Butt Plugs: How big is too big?

[blakesmith]

I have been using butt plugs for a while now, i am in no sense a novice. I have heard conflicting reports that anything over three inches "up there" will put you more at risk for anal leakage or incontience in your later years. Is this true? If you answer yes or no i would appreciate if you give me information on what your answer is based on. Now how big is too big? I've worked my way upto a doc johnsons large (non-rippled) plug AND a 1.5 in dildo for a total of about 4 in. (give or take) I actually ordered a xxl butt plug from extreme restraints.com
( http://www.extremerestraints.com/stat/ec7150.html )

It says that its 5 inches but in reality its about 4.5 in. so hence the title of this thread "...How big is too big?"

I think thay i'd be able to handle it and am not worried about that, the bottem line that i am worried about is becoming fecalaly incontient as an older adult.


PS I was also planning on wearing this plug for extended periods of time.

What are the risks envolved?

Thanks in advance for all your help

PSS I am male


Blake

 

[D's mariposa]

I'm pretty sure this is something that's been asked before around here, cause I remember a thread or two. Do a search on butt plugs here and in the "How to" forums and I'm sure you'll find some good info. Or check out the library here.

 

[blakesmith]

This may be true that at one time there were some threads that talked about this, but as i understand it they had a crash a few months ago and everything had been wiped out. Any imput is still greatly appreciated. Thx.

Blake

 

[catalina_francisco]

Can't help you much as to how big is too big and suspect for the most part it is an individual thing. Everyone's physiology is unique to them and as such, part of that is the elasticity related to the sphincter muscle. Some people are going to develop looseness from just a minimum of butt stretching or use, others will need a lot more to have the same result, and still others could be usedin such a way every day of their life and never suffer any adverse effects. Unortunately, until the moment happens it is not predictable. We can cripple our pleasure principle by stressing over details we cannot predict, and while I am an advocate of common sense and safer sex, I also acknowledge we al ltake some risk in enjoying carnal pleasures. Some people never have anal play or sex and end up with a bag.....my 2 cents worth is enjoy the moments you have now, try not to worry too much about tomorrow......what if you gave up your pleasure because of the risk factors and developed a terminal disease anyway? Perhaps eating healthy, making sure you eat foods that have muscle strengthening elements in them (or taking supplements) cold be an option.

Catalina

 

[D's mariposa]

This may be true that at one time there were some threads that talked about this, but as i understand it they had a crash a few months ago and everything had been wiped out. Any imput is still greatly appreciated. Thx.

Blake

smiling sweetly and patiently So you didn't even bother to try searching? My my... I've searched several topics since the Great Hacking Incident and Site Redesign. The search function was down for several days, but it's back. As a matter of fact, I just now searched for "butt plugs" in the bdsm forum, with the box checked for "search child forums" and guess what? 2 whole pages of hits. Go figure.

I could be nice and link you to them, I guess, but I dislike encouraging laziness. Go forth and do your own research, Grasshopper. Who knows, you may stumble on some interesting info you weren't looking for, too.

Great advice Catalina. I'm not sure what the big thing is for size, though, cause it doesn't do anything for me.

 

[blakesmith]

good advice, i dunno, it'll ptpbly come today and i am still debating on whether to use it or not. Does anyone know if i stop using it if it will go back to the way it was, or will it stay stretched? Thx for your help, again, in advance


Blake

 

[AngelicAssassin]

One word

I'm not sure what the big thing is for size, though, cause it doesn't do anything for me.

Cleavage.

 

[blakesmith]

So you didn't even bother to try searching?

Actually i did search before you posted your first message. I looked for over an hour. Yes there are a lot of mentions of butt plugs, however no one discusses size limitation or future consequences of anal stretching. if you (or anyone else for that matter) do find something that i missed, that are along those lines, please link it here. Thx


Blake

 

[WriterDom]

That looks like the perfect size to me. For an elephant.

 

[D's mariposa]

Yes there are a lot of mentions of butt plugs, however no one discusses size limitation or future consequences of anal stretching. if you (or anyone else for that matter) do find something that i missed, that are along those lines, please link it here. Thx

Blake

Nope Blake, not gonna do it for you. It's not in my area of interest so oh well.

 

[blakesmith]

Ok fair ebough, i am still looking for information regarding if this will cause future prroblems for me. I am still a bit shaky, any help would still be appreciated, greatly. Thx again, in advance.


Blake

 

[Xelebes]

Cleavage.

You lost me there....

 

[Dstorage]

Try using google, I bet you'll find all sorts of answers.

However, the quick answer is no, you won't be permanently stretched out. So you can go have fun.

However, that only goes for when you relax and don't tear anything, so start slow.

 

[blakesmith]

Actually I have used google, but the reprts that i got were not only few and far between, they were also very conflicting. Some say theres a much greater chance of you becoming incontinant, others say that the anus and sphinters are like any other muscle, the more you work them the stronger they become, to tell you the truth i don't know what to believe. That's why my first post for this thread asks for people to provide information as to where they got there information about there answer whether it be "Yes you will be at greater risk" No, the anus is like any other muscle...." or "It doesn't matter either way" As always, thanks for your help everyone, and thanks in advance.

Blake

 

[AngelicAssassin]

You lost me there....

Directed at D's Guacamole.

 

[D's mariposa]

[hijack]Who caught it. Ironically enough, he does make good guacomole... [/hijack]


Carry on, on topicness peoples...

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Dual duty

Carry on, on topicness peoples...

Got cleavage?

http://www.otan.us/webfarm/emailproject/Seedless%20watermelon.jpg

 

[catalina_francisco]

Try using google, I bet you'll find all sorts of answers.

However, the quick answer is no, you won't be permanently stretched out. So you can go have fun.

However, that only goes for when you relax and don't tear anything, so start slow.

http://www.smilies4you.de/content/schilder/you26.gifhttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/beliebt/a6.gif Have to love your AV....and so you. Hijack over.

Catalina