Call me names, call me names, call me sweet little names

[liqueur]

You need a historian or a lingustic for that. I don't even kmow why nancy boy is an insult

It would have been the approximate equivalent to calling a man a pussy, maybe 20 years ago— which today, if someone called me that, I'd take as a compliment.

 

[lily_wall_]

It would have been the approximate equivalent to calling a man a pussy, maybe 20 years ago— which today, if someone called me that, I'd take as a compliment.

I'm going to use that on my husband next time we banter

 

[whenagain]

one that has worked on me was “little man—“ as in “what are you going to do about it, little man?”

 

[lily_wall_]

one that has worked on me was “little man—“ as in “what are you going to do about it, little man?”

Said by a women or a man or both?

 

[whenagain]

Said by a women or a man or both?

My girlfriend at the time. Got me all worked up.

 

[KinkStevens]

The filthier the word, the better the name, I always say

 

[subdudeme13]

I wasn't into being a sissy till she dressed me up, bent me over and called me bitch! I took it like a man!

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Call me any degrading and humiliating name and make sure you do that in public. Love getting humiliated in public

 

[south7eventh]

It would have been the approximate equivalent to calling a man a pussy, maybe 20 years ago— which today, if someone called me that, I'd take as a compliment.

In London, the term ,’ Nancy Boy’ is considered a insult implying male homosexuality especially if it is not clear whether the insultee is or is not heterosexual.It is unlikely that anyone under pension age would use the term.

 

[liqueur]

In London, the term ,’ Nancy Boy’ is considered a insult implying male homosexuality especially if it is not clear whether the insultee is or is not heterosexual.

Right. Which is why I'd love it

It is unlikely that anyone under pension age would use the term.

Why i was using it as an example of “archaic” terms. Although maybe “archaic” was too strong a word. I was thinking of it as more of a late-19th/early-20th century term.

 

[liqueur]

Call me any degrading and humiliating name and make sure you do that in public. Love getting humiliated in public

Examples?

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Examples?

Piggy slut, deep trash whore, etc

 

[Booboobear84]

I absolutely luv being called names. Filthier, the better.

But some of the words I get called have lost their original magic. Like "slut", "bitch". Among my friends and luvers, these words has slipped into our normal non-sexual conversation. We curse too much. There was a time when someone calling me slut would put my horny level on overdrive and all I wanted to do was prove them right. Now it just tells me they are comfortable in talking to me without worrying about PC or feminists or whatever

I realized this when a guy called me slut during sex, and I replied to rest of what he said. He thought it offended me but in fact my mind didn't even register the word as dirty talk

NOTE not a critique of you at all, but a more general issue. Society needs taboos, that people can break, but it's dangerous to say they are harmless and normalize them. As terms (and more importantly ideas) get normalized, people push the envelope further. That's how we get some serious out there behavior, and worse people are praised for their edginess. That leads to people trying to be more edgy to get praise.

 

[Booboobear84]

I liked being called baby, princess, babygirl, daughter
AND
slut, fithy whore, black bitch, n_____

A interesting point was missed here. Praise and humiliation appear to be to sides of the same coin. Both seem to engender the same kind of mental high.

I've always used name calling as a way to hyper sexualize. I'm very uncomfortable with actually degrading someone (I've done it a few times, but makes me very uncomfortable).