breast play

[ferntree]

Not that this contributes much to what has been said, but i have tried different things with my gf. She definitely seems to respond, albeit orally, to occasions when i kiss/lick from under the breast, round the outside, sucking gently as i go, until i reach the top part. Also rubbing gently on her nipple as i progress upwards, just giving it a little tease.

Sucking with my mouth clamped onto her breast seems to work and licking at the same time.

Although too much of this and the effects start to wear off.

 

[eudaemonia]

Not that this contributes much to what has been said, but i have tried different things with my gf. She definitely seems to respond, albeit orally, to occasions when i kiss/lick from under the breast, round the outside, sucking gently as i go, until i reach the top part. Also rubbing gently on her nipple as i progress upwards, just giving it a little tease.

Sucking with my mouth clamped onto her breast seems to work and licking at the same time.

Although too much of this and the effects start to wear off.

Hmm. You could always try varying the pressure, or moving away from her breasts completely and then coming back to them in a while. I'll bet they'll perk up again.

 

[ferntree]

Hmm. You could always try varying the pressure, or moving away from her breasts completely and then coming back to them in a while. I'll bet they'll perk up again.

ah pressure!...almost forgot. Yes i do go all the way down and back up! I find her nipples are a good indicator of whether what i'm doing is working and they definitely DO perk up

 

[eudaemonia]

ah pressure!...almost forgot. Yes i do go all the way down and back up! I find her nipples are a good indicator of whether what i'm doing is working and they definitely DO perk up

Erect nipples aren't always a good indicator of arousal; sometimes that's more about simple, non-erotic stimulation.

Frankly, I get annoyed with too much attention on my nipples. I prefer it evenly distributed over the entire surface of both breasts.

 

[grungalunga]

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[kenneth6866]

Breasts hmmmm

I adore breasts. During fore play, when sex is going to be unrushed, I make love to breasts. My SO is not well endowed, but she has ample, meaning she is 34B.

When we have kissed and fondle for the first few minutes, I love to straddle her body, with my jewels in very close proximity to her, shaved mons venus, thats her pussy to less couth men, I kiss my way from her face to her breasts. I love breasts so much that I do not want to trivialize her mameries. Boobs is too juvenile, as is hooters. Tits is an old fashioned term. I cup each breast as if I were a bra. I go from one side to the other, kissing, and nibbling, gently. At times I open my mouth as wide as I can and suck her breasts into my mouth, and keep each in my mouth, while keeping, suction just enough to let her feel the pressure.

We see pictures of women holding one breast and kissing it.I would prefer for a woman to hold her breast wanting me to kiss it. Two women going at each others body is very arousing, especially when they pay attention to breasts. One picture I particularrly thought was very sexy, was of two naked women, One was laying down and the other was leaning forward, each was suckling the others breasts.

I love for my gf to dangle her 34 bs over my face so I can suck on her breasts.

 

[eudaemonia]

For years, i thought the nipple was the sole erogenous zone on the womans breast.

ARe the nipples the more sensitive area of the breast though? Or is the entire surface area equally as sensitive?

Not having asked other women this question, I would have to answer that it depends on the individual.

For me, since my biggest erongenous zone is between my ears, I simply get turned off my actions that smack of being lifted from a porn film. And so, focusing solely on my nipples makes me do a slow burn -- and not in a good way. Tops, outer sides and undersides all come with different sensations, same as the nipples. I like *all* of them equally.

YMMV.

 

[rosebud5446]

eh, i just got on a new birthcontrol pill, and my boobs are really swelling. they're always sore, and very sensitive. i don't even like gentle caresses on them right now. it just doesn't feel good.

 

[M's girl]

ARe the nipples the more sensitive area of the breast though? Or is the entire surface area equally as sensitive?

Mine are definately the more sensitive area. But that does, by no means, mean my man should focus on them solely. Like others have said, depending on the time of the month and/or state of arousal they can also simply be too sensitive to touch. SweetErika said something in another thread that is also very true for me; I like it when M touches my breasts both at the same time and in a way as if he is touching them for the first time, like.... exploring, looking at them and holding them both in his hands. I can get dizzy just thinking about that...

 

[grungalunga]

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[ferntree]

eh, i just got on a new birthcontrol pill, and my boobs are really swelling. they're always sore, and very sensitive. i don't even like gentle caresses on them right now. it just doesn't feel good.

Its one of the noted side effects, if its the same one i'm thinking of. Apparently the side effects dissapear after 3months, how long have you been taking it for?

 

[SweetErika]

eh, i just got on a new birthcontrol pill, and my boobs are really swelling. they're always sore, and very sensitive. i don't even like gentle caresses on them right now. it just doesn't feel good.

Breast tenderness is an extremely common side effect, and may or may not go away with time on this particular pill. I had a terrible time on certain pills; one even added a whole cup size --permanently-- in a month.

Depending on how bothersome it is for you, you may want to talk to your doctor about trying different (and perhaps lower dose; look at this chart to see where your pill falls on the spectrum) pills, or something like the NuvaRing.

 

[hdlynnette]

I could write a book on all the things men should not do with breasts.

At the same time, I could also write a book on all the things men don't do with breasts. You'd think that with all the emphasis men put on breasts, they'd pay more attention to them!

My primary peeve about men and breasts is that they ignore them for the most part during sex. Hard to believe, but a lick and a tweak before they get down to fucking does not quite do the job. It honestly amazes me at how little men actually care about breasts when having sex. Like, once the dick is out, we can forget the tits.

Ok, enough rant. Slowly running your finger along the sides and underneath the breast gives me chills and makes my nipples hard and feels wonderful all through my body. Gentle flicking/rubbing with the tip of your finger or thumb works wonders to rev me up. Licking and sucking is a huge turn on, as is licking then blowing cool or hot air on them.

As things get more heated, I like slighty rougher play - I didn't say rough, just not as delicate as when first starting to play. So, this is where a little pinching and twisting is good. In the stages just before orgasm, more pressure feels good, but be careful because you can leave us with sore nipples!

If you're licking her pussy, don't forget to touch her nipples. If she's on top, touch her breasts - caressing, squeezing, playing with her nipples. If you're in doggy, reach around and cup her breasts or squeeze.

Personally, I also really, really like to be woken up with nipple play, much as a guy likes to wake up to a blowjob.

Bottom line, pay almost as much attention to my breasts/nipples as you do my clit - mine must be hard-wired as I need the nipple stimulation to come no matter what you're doing to my clit! Breasts should be a part of everything, not lonely and ignored!

I couldn't have said it any better than Norajane does here. She sums my preferances up rather nicely here.

 

[rosebud5446]

i'm sure it will go away soon as my body adjust to the pills, but i've grown like 1/2 a cup size in a week!

 

[ahooohgah]

My breast fantasy

I long for a lot of different things, but one of my favorite things to dream about is this: I'd like to indulge in the softest of soft breast play from behind DW while we're watching a movie. She'd be snuggled in in front of me on the sofa. I'd like to kiss her neck, nibble on her earlobes, stroke her hair, hold her close, squeeze her, use my fingers as if they were a drop of honey. I'd like to trace the path that honey would take if I dropped it onto her collar bone, and my fingers might move about the same speed. It likely would go off the side of her breast, or into the middle of her chest. So would go my fingers. Maybe I'd use some oil. I'd like to do everything I've read upthread. And, I'd like it to last as long as the movie.

The varieties are endless. I'd like to try them all as I thought of them.

That's the way I'd like it........she, however, can either watch TV or have sex. Not both.

 

[Badd Leroy]

For me, breast play gets me revved up, even if moments before I was thinking about doing the dishes. In fact, if I'm doing the dishes, and he comes up behind me and gently started caressing and tickling my breasts and nipples while kissing the back of my neck, I'll melt into a puddle right there.

MMMMM I love doing this to Women, The way it DOES make them melt, feel desired and aroused gets me very worked up

 

[aging_empress]

Tis true. Breasts need attention. And depending on the mood, adoration will get you a lot more than full out groping.

 

[M's girl]

Tis true. Breasts need attention. And depending on the mood, adoration will get you a lot more than full out groping.

Adoration...... nice.... that's it. And as a result the look on HIS face.

 

[aging_empress]

Priceless ^_^

 

[aging_empress]

There's prolly another topic that describes this, but I like it when my bf plays with my tits while he's fucking them. ^_^

 

[BigM]

The biggest turn-on for me is one nipple being sucked, his hand massaging my clit and me massaging the other nipple. Its the trifecta. Definitely for me the clit is directly related to nipple stimulation and vice-versa.

This, for me, is THE SINGLE most enjoyable thing to do during foreplay. OK, there's lots to choose from, but if I had to pick my favorite.... just give me a nipple and breast to suck on, along with a pussy and clit to play with. Sigh, I might never leave the house.

Sorry, golf clubs.

 

[HandFan]

Like a lot of the ladies here that replied, I really hate when I guy does a quick lick or two of the nipples and then just moves onto other things...it really is the worst broken promise of something that can be really great. I'd rather not have them touched at all if that is what a guy is going to do.

And I will quickly complain...what is it that once a girl is giving a man regular sex, that her breasts become virtually invisible? I know too many girls that have that problem with their husbands and boyfriends. I swear that my breasts got more action when I was a teenage girl then they do now that I'm a married woman. There is nothing like a sweaty backseat grope session to make my breasts happy! Okay, I'm done ranting.

I myself have extremely sensitive breasts and nipples, so I really need a guy to work his way to more robust play, instead of diving onto my pink pillows with a vengance.

It is a guaranteed fact that you could peel me off the ceiling if you ran your tongue along the undersides of my breasts, right where the underwire of my bra would normally be sitting...it just feels so breathtakingly wonderful. Plus, if your girl has very sensitive nipples, try kissing them a lot before you lick or suck on them, it's a nice warm up.

Gentle kneading, even through my clothes, is a surefire way of getting me to forget where I am and what I was doing before. Any attention my breasts get during sex, even just putting a hand on them, turns my arousal up 100 points...I just wish it happened more often.

One thing that I love that not a lot of people have metioned is the funny things you can do with breasts that feel good. Once in awhile, usually for a lark it seems, my husband will pull me close to him, (he's usually seated and I'm standing), lift my shirt, shove his face between my breasts, and jiggle them all over his face while making loud groaning noises. This makes me laugh so hard, but then turns me on too. It's like he's reveling in my breasts, plus the vibrations from his moans feel really good too! I love feeling his warm breath and beard as well. Sigh...now if I just could get him to do it more and for longer.....

 

[HandFan]

ARe the nipples the more sensitive area of the breast though? Or is the entire surface area equally as sensitive?

I find that my entire breast surface is maybe a just a fraction under the sensitivity of my nipples, but that is just me. That extra sensitivity of my nipples does not however mean that stimulating them more means more pleasure, in fact it can get very irritating or painful. So in my view, spending an even amount of time on the whole breast area is a good rule of thumb unless your girl tells you to spend more time on her nipples. I also feel that for girls with very sensitive breasts, if you focus on other pleasure areas at the same time, like kissing or genital petting, that she can relax and enjoy the breast play easier...instead of feeling like she has to fear whether your going to hurt her breasts or not, which can distract from the enjoyment.

I few dirty words uttered in an ear while one's breasts are getting petted goes a long way too!

 

[ferntree]

There's prolly another topic that describes this, but I like it when my bf plays with my tits while he's fucking them. ^_^

Also a good idea is to allow the girl to get on all fours with you underneath so that the breasts hang free. I find this increases the sensitivity and the visual stimulation for her.

Though beware, she has complaint of getting tired easily.

 

[HandFan]

I just wanted to bump this thread so that our ladies can contribute more!