butt plugs

[Nmman69]

me and my fiance are in the "earlier" stages of anal if you will.. only have i successfully been able to put it in once but she likes one particular butt plug because of it's shape and size. i was just wondering how long should we keep it in before moving to the next size? is it all really on her or should we wait "x" long until she's stretched out enough. thanks in advance everyone

 

[Emerson40]

It's not so much a "stretch" thing as much as it is a "relaxed" thing.
Start small, go slow, and let her dictate the pace. She will know when she is ready to move up in size.
If she's new to it, she may be a little nervous. She may be worried that it might be messy for example.
Start small, with just a finger. Once inside, you'll feel her squeezing your finger, and how she'll relax as she gets comfortable with it. Play / lick her pussy while you work - she'll enjoy it and it'll help her relax.
Have some latex or nitrile gloves handy (don't put fingers / toys that were in her bum in her pussy - can cause infections), some baby wipes for little messes that may happen, lots of patience, and even more lube. Lots of lube.
One last point. For a lot of folks it isn't about bigger, or stretching to accommodate big toys, hands, etc. My wife has a favorite plug that isn't large, but it's shape hits all the right spots, and because of it's shape it isn't easily pushed out as she cums.
Take it slow to start. If she's enjoying it, she'll let you know. Just wait until she asks you to take the plug out and stick your cock in her ass... all that patience, care and attention will be well worth it.