Soulfiregirl
The Bisexual Bandit
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- Jan 16, 2005
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I dated a swinger this past year who also has BDSM interests. I haven't been on Lit in a while and we broke up recently. (He's a good guy and it was a mutual breakup. We broke up for various reasons but both decided to stay friends)
However, one of the sexual fantasies he revealed to me while we were dating was his interest in breast milking. At first, I thought I'd be open to it, but as time went on I started to lose interest and never tried it with him.
I can't find any old threads about it, so I'm asking about it here. I personally, do not care for pain during sex. (with the exception of spanking and more "mild" things like that) I like "rough sex", but to a limit. When it comes to BDSM, I am more into the "BD" part of it then the "SM" part.
I lost interest in breast milking because I assumed it would hurt too much after a while. (he's also into nipple torture which I never allowed) My nipples are very sensitive and can't take a lot of abuse as it is. I guess I wasn't sure if it's such a good idea to use a breast pump on a woman who has no children and isn't nursing.
Have you tried it? Do you enjoy it? Is there a lot of pain, or is it tolerable? Do you "leak" breast milk at other times when not using a breast pump? Are there any long term negative side effects from it?
Am I being a pussy about it? He was pretty bummed that I lost interest in it, but they are not his breasts.
Since he and I are staying friends, we might continue to have sex from time to time so I just wanted more info about it from folks who have actually tried it and enjoyed it.
Thank you in advance.
However, one of the sexual fantasies he revealed to me while we were dating was his interest in breast milking. At first, I thought I'd be open to it, but as time went on I started to lose interest and never tried it with him.
I can't find any old threads about it, so I'm asking about it here. I personally, do not care for pain during sex. (with the exception of spanking and more "mild" things like that) I like "rough sex", but to a limit. When it comes to BDSM, I am more into the "BD" part of it then the "SM" part.
I lost interest in breast milking because I assumed it would hurt too much after a while. (he's also into nipple torture which I never allowed) My nipples are very sensitive and can't take a lot of abuse as it is. I guess I wasn't sure if it's such a good idea to use a breast pump on a woman who has no children and isn't nursing.
Have you tried it? Do you enjoy it? Is there a lot of pain, or is it tolerable? Do you "leak" breast milk at other times when not using a breast pump? Are there any long term negative side effects from it?
Am I being a pussy about it? He was pretty bummed that I lost interest in it, but they are not his breasts.
Since he and I are staying friends, we might continue to have sex from time to time so I just wanted more info about it from folks who have actually tried it and enjoyed it.
Thank you in advance.