breast sizes... does it even matter?

[lick_me_there]

i'm small. 34a if i'm lucky. but i'm a fairly small girl in general; 120lbs, 5'5... small.
but i knew i would never have breast because i am my mothers child, so i had always planned on getting implants. now that i'm with my love (for good *fingers crossed*) this idea doesnt appeal to him. he thinks only vain people would do cosmetic stuff to their bodies. he finds it dumb and i think even slightly repulsive. i still would like to get them done. nothing big, just a large b possibly.
here is my question... are fakes that much differnt from the real thing? feeling wise, looks wise? are there any guys out there that just hate them and are turned off by them? i dont want that to happen here if i get them, but i know he's never had any personal experience with them to go by so it would be a new thing for the both of us. i would just hate to give up my life long hope of having a more femanin figure because of what he thinks about it just being out of vainity. advice?

 

[Vixandra]

Have you had kids yet, if your planning to?

I've a friend who's mother was an a cup and after giving birth and nursing two kids is now a perminant c and her youngest is 20 now.

But, if you want implants, go for it. But they can be expensive and there can be a lot of problems involved post op.

 

[nycphoto]

The impants you want to get seem to be only for your own pycological benifit. This I say because the person you are with loves you for who you are. That is the standard corny line; but it is really true. You abously have not problem attracting a lover and as such you shuold be proud of what you have. You do understand that there are some people put there that belive that humans are creted in the best way possible for them. I think that you were created in the best way possible for you and you should not consider changing it. Then there are also people who activly seek a person with all your assets and think that women should not have been created any other way. I personally am turned out by petite women who share you shape. Then again I personally even if I just want to get laid; I personally need to have some sort of realtionship with that woman. In effect I would have to have more than just sex to truly be turned on, most men or women I would have to say look at the sexual features then need something else and that is your charasmatic appeal or personality. I suspect you have it all covered and you should not alter your perfect body.

 

[nycphoto]

Nothing is better than the real thing by the way, what ever size they might be.

 

[Eilan]

Believe me, I know where you're coming from. I've had four children, all of them breastfed, and my breasts definitely aren't what they used to be. I've toyed with the idea of having them perked up a bit, but I probably won't do anything about it. I've had one surgical procedure in my life, a tubal ligation in 2003, and I learned that I'm a wuss when it comes to surgery, no matter how minor.

You'll likely get a variety of responses on here, but, ultimately, it doesn't matter what WE think. You get the implants (or not) because YOU want to (or not). If you do decide to have the surgery, your expectations should be realistic. If you have self-esteem issues (and I'm NOT saying you do, because I don't know you), then getting implants won't solve that problem.

Good luck!

 

[caela]

Only you can decide if you are going to get implants or not. Having said that I also want to say that I am on the opposite end of the spectrum and have rather large breasts (dd to be exact) and would do just about anything to get rid of them. I guess we all want what we don't have or don't want what we do have. If you do decide to get the implants do your homework! Research the types, the possible reactions, the doctors in your ares etc. etc. etc. Do the research until you feel like our head will explode with it because there would be nothing worse than to go in for a surgery you think will improve yourself only to have it backfire on you.

 

[Roscollo]

Yes, keep in mind that plastic surgeons are in business to make money so feel free to shop around and meet a few of them and check out thier facilities before committing.

My wife acted kinda worried about it before, but now that we have a kid she's much bigger. For me large breasts are only attractive in clothes, once they are bared I want to lick 'em no matter what size.

 

[Lust Engine]

Implants now might be fine but how are they going to be once you're much older? I don't know if I'm like your BF or not but I'd be against you getting them. There are long term health issues that could come into play later in life and if I'm your lover- I'm in it for the long haul.

 

[Weird Harold]

so i had always planned on getting implants. now that i'm with my love (for good *fingers crossed*) this idea doesnt appeal to him. he thinks only vain people would do cosmetic stuff to their bodies. he finds it dumb and i think even slightly repulsive. i still would like to get them done. nothing big, just a large b possibly.

Consider the pros and cons of implants:

Pro: You'll feel better about your figure.

Con:

Your BF will NOT feel better about your figure -- at least not at first and maybe never.

A doctor will be cutting into your breasts and no matter how skillful the doctor is there is a risk of permanent nerve damage and loss of sensation.

No surgery is 100% safe: Anesethiologists make mistakes, Allergies arent detected in time, infections are more resistant to anti-biotics every day, implants leak or shift, etc.


Almost any way you count the pros and cons, IMHO, the balance almost always comes down on the CON side.

There are other methods to deal with your self-image issues -- starting with a loving BF who like the way your genes made you -- that don't involve scalpels and foreign substances imbedded in your body.

Oh yes, I've ever laid hands on artificial enhancements so I can't make any objective assessment of feel or sensitivity. However, I personally don't see any reason for any cosmetic surgery other than reconstruction after injury or disease.

 

[TirelessTongue]

Its not the size of the breast that really matters, its the nipple that I look for. But for size, I actually prefer size C or smaller breasts.

 

[drummer34]

I love breasts, to fondle them and suck them and ........

BUT i HATE implants. Breasts saggy? so what, who cares. I know i know, i have had the whole "it means a lot to my self esteem" talk many times BUT most men i talk to says they dont like implants and some of the men i have seen admit that they like big silicon boobies are really not men i would let my daughter see, politely put you could call them "no brainers".

Another argument: I have RARELY seen a good "boob job". Most plastic surgeons seems to think that breasts art shaped like a handball, completely circular. It looks ridicoulus.

Stick to your natural attributes, and use the money on living a fun life instead.

 

[londonaberdeen]

The issue is here you’ve always thought you’d look better with larger breasts.
You also say you knew you’d be small as you’re your mothers daughter that implies you mum is similar build. Why don’t you talk to her about it?

I’m going to join the chorus here and say it sounds like you’ve found a man who loves you as you are. I don’t know if he’s your life partner so how much you put on his opinion is up to you. Certainly more than you gain from folks you don’t know on here I hope.

Having had experience with one girl who had and uplift I can say she looked great in clothing but the feeling wasn’t right in the flesh.
She’d lost sensitivity but to be honest she was still delighted with the shape she had gotten.

Pros and cons. I’m with WH too much on the cons for me to be realistic but ultimately you can only decide.

 

[Meat Whistler]

I am all for one doing something to make themselves feel better (so long as they don't harm others, obviously). But, appreciate your smaller, perky, natural breasts. You have someone who loves you for you; you should learn to love you for you.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

Why would you bother, in this age of water-padded bras and push-ups?

It's not like your lack of boobage is hindering you in terms of hooking someone or anything.. you've already got a boyfriend who is fine with the size of your non-tits.

So what're you worried about?

 

[onebadkitty]

OK, you asked, so here is my two cents. Ultimately, you will be the one that has to decide, but I'm going to join the chorus here in saying, "no" to the implants.

I am also small-breasted - a small B on a good day. I have nursed two children (and made PLENTY of milk with my little boobies, by the way) and mine did not get bigger, although I understand they do for some women. But they also are not sagging and I am mid-30's and a lot of my friends do sag at this age. I can go braless and it's no problem, it's even kinda' cute. I have a sister-in-law who is huge and would love to be flat-chested, even though her husband married her for her ta-tas, I believe- another story. Anyway, I always thought I would like large, lovely cleavage, but to be honest, there are so many girls running around with big fake ones now, it's kinda' nice to be different and real. My husband is like your BF, thinks what I've got is fine and that going under the knife is such a major thing, it should be reserved for those situations when it is necessary. He has told me that most guys just want to look at, touch, suck (insert verb of choice, here) boobs, they are not concerned with size, they just wanna' get their hands on 'em.

Bottom line, learn to love what you've got. I really do understand, some days I would love to have a large chest for guys to ogle, for those days there's wonderbra, but most of the time, I am perfectly content with my average-sized perky boobs.

 

[MDare]

I would like to add as many have said that whatever you have, use it to the best you can. I had an ex with small breasts and she wanted bigger ones. A guy in my college told a few of my buddies and I one day of the pills you can take to make them get bigger naturally, I thought it was BS but his gf used them and they worked.

I recommended them to my gf, she tried them and they DO work.
You buy enough for 6 months and if you aren't satisfied they give you the money back, it was something like 25 dollars a month, not a whole lot compared to surgery and scars eh?

She took them for 3 months and they went from an A to a medium B I think.
Enough for her to be happier.

The pills do work but you are limited how big, the pills restart your growth hormone that controls the breast growth, but each person has a limit of how big that can naturally go.
Normally you can go at least one size up
Any health food store sells the stuff.

 

[stingray61]

Believe me, I know where you're coming from. I've had four children, all of them breastfed, and my breasts definitely aren't what they used to be. I've toyed with the idea of having them perked up a bit, but I probably won't do anything about it. I've had one surgical procedure in my life, a tubal ligation in 2003, and I learned that I'm a wuss when it comes to surgery, no matter how minor.

You'll likely get a variety of responses on here, but, ultimately, it doesn't matter what WE think. You get the implants (or not) because YOU want to (or not). If you do decide to have the surgery, your expectations should be realistic. If you have self-esteem issues (and I'm NOT saying you do, because I don't know you), then getting implants won't solve that problem.

Good luck!

yeah what she said. I actually prefer smaller breasts but then again I don't base my decsion on who I will date on breast size.

 

[Ava Nova]

Hello there. I also have small breasts, and I seriously considered having a boob job, because, like you, I thought bigger breasts were more feminine. I got so far as contacting plastic surgeons for brochures. However, I was put off by the fact that if you have breast implants you have to have them replaced every 10 years or so, and I was also put off by the risk of losing sensitivity. Plus, although the chances of something going wrong are quite small, I was put off by the chance I could end up worse off than I already felt I was.

I've found that as I get older I like my breasts more and more. My friends with bigger boobs are now jealous of me for having pert boobs, while theirs are starting to sag. Knowing that there are people out there who genuinely prefer small breasts has helped boost my self-esteem, too. Although I had received compliments in the past, I hadn't really believed they were meant. More fool me. However, I now love my small breasts!

Check out Artmajor's thread if you want to see how many people out there like small boobs: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=185927

 

[Iriadne]

Something else to consider, in the long term, is that breast augmentation can make it more difficult to breast feed a child. Should you be thinking about little ones and breast feeding them (which I highly recommend...) you might want to factor this into your decision of whether or not to get breast implants.
I'm also very small breasted but after working in a lingerie store I find this to be a great blessing. Even women with "only" B cup sizes would come in having terrible difficulty finding a bra that gave them sufficient support for sports activities. Also, think about how this might affect your sense of style... Certain clothing cuts that work well for us small breasted folks get more difficult as breast size increases.
~I

 

[EJFan]

it's mostly about what you want to do for YOU... as others have said.

for me, personally, i think the most important COSMETIC (and no, i'm not hung up on looks but that's what we're talkin' about here) reason is to have your breasts in proportion to the rest of your body. if you're there already then i wouldn't bother. i have rarely seen a woman with huge breasts on a tiny frame and thought she was hot. women are either gorgeous or not regardless of breast size.

 

[LonelyNights]

I can understand feeling the need for breast implants...I'm barely a 34B and that's a recent development, 6 months ago I wasn't quite that (I'm only 18 so still got some growth room )

http://www.breastimplants4you.com/breast_implants_numerical_gallery.htm

This is a website full of before and after pictures of breast implants; some of them look good but a large majority of them you're not entierly sure if they really made a good choice in getting breast implants, and that's probably something to look at and be aware of the possible outcomes.

I once had a guy say something along the lines of 'if you can feel them, they're real' about breast implants, but there are pleanty of guys out there that appreciate us more petite types.

Hope that helps a little.

 

[jamak]

In my opinion, it's not the size of the breast. It's all about the nipples. IBTC(Itty bitty titty committe) is alright if you have nice nibbles.
No Implants, go with what you have.

 

[Blues]

I prefer small and natural, looking at the pics on the above site, the after photos are just not that attractive at all.

 

[bowtie4u]

i'm small. 34a if i'm lucky. but i'm a fairly small girl in general; 120lbs, 5'5... small.
but i knew i would never have breast because i am my mothers child, so i had always planned on getting implants. now that i'm with my love (for good *fingers crossed*) this idea doesnt appeal to him. he thinks only vain people would do cosmetic stuff to their bodies. he finds it dumb and i think even slightly repulsive. i still would like to get them done. nothing big, just a large b possibly.
here is my question... are fakes that much differnt from the real thing? feeling wise, looks wise? are there any guys out there that just hate them and are turned off by them? i dont want that to happen here if i get them, but i know he's never had any personal experience with them to go by so it would be a new thing for the both of us. i would just hate to give up my life long hope of having a more femanin figure because of what he thinks about it just being out of vainity. advice?

Be happy with what you have!!

It is not the size that matters but the nipples, are they conected to your clit

Fake is not good they don't look as good and believe me they don't feel that good either

O natural baby

 

[wash25]

I don't really care. I mean, if she's pretty, she's pretty. And even in the context of talking about women with other men-- usually it's just a form of male bonding.

"Hey that girl's got nice tits!" = "I really like watching sports with you and I enjoy your friendship."