it just be a normal part of the normal desires we (men and women) all feel and be ok? Why is it bad to enjoy sex with more than one person (other than disease, pregnancy etc.)? When there are 2,3,4 or more willing participants why are the guys called dogs and the women sluts? Why can't they just enjoy the moment. Medical dorctors have said numerous times it's good for the complexion, good for the blood pressure, good to releave cramps and even good for the prostrate!!

In the early '70's I seem to remember a term called "free love" and if my CRS doesn't act up, I also think it was really "free lust". Men, women, guys and gals all expressed themselves and there seemed to be a lot of "oh wow" going on!!

Another question that always bothered me ~~ if men can never see past a woman's breast/ass/legs is it also true that women can not see past a guy's abs/crotch/ass?

Make love not war!! lol...ok..so I'm getting really retro and remember, it's only one guy's questions.

I don't think short term relationship are wrong I think there great actually. But when we're talking about the guy/man thing it isn't about a sort term relationship men have relationship no matter the length...guys fuck you. They don't take you out in public they don't spend any time with you, they come by when their horny tell you what they think you want or need to hear to get you in bed and then they leave. I agree with free love and lust however if the grand scheme of things BBW have the same right to be taken out treated well and cared for that other women do. Unfortunatly the "guys" of the world think that because we're fat we are also hard up and that their doing us a "favour" by fucking us when it's conveient to them. A man will stop by after work, maybe take you out to dinner in a public place and not three towns over (just in case) or call you to see how your day was or to tell you how their day was. And if it lasts three months three years or a lifetime, men are interesting in a BBW for more than a regular fuck. If I had a nickle for every time a "guy" thought he was doing me a favour by fucking me I could have retired at 20.

Now I do like fucking on occasion, but like everyone else I want it on my terms. I have a job and a life and sometimes I'm to busy to put time in on a relationship short term or otherwise and I just need a fuck buddy to let off steam, but it's a mutual thing and I don't care about being seen in public or by his friend I just care about how good he is in bed.

Oh and the abs/chest/ass thing...we're human nothing wrong with a nice set of abs, or chest or ass, but personally for me what turns me on more than anything is a eyes/smile/and the abilitiy to laugh. Sucks thought that when I finally found one with all three he was married, but it was a great three months.

 

[Sweetevil]

Hello...

Good evening fellow beauties... I had a BBW thread myself back when I used to frequent Lit more often. I met some great people on that thread! Would love to make some new friends on here... Anyone interested in chatting drop me a lil hello. Until then, everyone have a great evening and if I don't talk to anyone then have a very Merry Christmas!


~Sweet

 

[covariant]

Hi Sweet, welcome to the thread. Hope you have a great Christmas too!

 

[Sweetevil]

Hi Sweet, welcome to the thread. Hope you have a great Christmas too!

Hello there covariant..thanx for the welcome, and the holiday wishes...

 

[Kariszma83]

Hello all from a fellow bbw... hope everyone's week is going well