Bye Bye, I am leaving

[Gilly Bean]

Just for the weekend, and part of next week, though.

Moved all day today, and all day tomorrow. CPU gets yanked tomorrow morning, and no DSL, no Cable modem, and no phone line till at least monday, maybe later. So... it will be next week some time.


-hugs-

Wish me luck, and pray that I don't kill the MiL.

Good thing though.. my mother is coming up tomorrow, and she asked about the MiL, and said that if she wants to be a bitch, then those two will be getting into it. She would do it too, and do it a hell of a lot more effectivly then I would. I am almost preying that it happens.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Good luck

Hurry back, and if you won't kill her will you at least spill something on her for us? Something cold, and red so it doesn't wash out too easily?

 

[Phoenyx]

Good bye, good luck and see ya soon..

whats the MIL?

 

[Guest]

rest well Gilly and enjoy the time with your mom

 

[Debbie]

*Big hug* Take care and put your feet up when you can. When you get stressed at Mil think, I love Lit, I love Lit, I love Lit till you mellow out. Good luck

 

[bluntforcemama]

Good Luck! It's a GIRL!

 

[Valdimer]

Good luck with the move and the inlaw Gilly!


You know I'll be missin ya while you are gone....even though it's a short time, but still.......


I'll keep a spot saved for ya on the lit couch when ya get back.

 

[batter]

bye for now GB and dont you dare have the baby until you get a computer hooked up to keep us up to date ok?

good luck!

 

[Summery]

Good luck Gilly and take care! Be sure to rest as much as you can.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

hugs gilly

see ya soon.. besides next week you should be havein you girl

 

[Gilly Bean]

-hugs everyone-

Thanks

The countdown has begun. I woke up early, to sneak in a quick fix of Lit before everyone else gets up. I am SO not looking forward to today, but... I AM looking forward to having a nice new house to live in

 

[Starfish]

Whooooo, for a second, I though you were really leaving.

Okay, heart is claming now...

I am glad you let us know, because you said you were having some indication that you might go into labor, and I didn't know what happened.

Hope you have a good weekend babe.
Take care.

 

[Debbie]

When you do get back on again, let me know what you love the most about your new place! Apart from having your own place! Is it the garden? The stress (apart from Mil) being mostly gone... I would love to hear details about your new place! *hugs* Look after yourself and bubba

 

[Gilly Bean]

I already know that one, Debbie


It's my own private bathroom. Complete with a sky light over the HUGE cornor garden tub, with mirrors surrounding it, and candles all over the back of it

AND, I can lock the bedroom door, AND the bathroom door, so I won't have little Chris hands pokeing under the bottom, accompaning cries of: Mommy, whatcha doooin? Mommy, want bath too! Mommy, my turn now! Mommy, love yooooou!

Which, granted, is just freaking adorable, and almost always has the power to stop the stress, but I just think it's time for me to be able to bathe alone again.

 

[Debbie]

Oh, wonderful. I love the lock on the bathroom door too.

Quote by Gilly Bean,"It's my own private bathroom. Complete with a sky light over the HUGE cornor garden tub, with mirrors surrounding it, and candles all over the back of it"

Argggggggghhhhhhhh OMG Can I come and have a bath? This sounds magnificent.

 

[Merelan]

Is there room in that bath for another? Damn....

I know you're in the middle of the move already but wishing you a smooth one. Move and labor that is.

 

[LRC]

Nothing stronger than the lioness protecting her cub!

Tell your mom to sic the old witch.

Hmmmmm can you tell I'm not MiL friendly.

Happy moving and take it easy .... the bun still has a little baking to do.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Well, news update. CPU gets to stay here till tomorrow, cause work needs to be done and well, I don't want it moved till I am, dammit!

Only 2 whole fights all day yesterday, I was rather proud of myself!

First one happened about 5 minutes into the day. My aunt asked Sherry (the MiL) when she planned to pack, since she hadn't yet. Sherry went off the deep end with little prodding, and starting yelling and cursing at the top of her lungs, in front of my 5 year old. Not a good thing. I had Auntie go outside and wait in her car till Sherry left for work. (It was like 9:45, and she had to be there at 10) In the mean time, hubby went in to calm her down, and told her to grow up, that she was acting more irrational and immature then our 5 year old, and that it was NOT accaptable behaviour to cuss like that in front of her. She retaliates with: She started it! During the course of the fight, this is also the woman who yelled, You touch my stuff and I am gonna break every bone in your body! Mature, huh? This is coming from a 45 year old woman. -eyeroll-

Then, she left, things calmed down a bit. My mother and sister showed up, my aunt came back in, and two friends came over to help, along with hubby's aunt. Well, at some point, Sherry got her co-worker to come in, and cover the shop (she owns a beauty salon) for her, so she could come check on things. She sat stewing in her room for an hour, shot daggers at us all with her eyes, and left before 1. Then, things were calm, people were cleaning, and unpacking, things were going great.

Then... hubby was gone. He left to grab another load. That left in the house, Me, my aunt, my mom, my sister, and my friend Karen. His aunt had some running around to do, so had left.

Sherry's co-worker, Lisa, came BARGING in the door. Didn't knock, just opened it, came walking in, looked around, and saw me (with my 2 year old) on the floor, trying to hook up a VCR so he could watch a movie while we cleaned. She looked at me, and said, You know Sherry's really upset over this, don't you? I said, Yes, I realize she is, and we didn't want that, but it happened. Well, from there, I turned around, and tried my hardest to ignore her. Being as I was very upset from then on, most of the conversation is a blur now. She said alot of mean stuff, told me how rude *I* was being about the whole move, and how we all needed to get out, and do our own moving on monday. Well, that was about 2 or 3 minutes into her long rant. That I remeber, cause that is where I finally stood up, looked at her, and told her off. Again, I don't remember what all was said (which is a bad thing, since Sherry heard alot of stuff, that I know I didn't all say), but I do recall telling her that we had a deadline, sherry agreed to it, and that while Sherry took time off fgrom work to run around shopping, we had been sitting here just about every night for the last 2 weeks trying to make this house hospitable for a newborn, which was due any day now.

I was screaming my head off by then, and crying, and she has the nerve to look at me, and tell me that her intentions were not to upset me, just to make me understand both sides of the matter. I turned to walk away, and she said something about stressing me out, and I looked at her and told her I wouldn't be nearly so stressed if we hadn't had to take on the packing and cleaning of 2 houses, instead of one. Told her my stress level was through the roof. Then I locked myself in the bathroom for a while. My aunt and mom lit into her pretty good, but I was ignoring that as well. I do recall that at one point Lisa made it sound like Sherry had been telling her we were kicked out of our house, and that she had only agreed to the move because we had no place to live. I recall telling her at that point that had sherry not approached us about it, we WOULD have had a place to live still.

I was SO mad... I musta at some point jerked my head around to fast or something, because the side muscel in my neck hurt really bad for a while. After that, hubby came in the back door, at the SAME moment Lisa was being ushered out the front. He asked why she was here, heard only that she came in and started yelling at me, and he was out the front door in a huff, ready to tell her off. She had already gotten in the car, and was driving away. Hubby called his aunt to come over and supervise, cause I had a feeling sherry would be back down. His aunt called Sherry up at work, and asked her: "What the hell is your problem? You had NO right to send Lisa down there to attack Heather!" Well, apparently Sherry didn't know about it. She ended up coming down, and apoligized for the whole mess, but good god, my day was SO ruined after that.

Anyway, I need to get going, packing today, cause Sherry has the day off, and ain't no way in hell I am gonna be in there while she is.