Brat's Hideout!

[coacheric]

I appreciate the lovemaking. I am trying to figure out if I was pity fucked, if it was "just for me", or if he genuinely wanted to do xyz when xyz has never happened before. Since he didn't finish up, refused actually, I 'm guessing it was just pity. Which sucks. Cause I had fun minus the aftermath of not knowing what just happened. If that all makes sense, if not PM me. And I'll spell it out. Lol.

I know enough from reading what you said to understand at least to reply

Every guy is different. I for one would love for my wife to talk and tell me wha she wants. Hell, I'd love to know what she fantasizes about. Fucking tell me already so we can give it a try.

Now it sounds like your husband might not be willing to finish what you both started. That could be because he felt it was to kinky, maybe thought it was to emasculating (I said I don't know the details) or mYbe he was bothered that you would ask or that he didn't think of it himself.

I will say fro. Talking with others, lots of guys feelings can get hurt when their woman asks for something different. WHAT, my cock and my style of fucking is not enough for you? The little solider runs away thinking its him. That's hard to recover from.

So like even you said, pm me if you want to talk more or keep it here on the board and just reply with questions if you want me to continue.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

maybe reading erotica..TO each other..? Or suggesting some he can read?

Or watching some videos together... with.."ooo! I like that"

"That would be fun to try, don't you think?"

Throbbs... solid advice, Buddy! Thank you! I think I will find some of my fav tales pertaining to the night in question and see how things go...
I'm very selective with porn. I think nowadays everyone has a little more refined taste than the porn of the 90s. Then it was just blondes, fake boobs, and bald beavers. So it would take a lot of research to really find what I mean exactly....

Thank you for your input, Eric. I really like the line where you say just tell me so we can try. That's how I feel with him. I know he enjoys the fantasy of many women (who doesn't?!) but every time I get the gears rolling to put it in action, he cops out. I'm still trying to get this vanilla Catholic boy to open up....

 

[THROBBS]

Well, I hope it works out.

A million years ago we used to read erotica and watch porn.

She has since, developed a bit of "distaste" for video stuff. As for reading, she actually got the Shades of Grey (on her kindle) and we tried reading that... it was so awfully written that it was almost more buzz-kill than anything!


Still, it was a glimmer of hope for me.

 

[BurningMonkey]

A million years ago we used to read erotica and watch porn.

I hear you, Brother. Preach on; preach on...

 

[THROBBS]

I hear you, Brother. Preach on; preach on...

Would love to be "Singing a different song"

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

Throbbs... solid advice, Buddy! Thank you! I think I will find some of my fav tales pertaining to the night in question and see how things go...
I'm very selective with porn. I think nowadays everyone has a little more refined taste than the porn of the 90s. Then it was just blondes, fake boobs, and bald beavers. So it would take a lot of research to really find what I mean exactly....

Thank you for your input, Eric. I really like the line where you say just tell me so we can try. That's how I feel with him. I know he enjoys the fantasy of many women (who doesn't?!) but every time I get the gears rolling to put it in action, he cops out. I'm still trying to get this vanilla Catholic boy to open up....

I'm Catholic, and I'd certainly want to "open up" to you

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Lmoa @Throbbs. All those bitches got into that story. I wonder what % literotica memberships went up after that book came out. I agree 110% that crap was a disgrace to written erotica. There are waaay better unpublished authors here on Lit.

 

[BurningMonkey]

Not only was it poorly written, but it did more damage to the Dom/sub lifestyle than can be calculated.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Not only was it poorly written, but it did more damage to the Dom/sub lifestyle than can be calculated.

Absolutely. But I didn't read it past page 6 nor did I see the movie.

 

[BurningMonkey]

Absolutely. But I didn't read it past page 6 nor did I see the movie.

If only the majority of the female population had followed your lead...

 

[THROBBS]

Absolutely. But I didn't read it past page 6 nor did I see the movie.

If only the majority of the female population had followed your lead...

We waited and rented the movie via RedBox (so not a big loss of cash...just some time). It was marginally "better"...sorta... well.. maybe not. Nah..was also crap just in slightly diff way.


Whatever...it will fade away to A Whiter Shade Of Pale

Perhaps it has opened some doors and minds to something of quality. Rather than causing the money grubbers to knee-jerk "oh no! THIS genre is not commercial" (though the books sold..the movie "razzied")

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Lately....

A few of my favorite litsters have gone off Lit. I have less pm's these days. I miss them. Isn't it amazing how sometimes hearts just know each other? I'm a big believer that this universe is just a large circuit of energy, vibrations if you will.... I need some good vibrations.
I'm burning the candle at both ends most days. Trying to bring balance back to my career, my workouts, motherhood, and keep this man's attention. Whew.... I'm just tired.
I think I will enjoy my out of state work week next month.
*whispers..* aka an opportunity to purchase a glass toy?! And spend the nights masturbating....

 

[h60pilot]

Business trips...

....are always a good time to catch up on masturbating...

 

[SquirtnBrat]

I agree. I don't see why people deceit and cheat... self pleasure is often the best medication... unless you're one of those who masturbate then cry... then you should probably refrain... lol.

 

[THROBBS]

I agree. I don't see why people deceit and cheat... self pleasure is often the best medication... unless you're one of those who masturbate then cry... then you should probably refrain... lol.

hmmmm...

I can see why — masturbation does not provide the same sort of release.

Similar (an orgasm), but it's a "bandaid" to a bigger issue. If one has exhausted all avenues...............well, I'm not advocated for "deceit and cheat" or "divorce", but I understand.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

hmmmm...

I can see why — masturbation does not provide the same sort of release.

Similar (an orgasm), but it's a "bandaid" to a bigger issue. If one has exhausted all avenues...............well, I'm not advocated for "deceit and chea" or "divorce", but I understand.

I take back my statement. I get the emotional aspect of an affair. Let's be honest - that is why people cheat, not the orgasms. But I'm waaaaaaaayyyy too loud mouthed, transparent, and chicken shit to ever go threw with it all the way. I prefer the idea of polyamorous relationship s as in more then one love.
Plus, my what if list is long. My main scare being what if I didn't orgasm and put all this time/effort/manipulation into an affair for it not to be rewarding. Or what if I brought home SOMETHING!
I'd much rather be open and honest. And fuck myself. Because I do it perfectly! Damn it. Doctrine over here in Masturbation Studies.

 

[THROBBS]

Alrighty then!

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Alrighty then!

Lots of late night cram sessions!

 

[THROBBS]

Lots of late night cram sessions!

Ha!
Cramming...

I suppose, sometimes, one needs to be "vigorous."

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Squats....

Super Squat Sunday killed me!! Two days later my thighs are still burning! Haven't had a workout like that in a while!
Foam roll stretch.
Warm up with 18# kettlebells.
Then....
5 reps of 10 - 35#
5 reps of 10 - 55#
5 reps of 10 - 35#
5 reps of 10 - 65# squats.
Cool down was 5 miles on the treadmill at 3.5 miles... a brief walk out!

 

[VIPER2121]

Evening sexy brat!

 

[Amalgamation]

Hey Brat, my dear!

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Evening sexy brat!

Hey Brat, my dear!

*waves enthusiastically* Hi guys!! I hope everyone is having a good week! Tomorrow is my day off. So I'm excited to get today over with! First.... coffee!

 

[SquirtnBrat]

What more can a girl do? Exhausted.... in every sense of the word. I need a massage. *pout*

 

[simpletimes]

What more can a girl do? Exhausted.... in every sense of the word. I need a massage. *pout*

Nothing better than taking care if my girl after a good squirt session.
Yep, I know how many towlkes2 I'll need to wash tonight. Bring it and breakfast is served.