Calling all BBW's

outofhabit1 said:
annnnnd you're still with him??

Yeah I'm still with him. In fact, we'll be married 20 years in November, but that's coming to an end. I can't take it and all his other crap anymore. I think I deserve better.
 
shadowdame said:
Yeah I'm still with him. In fact, we'll be married 20 years in November, but that's coming to an end. I can't take it and all his other crap anymore. I think I deserve better.

You have to ask for what you want in life but if that doesn't work, as Dr. Phil would say, kick his butt to the curb.
 
shadowdame said:
Yeah I'm still with him. In fact, we'll be married 20 years in November, but that's coming to an end. I can't take it and all his other crap anymore. I think I deserve better.

You DO deserve better.
 
MagicaPractica said:
I think that's a given. :)

Thank you both for your kind words. Now if only my kids would understand. This is all going to come back to me and I'm going to end up being the bad guy.
 
shadowdame said:
Thank you both for your kind words. Now if only my kids would understand. This is all going to come back to me and I'm going to end up being the bad guy.

Ah, but you also have the responsibility of showing them through your actions that a woman has value and it is not okay for her to be treated poorly. Remember that and they will too.
 
Anyone still awake? I'm a little bored and horny... or as I like to call it, borny.
 
MagicaPractica said:
Ah, but you also have the responsibility of showing them through your actions that a woman has value and it is not okay for her to be treated poorly. Remember that and they will too.

I agree totally with you, but one is almost 18 and the other is 14 and both have said they would rather live with others then with either one of us, they don't want to take sides. My youngest said if she had to make a choice she'd pick her father. I think the only reason she said that is because she gets away with practically anything she wants because he is always sleeping and is totally clueless about what she is doing. I may work two jobs, but I always know what she is up to. Have to admit though, it hurt hearing that.
 
shadowdame said:
I agree totally with you, but one is almost 18 and the other is 14 and both have said they would rather live with others then with either one of us, they don't want to take sides. My youngest said if she had to make a choice she'd pick her father. I think the only reason she said that is because she gets away with practically anything she wants because he is always sleeping and is totally clueless about what she is doing. I may work two jobs, but I always know what she is up to. Have to admit though, it hurt hearing that.

Could you work that out with him so it isn't up to them to choose?
 
MagicaPractica said:
Could you work that out with him so it isn't up to them to choose?

I would hope so. She is only 14 right now, but she will be allowed to at least tell a court where she wants to live and who she wants to live with.
 
shadowdame said:
I would hope so. She is only 14 right now, but she will be allowed to at least tell a court where she wants to live and who she wants to live with.


Well, keep me posted and I hope things work out for the best. It's time for me to turn into a pumpkin. Take care.
 
:rose: Just peeking in to see who is still awake on a saturday morning.. whispers " hello" and goes to my seat in my stfu corner..:::: thinking .. I wish "My Dragon" were here :::: :rose:
 
BabyBlackRose said:
:rose: Just peeking in to see who is still awake on a saturday morning.. whispers " hello" and goes to my seat in my stfu corner..:::: thinking .. I wish "My Dragon" were here :::: :rose:
:rose: He walks in, slightly afraid of the welcome, sees his ROSE in the corner, rushes over and smothers her in kisses. :kiss: :kiss:
 
Highsided said:
:rose: He walks in, slightly afraid of the welcome, sees his ROSE in the corner, rushes over and smothers her in kisses. :kiss: :kiss:


:heart: SCREAMS " MY DRAGON" !!!!! and kisses you back deeply and with all the passion this rose can give .. whispers" I LOVE YOU MY DRAGON" :heart:
 
Highsided said:
:rose: My love for you is like an endless storm full of raging passion :heart:


:kiss: Then we had better take this to our bed My Lover , for"Your Rose" feels our passion & lust & yes your desires .. Can you feel mine as well ?? :devil:
 
BabyBlackRose said:
:kiss: Then we had better take this to our bed My Lover , for"Your Rose" feels our passion & lust & yes your desires .. Can you feel mine as well ?? :devil:
:rose: I have found your love, felt your passion, for it hunted me through the darkness and brought light into my soul. Thus giving me hope, giving me joy and a reason to live :rose: :rose:
 
shadowdame said:

Shadow....went thru that myself (from the guy side)...and I will tell you that taking the high road is hard sometimes, but as Magic saidd...your kids will see it and know what is right...they have lived it as you have and they always know more than we think they do...they will be okay...
It is unfortunate that they get caught in the middle...think of them...but you gotta do what is right for you

t
 
trey690 said:
Shadow....went thru that myself (from the guy side)...and I will tell you that taking the high road is hard sometimes, but as Magic saidd...your kids will see it and know what is right...they have lived it as you have and they always know more than we think they do...they will be okay...
It is unfortunate that they get caught in the middle...think of them...but you gotta do what is right for you

t


Good afternoon everyone. Felling better today, got plenty of sleep for a change.

Thanks Trey, I know you and Magica are right, but it still is very hard. I'm dealing with it one day at a time for now, but every now and then I hit a down period and last night happened to be one of them. I know things will work out for me, it's just going to take some time.

I'll be ok and so will my girls. :rose:
 
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