Calling all BBW's

[shadowdame]

Yes mam... I wish someone would lol .....

Well if I take you home, you know I gotta keep you!

 

[Spenser41]

Well if I take you home, you know I gotta keep you!

WHOOO HOOO..... sounds like fun to me!

 

[shadowdame]

WHOOO HOOO..... sounds like fun to me!

Hehe, how's the back?

 

[Spenser41]

Hehe, how's the back?

Well see now there we have a problem....
it is only 50% working...

 

[shadowdame]

Well see now there we have a problem....
it is only 50% working...

Hmmmmm, guess we'd have to be a little creative...

 

[Spenser41]

Hmmmmm, guess we'd have to be a little creative...

Sounds like a plan to me... just be gentle. There are certain parts that work just fine and some that... they are a mess!

 

[Valkyrie2006]

Not all men are like this.. Having been a SKINNY man for many years, (128 pds at 5'11") I didn't get much attention. Then when I started to finally put on weight, I got a little more attention. When I went crazy weight wise and hit 250, I never got attention. BUT...... I paid attention to women of all sizes. Most of the women I have been with have been BBWs. Reason why? They are more passionate and more giving. I find the skinny cheerleader women are too much into themselves and what a man can do for her, instead of her wanting to put anything into the relationship. Now yes a man is going to look because we are drawn to look at women. It is a nature thing. But I always went home with the BBWs because I knew they were more real and not as phoney as the model, cheerleader types.
So no, not all men are into the skinny chicks.

Need some men like you around here.... just about every guy I have met here in my small town is attracted to the cheerleader/skinny gals.
I have been single for nearly 6 years...and my last BF i met on the net..he moved here from cali...but I dated one , thats ONE, local guy since my husband left in 1995, and he was an ass...

Ever get to Washington state? *laughs*

 

[Spenser41]

Need some men like you around here.... just about every guy I have met here in my small town is attracted to the cheerleader/skinny gals.
I have been single for nearly 6 years...and my last BF i met on the net..he moved here from cali...but I dated one , thats ONE, local guy since my husband left in 1995, and he was an ass...

Ever get to Washington state? *laughs*

I lived in Spokane YEARS AGO! Ok I was like 4 and I don't remember it much.
But there seem to be alot of men that do like BBWs. I think there are some BBWs date sites. Or maybe you need to think about looking for men in bigger cities closer to you, then just small towns.

 

[shadowdame]

Sounds like a plan to me... just be gentle. There are certain parts that work just fine and some that... they are a mess!

Uh huh, I promise, I'll be gentle...

 

[Spenser41]

Uh huh, I promise, I'll be gentle...

mmm sounds interesting....

 

[shadowdame]

Need some men like you around here.... just about every guy I have met here in my small town is attracted to the cheerleader/skinny gals.
I have been single for nearly 6 years...and my last BF i met on the net..he moved here from cali...but I dated one , thats ONE, local guy since my husband left in 1995, and he was an ass...

Ever get to Washington state? *laughs*

Hi Val, how are you sweetie?

 

[Valkyrie2006]

I lived in Spokane YEARS AGO! Ok I was like 4 and I don't remember it much.
But there seem to be alot of men that do like BBWs. I think there are some BBWs date sites. Or maybe you need to think about looking for men in bigger cities closer to you, then just small towns.

Been trying that too...even had some actually dates set up....over the last year or so...its been three I have met...and all three...bugged out on me at the last moment...

I think right now its my pure frustration speaking....and other holiday pressures...

 

[Valkyrie2006]

Hi Val, how are you sweetie?

I'm surviving....been three weeks post surgery and things are healing up nicely...
just glad everything came out ok and not still dealing with it...

Nice to see you again!

 

[shadowdame]

I'm surviving....been three weeks post surgery and things are healing up nicely...
just glad everything came out ok and not still dealing with it...

Nice to see you again!

It's nice to see you too and I'm glad you are doing well.

 

[Spenser41]

Been trying that too...even had some actually dates set up....over the last year or so...its been three I have met...and all three...bugged out on me at the last moment...

I think right now its my pure frustration speaking....and other holiday pressures...

Ok let me make another suggestion.. If you have a hobby... try to find people with the same interest and see if they have a group or a club that meets. Or find a hobby that you can get into that others in your area are a part of. In other words, find real people in real life to meet. Create friends and go out and hang out with friends... if something grows out of that.. then great... if not, then you are still out with friends then being alone.

 

[Valkyrie2006]

Ok let me make another suggestion.. If you have a hobby... try to find people with the same interest and see if they have a group or a club that meets. Or find a hobby that you can get into that others in your area are a part of. In other words, find real people in real life to meet. Create friends and go out and hang out with friends... if something grows out of that.. then great... if not, then you are still out with friends then being alone.

Thats what I have been working on...actually my hobby is nature photography...a very solitary hobby...so I have been doing things with my freinds...we have started going out...playing darts...and such...
my area is so small and so isolated...theres not much to do beyond the bar scene...no groups or clubs...nothing much to speak of at all...its a tiny tourist community on the Washington coast..
My contact with the outside world pretty much consists of the computer...and the times we go out and play pool or darts...

But I'm trying..I guess in my world....I just have to be patient...it may take me a very long time to come across that someone...and if it never happens...then I have to learn to live with that reality...

 

[shadowdame]

Goodnight Spenser, Val.

Have a good day tomorrow. My bed is calling my name!

 

[Spenser41]

Thats what I have been working on...actually my hobby is nature photography...a very solitary hobby...so I have been doing things with my freinds...we have started going out...playing darts...and such...
my area is so small and so isolated...theres not much to do beyond the bar scene...no groups or clubs...nothing much to speak of at all...its a tiny tourist community on the Washington coast..
My contact with the outside world pretty much consists of the computer...and the times we go out and play pool or darts...

But I'm trying..I guess in my world....I just have to be patient...it may take me a very long time to come across that someone...and if it never happens...then I have to learn to live with that reality...

I am sorry... small towns really are difficult to meet new people. One of the reasons I perfer bigger cities. I hope you meet someone who will like you for you.

 

[Spenser41]

Goodnight Spenser, Val.

Have a good day tomorrow. My bed is calling my name!

Night hon.... sweet dreams

 

[thump]

Oh sweetie, you couldn't have put it any better. I can't believe that there are so many men out there that do love BBW's. It just blows my mind.

How about men out there that just love sexy, smart, beautiful women period without having to put all of the other bullshit with it? How about looking at a woman, like you and seeing how beautiful, smart and sexy she is period. I have said this a million times but if I worry about how much a person weighs or what color her eyes are or how long her hair is or what color her skin is or all of that "extra" crap, Im losing out on alot of pretty special people.

 

[ChikieRoo]

How about men out there that just love sexy, smart, beautiful women period without having to put all of the other bullshit with it? How about looking at a woman, like you and seeing how beautiful, smart and sexy she is period. I have said this a million times but if I worry about how much a person weighs or what color her eyes are or how long her hair is or what color her skin is or all of that "extra" crap, Im losing out on alot of pretty special people.

I vote Thump for President...

thanks for posting that... it's making me cry

 

[ChikieRoo]

Thats what I have been working on...actually my hobby is nature photography...a very solitary hobby...so I have been doing things with my freinds...we have started going out...playing darts...and such...
my area is so small and so isolated...theres not much to do beyond the bar scene...no groups or clubs...nothing much to speak of at all...its a tiny tourist community on the Washington coast..
My contact with the outside world pretty much consists of the computer...and the times we go out and play pool or darts...

But I'm trying..I guess in my world....I just have to be patient...it may take me a very long time to come across that someone...and if it never happens...then I have to learn to live with that reality...

{{{{{Valkyrie}}}}} I feel ya darling....I'm completely there with you =)

 

[shadowdame]

How about men out there that just love sexy, smart, beautiful women period without having to put all of the other bullshit with it? How about looking at a woman, like you and seeing how beautiful, smart and sexy she is period. I have said this a million times but if I worry about how much a person weighs or what color her eyes are or how long her hair is or what color her skin is or all of that "extra" crap, Im losing out on alot of pretty special people.

You are a very special man thump and you manage to say so much by saying so little. I wish there were more men like you in the world, then maybe more women would believe in themselves and have more confidence in who they are instead of striving to look like the models and actresses. We are all built differently inside and out and no one should have to spend their lives wishing they looked like someone else.

We are all beautiful in our own way.

 

[ChikieRoo]

You are a very special man thump and you manage to say so much by saying so little. I wish there were more men like you in the world, then maybe more women would believe in themselves and have more confidence in who they are instead of striving to look like the models and actresses. We are all built differently inside and out and no one should have to spend their lives wishing they looked like someone else.

We are all beautiful in our own way.

ok now you're making me cry too!

damn it.......i hate being sick.....my emotions are running rampant today

 

[shadowdame]

ok now you're making me cry too!

damn it.......i hate being sick.....my emotions are running rampant today

Hi Chikie, please don't cry. *hands you a tissue*

Just home sick today huh? I know how that is, it sucks.