Butt plugs ?

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So my wife and I have done anal for years. Well before experimenting with bondage. We both love it. We have looked at butt plugs but never really thought about what it does.(Yes I know where it goes) Looking for opinions/ suggestions (preferably from people who enjoy anal). I mean I am sure it is pleasurable or it wouldnt even be a thing but is it something that if you like anal you will most likely enjoy using one? Suggestions for choosing one?
 
I had a lot of trouble using medium sized butt plugs, and the small ones are really tiny. Still, I would wear the small plug and use it when masturbating as directed. I would try to use the next size up and struggled. I believe he enjoyed watching that struggle, really.

All in all, to me, they didn't feel good or bad. Wearing and using them for him made me feel good. Anal sex is much better than butt plugs, no comparison.

I did always want a cute jeweled plug, though... May need to get one for myself, soon.
 
I suggest using the large, but not extra large size. It should not easily slide in and should take some effort to ultimately fit snugly in place!
 
I love the feeling of my rim being stretched, it can be soooo pleasurable as it pops inside. Once I had one, I wanted a bigger one, though even I have a limit. Some people seem to be able to fit so much in, but no matter how much I try, I can't push past a certain point
 
Start with a small one and see if she likes it. I like glass, personally. You can chill it - do NOT freeze it, though (think A Christmas Story tongue scene :eek:), or warm it, which can add to the fun. Also, I think you may find it enjoyable, as you should be able to feel the plug if she has it in place and you penetrate her vaginally. It can make her feel tighter from your perspective, or you may just notice it as a rubbing sensation against your cock, given that the wall that separates the two passages is thin as a cheap motel wall :D

Most of all I stress to start small and see if you enjoy them before getting anything larger. Unless her ass is very stretched, a small one should stay in place easily. Have fun :)
 
I would agree; start with a smaller one so she can begin to enjoy the different sensations, and play it by ear from there.

Personally, I always liked a finger or two there, so when we tried (glass) butt plugs I pretty much immediately liked it! Even if you decide against full anal... I would always recommend a little one there, its a much better, more full feeling in my (/most peoples') opinion.

Hope this helps x
 
I started with a small one and have gradually moved onto bigger ones.

I love being instructed by Master to wear one, maybe for an hour or two, or half a day! As well as the control turning me on, I find the feeling of the plug very gradually turns me on. I get wet and my face starts to glow :eek:

Also I have a butt plug with a tail attached. I love wearing that because I inexplicably love having a tail :)
 
I have tried several over the years. I liked the jelly types and the bendy rubbery ones. I Didn't like the hard plastic plugs they leave me feeling bruised.

I have gone as large as one I guess was 10 inches long it was moulded from a famous porn star and sold by doc Johnson. My god the feeling when I had slipped that In, I just can't describe it felt better than almost every pussy I have had my cock inside sensation wise i have never felt such intense pleasure overwhelming me as happens at Just that moment as it fills you oh my. I miss that dildo.

My advice go slow use lots of lube and what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Just make sure the plug has a base to prevent it getting lost. Iyswim
 
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I agree with the others, start small to get yourself stretched out and comfortable with the feeling. I worked my way up to an Njoy Large stainless steel. That feels so amazing buried in my ass.
 
Start small, and use lube (unless going in dry is your thing) Always make sure you have a base.

I love the Njoy one for self pleasure. and I have had to wear a medium one out when instructed. I prefer ones that are flexible when out.

Also, I have a jeweled one,,be careful, they are heavy
 
Whatever you get make sure it's BODY SAFE. Only use water based lube as some rubberized models will melt from other kinds of lube. And always make sure it has some sort of base so it can't slip into her body and become a really embarrassing trip to the ER. For cleaning we use old fashioned dawn dish soap and warm water. Make sure you rinse it very very well.

I started REALLY small, I mean barely larger than my index finger. It went in easily and I could wear it for a few hours comfortably. It was a body safe rubber of some kind. I did find that it could come out easily if I used too much lube to put it in or when we were having sex. We got another one not that long ago that's larger with a jewel, also body safe rubber. Not too heavy, but I find the rounded base hurts a little with long wear but I'm a chunky girl, and my buttcheeks kinda eat the jewel. It certainly feels more full and I LOVE it during sex. It's also a great way to warm up. I'll wear it a while, put the kids to bed, a little foreplay and if he wants to fuck my ass, no prep needed, just pull the plug and slide in. :eek:

There's a lot of sets you can buy that are three sizes, small med and large. Maybe try one of those to see what size suits you both. And if your thing is training her, she can aim for the large
 
Butt plugs are fun to play with, I use them a couple ways.

1) to PREPARE for anal sex with my husband, the plug stretches me out a bit and kind of gets me ready. They also get HIM ready for me to peg him! ;)

2) I wear it as a sexual tease to myself when I'm feeling sexy and horny. I've worn it out to run errands, around the house, to work all day. At the end of the time I've been wearing it my ass absolutely ACHES to be fucked.

Good luck exploring! xx
 
Butt plugs are fun to play with, I use them a couple ways.

1) to PREPARE for anal sex with my husband, the plug stretches me out a bit and kind of gets me ready. They also get HIM ready for me to peg him! ;)

2) I wear it as a sexual tease to myself when I'm feeling sexy and horny. I've worn it out to run errands, around the house, to work all day. At the end of the time I've been wearing it my ass absolutely ACHES to be fucked.

Good luck exploring! xx
That just sounds hot ;)
 
Home made butt plugs can be quite delicious. It is really classed as figging but for the sake of the exercise it is a butt plug. Get some fresh ginger big as you like, peel it, shape it like a butt plug with a wider top so it doesn't get lost. Don't put any lube on it if you want the full effect!

Slide it in and wait a minute or so, my Master just loves doing this to me! It begins to burn like hot chilli but it is safe as anything and does no injury....well other than hurting like hell! The pain lasts for about an hour. He loves to take me out shopping or for a coffee when the plug is fresh! It can be used in the pussy with similar effects but i find it tends to slide out unless fixed in with a strap or whatever and pussy juices reduce the heat quicker. It is a real test of self restraint to wear it out, he calls it training! If he uses it when we are home I am permitted to writhe and scream and give in to the pain, he seems to enjoy the sight.

After about an hour it loses its potency and just feels like any other butt plug, good training if he carves it large and tells me to leave it in.
 
My first butt plug was a jelly type with an anchor like base that made it excellent for me to wear while at work.

I really do want to try glass or steel next.

And to second the recommendation to start small.
 
new perspective

butt plugs are something I REALLY want to try, but unfortunately I've never gotten around to it. the idea definitely interest me though, either with a partner or solo! I've had to make due with some DIY 'experiments' for now but hopefully i can change that soon. anyway, good luck and have fun with your future endeavors!
 
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I have to second shescurious11's second reason. I have an anal fixation/fetish and LOVE playing with butt plugs. I've kept one in overnight, prepared for hubby and just simply had it in to tease myself. I'm REALLY interested in the http://www.lovense.com/vibrating-butt-plug because it can be controlled by phone app from a long distance....:devil:
 
Wife asked me to keep it in all morning. Even went down to the laundry room with it in and had a conversation with a neighbor😈
 
I enjoy using a butt plug - my guy really gets turned on when we get to the serious lovemaking and he sees it sticking out of my ass

I can vouch for this reaction upon seeing a buttplug sticking out of an ass. It's a huge turn on.

They're also very good for dp when a second cock isn't forthcoming, and for games when separated.
 
I can vouch for this reaction upon seeing a buttplug sticking out of an ass. It's a huge turn on.

They're also very good for dp when a second cock isn't forthcoming...
Y'all are making me rethink sleeping with my plug in for morning intimacy with hubby....
 
Two words: flared base. ;)

Yes!!!!! And don't improvise. I work in an ER and I've had to assist at a few "foreign object removals." Its more common than you might think. Its a pain in the ass for you and a shit of a job for us. LOL rest assured that if you do come in, you will be treated professionally. But you may bethe butt of a few jokes. :D
 
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