burning sensation with anal

[remy_lebeau8]

My fiancee and I have begun to experiment with anal. I was using one of the small trainer toys and after a few minutes she said it was starting to burn. Did I noNot use enough lube move to fast or somethin? We are both new to this world.

 

[Oak_Tree]

Could be not enough lube. If you're using a condom (and I hope you are), she also could have a sensitivity to latex.

 

[RawHumor]

My guess is it's a sensitivity to the material the toy is made of, or to the latex of the condom, as OakTree suggested.

 

[NippleMuncher]

What kind of toy are you using?
What is the size of the toy?
What kind of lube are you using?
Does she have any allergies that you know of?

Could be the material the toy is made of, could be the lube you're using (or lack there of ), could be she's sensitive to one of these materials.

First thing I'd do is add more lube.

Next try a different type/brand of lube. Silicone based tend to be better for long term friction than water based, though try different types and see what works best for you.

Don't use a toy that is larger than her typical bowel movement, for obvious reasons, larger will equate to pain and "burning" from the wider stretching.

If she has sensitivities to latex or certain types of lubricants, then you'll have to find alternatives that she is able to tolerate.

 

[remy_lebeau8]

What kind of toy are you using?
What is the size of the toy?
What kind of lube are you using?
Does she have any allergies that you know of?

Could be the material the toy is made of, could be the lube you're using (or lack there of ), could be she's sensitive to one of these materials.

First thing I'd do is add more lube.

Next try a different type/brand of lube. Silicone based tend to be better for long term friction than water based, though try different types and see what works best for you.

Don't use a toy that is larger than her typical bowel movement, for obvious reasons, larger will equate to pain and "burning" from the wider stretching.

If she has sensitivities to latex or certain types of lubricants, then you'll have to find alternatives that she is able to tolerate.

Ya we have used this toy and lube before with no issues. I'm gonna go with noNot enough lube

 

[tonguedancer]

Be careful and move into this slowly since you are just starting out. As someone above mentioned, too much stretching can cause tearing and anal tearing is no laughing matter. It could lead to infections that could be serious. Hopefully you started with just finger play and then gradually increasing size. Sufficient amount of the right lube as well as total relaxation is important. Easy does it.