Busted by my boss 🤣

[cdstefi]

So there we were in work chatting about the England football match in work this morning (after the miracle goal and last-gasp win yesterday) and I think he must have searched my mobile number on WhatsApp (without mentioning it) perhaps thinking of adding me to a footie chat group or something.

You guessed it: because I only use it for sexy stuff and not socials, there's my username Stefi and an avatar with a (very fetching) rear view of me in a black thong, bra and stockings

I stonewalled it, didn't offer an explanation and changed the avi and screen name soon as I could get out of the office. But I think my secret might be out at work. If anything more gets said, fuck it I'll just out myself properly, say fuck it, yes I'm bi, and defy anybody to judge!

 

[Ched21]

Could lead to some fun in the office though

 

[Wageslave]

So there we were in work chatting about the England football match in work this morning (after the miracle goal and last-gasp win yesterday) and I think he must have searched my mobile number on WhatsApp (without mentioning it) perhaps thinking of adding me to a footie chat group or something.

You guessed it: because I only use it for sexy stuff and not socials, there's my username Stefi and an avatar with a (very fetching) rear view of me in a black thong, bra and stockings

I stonewalled it, didn't offer an explanation and changed the avi and screen name soon as I could get out of the office. But I think my secret might be out at work. If anything more gets said, fuck it I'll just out myself properly, say fuck it, yes I'm bi, and defy anybody to judge!

Don't take any shit from them Stefi - any negativity says more about them than about you

 

[Thirsty_Hellcat_J]

Oh no.

At work when I came out, they were supportive of me. But it didn't stop them humiliating me in meetings sometimes. I laughed it off as banter, I know they didn't mean anything malicious by it.

I know you speak your mind, and as much as you feel busted, you will have control of it.

 

[cdstefi]

Don't take any shit from them Stefi - any negativity says more about them than about you

Cheers. I won't!

 

[cdstefi]

Oh no.

At work when I came out, they were supportive of me. But it didn't stop them humiliating me in meetings sometimes. I laughed it off as banter, I know they didn't mean anything malicious by it.

I know you speak your mind, and as much as you feel busted, you will have control of it.

It's still shit that anybody should feel even bantered by it really. I mean I know why straight-oriented porn has so many erect cocks prominently featured.

 

[cdstefi]

Could lead to some fun in the office though

Nah, I like my colleagues but not in that way

 

[Ched21]

Nah, I like my colleagues but not in that way

Oh well ,if there genuinely decent people they shouldn't judge you

 

[cdstefi]

Oh well ,if there genuinely decent people they shouldn't judge you

Honestly my first instinct which I acted on was to stonewall it and not say anything, but I do get on really well with my manager and feel it'd be safe to open up about it. I mean he's not woke by any means but is a pretty decent bloke.

 

[Ched21]

Sounds a decent bloke

 

[cdstefi]

It's not like it affects work in any way.

 

[Ched21]

It's not like it affects work in any way.

I have a separate account on my phone for anything naughty so I can be sure it's safe from anyone seeing at work

 

[cdstefi]

The offending pic

 

[AlwaysDancing]

The offending pic was … not what you’d have liked to be outed on?

 

[cdstefi]

The offending pic was … not what you’d have liked to be outed on?

Honestly, life might be easier if I was perceived as one of the lads, but I think that's out the window now!

 

[AlwaysDancing]

Honestly, life might be easier if I was perceived as one of the lads, but I think that's out the window now!

Eh. You never can control what others think or do … or too much if life is easier.

Sounds like you’re walking with class and dignity and that’s always enough.

 

[cdstefi]

I have a separate account on my phone for anything naughty so I can be sure it's safe from anyone seeing at work

I think I've belatedly copped on that because WhatsApp connects to your primary mobile number, I'd need a burner phone to keep sexy life and vanilla life totally separate.

 

[cdstefi]

The offending pic was … not what you’d have liked to be outed on?

I mean I think it presents me quite well

 

[SPARTAN047]

So there we were in work chatting about the England football match in work this morning (after the miracle goal and last-gasp win yesterday) and I think he must have searched my mobile number on WhatsApp (without mentioning it) perhaps thinking of adding me to a footie chat group or something.

You guessed it: because I only use it for sexy stuff and not socials, there's my username Stefi and an avatar with a (very fetching) rear view of me in a black thong, bra and stockings

I stonewalled it, didn't offer an explanation and changed the avi and screen name soon as I could get out of the office. But I think my secret might be out at work. If anything more gets said, fuck it I'll just out myself properly, say fuck it, yes I'm bi, and defy anybody to judge!

Oops.

That's pretty embarrassing . I haven't been outed like this at work, but years ago when I just started dressing, my old roommate who knows I'm gay and trans told me that his colleague saw him looking at a site which showed sissies dressed up in a bra and panties, and the one they both happened to be looking at was me. It was without my face but my roomie knew my body shape.

He didn't give me away and pretended not to know who the picture was of, though his colleague insisted he'd seen that picture before. He told me what happened later and just told me to be very careful with what pictures I put up.

It was just so embarrassing to know he'd seen what I look like in a bra and panties, I never intended my friends to know that side of me in the flesh. XD

 

[Renee1967]

The offending pic

I'm offended! (not). very cute

good luck at work

 

[easyoff]

The offending pic

I love it, you look great

 

[Renee1967]

Honestly, life might be easier if I was perceived as one of the lads, but I think that's out the window now!

oh well

I think I'm trying to get outed myself

I hope it goes well for you

 

[AlwaysDancing]

Honestly, life might be easier if I was perceived as one of the lads, but I think that's out the window now!

How has this been working out? All calm in the work front? Still one of the lads?

oh well

I think I'm trying to get outed myself

I hope it goes well for you

You think you’re trying …? I have an image of you … “Oooos. Oh nooooo. You sound out?!” I hope it also goes well for ya.

 

[BizTrav]

So there we were in work chatting about the England football match in work this morning (after the miracle goal and last-gasp win yesterday) and I think he must have searched my mobile number on WhatsApp (without mentioning it) perhaps thinking of adding me to a footie chat group or something.

You guessed it: because I only use it for sexy stuff and not socials, there's my username Stefi and an avatar with a (very fetching) rear view of me in a black thong, bra and stockings

I stonewalled it, didn't offer an explanation and changed the avi and screen name soon as I could get out of the office. But I think my secret might be out at work. If anything more gets said, fuck it I'll just out myself properly, say fuck it, yes I'm bi, and defy anybody to judge!

I like it. The ball is in his court now. If he digs for more info he is interested...then your cute little ass is in the driver se

 

[load69]

The offending pic

That's a hot pic...not sure what I would do if I saw that on a coworkers phone.