breast play

[abbey_kyle]

I recently tried on my current gf what I have had a man do to me and LOVED. But since my breasts are much larger than my gf's, it had much more of an effect on her then when it was done to me: since her nipples are not very sensitive, she likes them sucked hard. I would suck everything out of her, given the chance. The other day, I took as much of her breast in my mouth as I could. Since her breasts are small, this was quite a bit. Then I started sucking. I could feel her nipples on the back of my tongue and it felt like I was sucking every ounce of energy out of her.

She came from my sucking and doing nothing else.

 

[Jilly J]

Such a great topic!!! I love just about anything when it comes to my breasts. And like others have mentioned they are directly hard wired to my clit. My nipples are definitely the most sensitive part of my breast, but certainly not the only sensitive spot, and not even the most sensitive part of my body (that would actually be a spot on my neck, and those who have found it have reaped the benefits).

My first lover was pure genius when it came to breasts and his is the standard I hold all men to til this day (although few live up). There was just such a level of devotion, and it seemed that as long as we were alone he couldn't stand to not be touching them in some way. I would lie in his arms and he would just gently caress my breasts for hours. Gently stroking the outer most edge, never even coming close to my nipple. It would simultaneously relax me and make me so wet. Then he would gradually work his way in until he reached the nipple and with the laziest of strokes, would repeatedly trace his way around my nipple. If someone were watching they would think it was an unconscious gesture, but he knew the impact of every touch. Next he would slide his hand down so it was cupping my breast from underneath while his thumb casually dragged across my nipple over and over again, and then his hand would stop. And while his thumb sat directly next to my nipple, his index finger would slide up my breast and hook over my nipple in a way that made my breath catch in my throat (every time). And that was when he would bring his mouth into it. He would suck and nibble and basically worship them for as long as I could stand it, and I would end up so aroused I'd be begging to have him inside me.

The key was he always took his time and paid attention to the way I responded to his touch. When it came to my breasts, we were soul mates. It was a damn shame we didn't actually like each other much! LOL

 

[1337_G1RL]

As a woman I can tell you that the most sensitive part of a womans breasts are her nipples. You can play with those but if she is close to her period it may be painful because of hormonal changes.

1337

 

[flamesofdesire]

My nipples are definitely the most sensitive part, but it heightens the sensitivity if he licks and kisses all around my breasts first, with his lips "acidentally on purpose" brushing across my nipples from time to time.
My nipples start craving to be touched, and when he finally does suck one into his mouth it's ecstasy!

Having my nipples touched during oral or intercourse increases the pleasure substantially and I very seldom orgasm without it.

But like other posters have said, all the emphasis that men put on breasts seems to disappear once in a relationship. I actually kept a sorta sex diary for 22 days a few months back (I was feeling short changed in the foreplay department) and out of the 17 times we had sex, twice, he went straight for the nipples and sucked for a minute or so, and 5 times he licked and sucked for a real good amount of time. Yet he is always telling me how much he loves my breasts, and how beautiful they are.

 

[eudaemonia]

As a woman I can tell you that the most sensitive part of a womans breasts are her nipples. You can play with those but if she is close to her period it may be painful because of hormonal changes.

1337,

I take your point. But maybe the more accurate statment would be "As I woman I can tell you that for some/for me, the most sensitive part ... " Every woman responds differently.

 

[BigM]

Guys' nipples?

As a breast lover, these words are golden. Thank you, women of Lit. (I'm just a little shocked that many men get criticized for moving too quickly away from the boobie area during sex. Lord knows I could set up camp there.)

One topic that hasn't come up: Men's nipples. As much I like to lick and play with my wife's, the few times she's started to do the same with my nipples I was like, "eh... uh....easy... don't... ah... ouch... enough... ok....stop stop stop!"

Are guys' nipples just too sensitive? I can feel that same hard-wire running between my nipples and groin that women talk about, but it's an extremely fine line between pleasure and pain. (And no, not the good kind of pain.)

 

[flamesofdesire]

One topic that hasn't come up: Men's nipples. As much I like to lick and play with my wife's, the few times she's started to do the same with my nipples I was like, "eh... uh....easy... don't... ah... ouch... enough... ok....stop stop stop!"

Are guys' nipples just too sensitive? I can feel that same hard-wire running between my nipples and groin that women talk about, but it's an extremely fine line between pleasure and pain. (And no, not the good kind of pain.)

I would imagine that just like with women, it varies from person to person.
My husband loves to have his nipples touched and sucked.

 

[booklover9191]

Lately I've been waking up to lips sucking my nipples...sloberring...sucking...kissing.

Nothing like that~!

 

[amutantman]

as a man i think the easiest thing to forget is that the nipple is at the end not the start of the breasts.no point starting at the end!
if you were getting a blowjob would you want your other half to worry just about the head and nothing else?not I thats for real.
As some women have stated, the breasts can be very sensitive and aroused with no nipple play at all.
As with most things slow and gentle to start seems to be best. After that ,well its up to her really. After 14 years together we are still discovering things about her breasts,probably due to 4 kids, breastfeeding etc. What she likes now wasnt neccessarily what she liked last year(SURPRISE,SURPRISE!!!)HAHA
i found that gentle fondling without any nipple play to begin with probably works best.Work up to it.theres no hurry.the better the foreplay the better the sex!

 

[HandFan]

Work up to it.theres no hurry.the better the foreplay the better the sex!

You speak the truth sir, thanks for your enlightened input!

 

[amutantman]

mmmmmmmm..............titties!

hahaha

 

[ahooohgah]

ah, yes. memories....

Jilly J. this reminds me of dating my first love.....

Then he would gradually work his way in until he reached the nipple and with the laziest of strokes, would repeatedly trace his way around my nipple. If someone were watching they would think it was an unconscious gesture, but he knew the impact of every touch.


That's the approach we both used to get to first base with each other. We both wanted to get laid, but neither of us really wanted it. We both felt we were doing something wrong, and sort of didn't want to do anything but be affectionate. But one thing leads to another, and the result was if the foreplay was good enough, we both got what we really wanted.

I miss that!

 

[papilllon]

My preferences

My breasts aren't the most sensitive area of my anotomy and besides the nipples, touching them will not generally provoke incredible sensations. It's nice, don't get me wrong, but to touch the side of the breasts or any part that is not the nipple is not that different for me then having my belly touched.

This being said, if my nipples are just barely touched by the palm of the hand, THAT makes me crazy in a really good way! If ice is used, it's even better...

That being said, the best course of action is to try different things, observe keenly the lady's reaction and ask what she likes...

papillon

 

[vanelane]

Many good things here, I'd just like to add that for me, over time, the type of attention my breasts like has changed. It used to be more gentle, light touch that got me, but just lately more pressure and tension has been really sexy. Holding the ends of my nipples tightly while I'm on top, so they pull, release, pull, release...heaven!