Breaking out and gaining experience

[fourziggy]

Hello fellow members............I recently had an experience that took me to a new level. You see I wrote a story called "Alley 1" and sent it to Literotica. I never heard anything so assumed it was dumped.
Last month I received an email from a reader who praised the story. Struth, it must be here somewhere so I went looking for it and found it. I read it again and thought it was ok work for me.

I digress, anyway the email from a woman asked for my reply and one thing led to another. We eventually met and had an afternoon of hot passionate sex. Fantastic.

Now after 25 years of missionary position and no oral, in one afternoon I experienced doggie, oral and a considerable amount of sexual energy and words. Wow -o- Wow!!!

So I got curious and read my local paper personal section and picked a lady at random and set up a meeting. She was wonderful, couldn't believe I had waited 25 years and proceeded to "french" me to death then ride me till I was blown away. Needless to say my eyes are now wide open. Fantastic experience, ....thanks Lyn

Now I think, lets get greedy while I am on a good thing, so off I go and find another lady a couple of days later....hey at 48 I need a day to recharge you know........anyway bad, bad, bad, experience.........hot room....cool lady.........unpleasant.....expensive and glad to get out of there........struth...cringe.........yuck.

Anyway if you read my story and respond to this thread I am seeking advice as to how to get experience, keep my marriage intact.............hey I'm used to missionary now and I do it ok and I need to learn how to please a woman without getting into trouble.

So anyone got some advice. I am based in Perth in Western Australia by the way, so hi to all the guys and gals in the States, and if there is a lady in Perth who can give me some hands on discrete training, well contact me direct at fourziggy@iprimus.com.au and lets chat direct.

Thanks and here's hoping for some good advice.

 

[MightyZor]

Undoubtedly its your choice to meet other women outside of marriage. I agree it's hot to fuck someone else in secret from your wife, but be careful about going further. First of all you should be extremely cautious of the women you find in classifields. They may turn out prostitutes, and you don't want trouble with their pimps. Second, they may have sex with many men and may have diseases..

Now, I agree with you that you should keep marriage in tact. You should convince your wife to be more exciting and let you do more stuff. At least try, but try to stay away from too much fucking on the side.

 

[fourziggy]

Hey thanks Thor....................anybody else have any thoughts on the matter........cheers

 

[Bandit58]

I'm breaking out and gaining experience too. Married 23 years, my husband was my first and only sexual partner. Missionary and that was it......and I hated him touching me. I was sexually switched off and at 43 was just going through the motions. He was emotionally abusive and my self esteem was at rock bottom. Then 8 months ago after one putdown too many I left......and 3 weeks later I met the man I love online.

I've been with him a few times now, the first time was 5 months ago. He is way more experienced than me, and was aware of that when we got together. He is very patient with me and so kind and loving......I have now done oral and love him to cum in my mouth, but I'm a bit scared of doing anal yet....I've done it a couple of times but have yet to let him cum there, it gets too intense for me and I get a bit afraid. He understands and is not forcing the issue.....he says I will know when I am ready. I love his fingers in there though And for a woman who thought she had something wrong with her - I now know that I am able to cum with a partner, something that never happened before. Different positions - doggie, 69, but our favourite is me on top

I'm also bisexual, he knows that too, it's something I have not acted upon yet but he has a lady friend who may not be averse to a MFF threesome. We're working on that one

I'm feeling a lot more confident now, both in and out of bed

 

[fourziggy]

Hi Bandit..................thanks for sharing with us all. I have been careful and am slowly moving forward with my sexuality. I am finding there is so much that I am unaware of out there.

Even something as simple as using a condom

Like after 25 years of marriage, I meet a new lady and we use a condom for both of our safety. So condoms can be tricky if you have never used one before.
Like with penetration and I cum, do I stop straight away? or keep going for a bit and then stop? Hey the little buggers don't come with a whole heap of directions and its not very cool asking dumb questions in the heat of battle!

Anyone else with something to enlighten me with??????

cheers

 

[alphacat]

Personally.. I'm not sure why you need to "break out" to get some experiance....
You know.... you can get new experience with your wife, and that would be a bloody hell of a lot safer (physically and emotionaly) then with random women.

Tell her that you're a bit bored with your sex life (who wouldn't be, doing the exact same thing for 25 years?), and that it would be nice to try a bit of variety. Take baby steps, and be willing to try things that would please her just as much as things that would please you. (i.e. if she gives you oral, give her oral too (which is *incredibly* pleasurable for a woman, btw)). Don't demand too much (i.e. anything kinky, or anal sex, or anythiing like that), just some variety in positions and such..... and be romantic.... I think a woman that has been made to feel loved will be more likely to try new things...

 

[fourziggy]

Thanks Gwenn.

After 25 years of coaxing and creating moments when great sex should have occurred it seems a lost cause. She is a woman who sees sex as a item on her list that recurrs about every 14 days in the same bed in the dark.

I am a man who has a desire to experience more than that. On the other hand your advice is sound. Am I missing something?

What does a woman of 48 want to become turned on and active with a man she loves and trusts.?????

I feel that I need to try some exciting sex while the old feller still works well and my wife does'nt seem to be the one who wants to play!

cheers,