Butt Plugs

[Guest]

I posted this on the How to board and got no responses so I am asking over here.
Question for men and women.........Do you have a butt plug? How often do you use it? Does your partner know you have it?

I bought my first plug a month ago whne my wife was out of town and I loved it! I had to get rid of it though because she would freak if she knew I had it. I am straight but I loved my butt plug! I can't stop thinking about it - I think that I may have to get another one and just hide it real good.
Please give me some feed back on this.
Thanks

 

[Merelan]

Okay well. Maybe she would like it. Like being the one inserting it. Liking a butt plug doesn't mean your gay. it means you are exploring. Buy her something too, or shop together.

 

[Sensua]

Good advise Merelan. Don't hide it. Talk openly with your wife about tings you "might" like to try. You may be surprised at her readiness to please.

But, surely if you hide things from her, you will build a wall between the two of you and your sexual pleasure.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Are you sure she would freak? I know my ex would have, at least when we were married she would - but are you sure or are you just embarressed? Lots of guys want anal stimulation, it is nothing to be ashamed of. At the same time, if you have a very uptight wife then maybe it is wise to keep it a secret.

Yeah I know people here will disagree, but they are very open minded for the most part, and there are a lot of people out there that aren't, and sometimes we forget there probable responses to such issues; they often freak and no good comes out of it believe me.

Need the Info - have you tried a little finger stimulation of her anus during love making? Does she like it or just allow it? Did she freak? If she allowed it, and/or liked it, has she given you any digital stimulation? Have you had anal sex with her?

If she is comfortable with such things then maybe she would be comfortable with something that is just an extension of that for you. If so, maybe try it on her, then go for her doing it for you - what is good for the goose...

Enjoying anal stimulation doesn't mean you are gay or bisexual in the least and most knowledgeable people know that already. Not that being either of those things is bad, but many men have a hang up about anything remotely approaching that. Women are usually a little more understanding, but there is no guarantee - you know your wife the best.

To answer your questions; no I don't have a butt plug. If I got one it would probably be a pretty small one, but when I start another relationship, it will be with a woman that is comfortable wit hsuch things - and a lot more.

 

[Guest]

Yeah I have played with her ass and I think she liked it. We have even had anal sex a few times and she doesn't seem to mind that either but she just doesn't return the favor.

 

[Wizard]

Okay well. Maybe she would like it. Like being the one inserting it. Liking a butt plug doesn't mean your gay. it means you are exploring. Buy her something too, or shop together.

Yep.................I have to agree...........I like a finger.............and have been played with , with a anal vibrator also..............stimulates the prostrate like a mother Fu&*...
I am 100% straight male.......'

and in talking with the girls here about anal one time the question was ask to the males that are into anal would we let her fuck us in the ass?.....I would....Never had it done....might suck ...might be super cool......

just my thoughts..........




I also agree with Talk to her ....might be missing something good.................

 

[Guest]

Thanks for the info - I would appreciate any additional info from some ladies as how to approach the topic with my wife and not freak her out - please keep in mind she is pretty straight laced.
Thanks again

 

[Guru]

 

[Cardinal]

Yes go slow but keep going you'll love it!