Call me names, call me names, call me sweet little names

[liqueur]

You need a historian or a lingustic for that. I don't even kmow why nancy boy is an insult

It would have been the approximate equivalent to calling a man a pussy, maybe 20 years ago— which today, if someone called me that, I'd take as a compliment.

 

[lily_wall_]

It would have been the approximate equivalent to calling a man a pussy, maybe 20 years ago— which today, if someone called me that, I'd take as a compliment.

I'm going to use that on my husband next time we banter

 

[whenagain]

one that has worked on me was “little man—“ as in “what are you going to do about it, little man?”

 

[lily_wall_]

one that has worked on me was “little man—“ as in “what are you going to do about it, little man?”

Said by a women or a man or both?

 

[whenagain]

Said by a women or a man or both?

My girlfriend at the time. Got me all worked up.

 

[KinkStevens]

The filthier the word, the better the name, I always say

 

[subdudeme13]

I wasn't into being a sissy till she dressed me up, bent me over and called me bitch! I took it like a man!

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Call me any degrading and humiliating name and make sure you do that in public. Love getting humiliated in public

 

[south7eventh]

It would have been the approximate equivalent to calling a man a pussy, maybe 20 years ago— which today, if someone called me that, I'd take as a compliment.

In London, the term ,’ Nancy Boy’ is considered a insult implying male homosexuality especially if it is not clear whether the insultee is or is not heterosexual.It is unlikely that anyone under pension age would use the term.

 

[liqueur]

In London, the term ,’ Nancy Boy’ is considered a insult implying male homosexuality especially if it is not clear whether the insultee is or is not heterosexual.

Right. Which is why I'd love it

It is unlikely that anyone under pension age would use the term.

Why i was using it as an example of “archaic” terms. Although maybe “archaic” was too strong a word. I was thinking of it as more of a late-19th/early-20th century term.

 

[liqueur]

Call me any degrading and humiliating name and make sure you do that in public. Love getting humiliated in public

Examples?

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Examples?

Piggy slut, deep trash whore, etc

 

[Booboobear84]

I absolutely luv being called names. Filthier, the better.

But some of the words I get called have lost their original magic. Like "slut", "bitch". Among my friends and luvers, these words has slipped into our normal non-sexual conversation. We curse too much. There was a time when someone calling me slut would put my horny level on overdrive and all I wanted to do was prove them right. Now it just tells me they are comfortable in talking to me without worrying about PC or feminists or whatever

I realized this when a guy called me slut during sex, and I replied to rest of what he said. He thought it offended me but in fact my mind didn't even register the word as dirty talk

NOTE not a critique of you at all, but a more general issue. Society needs taboos, that people can break, but it's dangerous to say they are harmless and normalize them. As terms (and more importantly ideas) get normalized, people push the envelope further. That's how we get some serious out there behavior, and worse people are praised for their edginess. That leads to people trying to be more edgy to get praise.

 

[Booboobear84]

I liked being called baby, princess, babygirl, daughter
AND
slut, fithy whore, black bitch, n_____

A interesting point was missed here. Praise and humiliation appear to be to sides of the same coin. Both seem to engender the same kind of mental high.

I've always used name calling as a way to hyper sexualize. I'm very uncomfortable with actually degrading someone (I've done it a few times, but makes me very uncomfortable).

 

[paddyboi]

Faggot and cocksucker

Indeed! Both of those definitely make my balls and cock tingle!

 

[paddyboi]

Slut is def my fav

I like being called a slut too……and cumslut!

 

[paddyboi]

One thing that would tickle my fancy— but I never had sex with anyone who shared both my love of language and my name-calling kink— would be to be called archaic insults, like the Victorian “nancy-boy”

Hmmm!? I rather fancy “nancy-boi” kind friend.

 

[cuck72]

I have very submissive faggot fantasies. So any of those names would fit me and make me cower and get excited. I LOVE! being called degrading names. Faggot, cock sucker, sissy bitch, cum dump, little pee,pee boi. My ass is just a ass-cunt. I LOVE! my sissy boi / girl thoughts being a cock sucking cum swallowing faggot. I think all the nasty name calling in bed can be a very exciting part of sex with any kind of coupling.

 

[liqueur]

Faggot, cock sucker, sissy bitch, cum dump, little pee,pee boi.

Pee boi is a good one.
I like “piss lips”. And “sperm breath”

 

[silky52]

Interesting thread! I guess this is how our mind works, I know mine does and my level of arousal goes up and up with dirty talk. I do however insist that it's not part of my regular conversation, but then neither is swearing. I guess I'm just too old to accept swearing as normal conversation. The only issue I have is actually being able to respond with dirty talk. I just cannot get the words out of my mouth. I guess that's because when I was a child my mouth would be washed out with soap had I been heard using 'foul language'. I also think that spanking for instance goes back to being 'hit' as a child, and used as discipline! I remember at school once a boy being punished by the master with a plimsoll. The entire class was in tears, including the boys. Strange how both of those 'kinks' or preferences as I like to think of them work with arousal!

 

[liqueur]

my level of arousal goes up and up with dirty talk. I do however insist that it's not part of my regular conversation, but then neither is swearing. I guess I'm just too old to accept swearing as normal conversation. The only issue I have is actually being able to respond with dirty talk. I just cannot get the words out of my mouth.

I suspect your reticence comes from the environment you grew up in more than age. I'm 74, but I grew up on a farm in a working class, what in England you would have called low class, environment. Insults like these were traded commonly among boys or even farm girls. Some as banter; the more degrading ones as serious fighting words; but as a whole, sexualized insults were commonplace. And swearing, of the nonsexual sort, was ordinary in everyday speech— the more imaginative it was, the greater the respect it commanded.

 

[Mittering]

What about names that have a more subdued meaning like "good girl" or "my pet". A string of seemingly innocent words put together to produce and entirely different meaning like "my most wanton little pet" or "your a messy faced vixen"

 

[liqueur]

“Sodomite!”

 

[Oshkosh60]

What about names that have a more subdued meaning like "good girl" or "my pet". A string of seemingly innocent words put together to produce and entirely different meaning like "my most wanton little pet" or "your a messy faced vixen"

Yeah, actually they can be even more powerful and erotic....... "sweet sweet little boy" comes to mind. Sweet when I was growing up had just a tinge of girlishness associated with it in my area. You did not want to be called sweet (okay I did because I liked wearing women underthings even then).

Being called by a fem name ... maybe the feminine version of your own. Stephanie/Steven Dawn/Don ...ect

 

[Statius]

I’m honestly surprised to see you talk about those last two publicly even if you personally find them a turn on
It’s the kinda thing that racists and bigots will perpetually hang on to, that one time a woman who mentioned she was black said that, to then tell themselves, “They all like that really”
Which is because they’re pieces of shit
But why give them material?

Every post I read of yours brings reality. I like it. Common sense, respect, decency. I think a lot of people get lost on these threads and let go. I like that you don't and when things get too far you have no problem bringing it back down to earth. Respect