bruising...

[RandomInk]

When I masturbate I can be pretty, really, rough on myself. Now I'm a fan of many fetishes, and I work out often, but I always manage to leave big bruises on my penis. Sometimes it looks like little dots from broken vessels. Other times it looks like a very nasty bruise. It don't think about bruising myself, but I really like being rough with my dick when I masturbate. I don't even hit it or do things that would cause bruising, I just wrap my fingers around and go about things the normal way.

Maybe I'm gripping too hard, but I like it. I've been told that when I am making love, or sometimes very hard sex, I feel "too hard". I was told that I am harder than the past lovers of my rather unscrupulous date. I like that compliment.

What I don't like is when I feel as if I'm getting soft. Maybe that is all in my head because she, and every past lover, would say that I'm still hard when I think I'm going soft. Also, they can't squeeze me the way I like it so receiving oral sex or a handjob has almost no pleasure for me. Nothing short of long passionate sex feels quite as enjoyable as bruising my penis.

I thought that someone would have some insight into my situation. Either why I bruise, why I like it, or anything else.

 

[Mr Blonde]

I am not one to give lectures about people not pursuing what they find pleasurable, but I checked your profile and sure enough....you are under 20! You are strolling down a path that might leave you with serious impotence issues in a few years.

Consult a physician for a full discussion about the physical aspects.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Can't say why you bruise the way you do, though it could just be a generalised bruising issue that can be fixed with supplements of Vitamin E, B vitamins, and perhaps a little Magnesium would not go astray as well. Some people are more susceptible than others to marking.

As to why you enjoy it all, think you will find many here have that pleasure factor for a variety of reasons. I have known men who do much more to their appendage than you describe, and many here who are into more extreme measures. For some it does bring about problems with what is considered normal with a partner (and some have dealt with it), others don't have that issue. Perhaps as Mr. B suggests, you could have a doctor check you to make sure all is okay with the bruising, otherwise enjoy that which makes the world turn for you.

Catalina

 

[AvaAdore]

i would check with the doctor. my bf is fairly rough with himself, and he never bruises.