Brat's Hideout!

[Susurration]

I've been putting off our discussion about what has been up (in this case not up), just seems like there is never a good time.
Anyone have any pointers about those talks? I don't want him to feel attacked or become defensive. And if the reason is the bit of weight I have put on, I think I'll die. I'm very insecure, I have gained a dress size these past few months going back to school and all the stress that comes with that... I guess that's why I haven't brought it up...

There's never really good time to have a conversation like that. I think that the most important thing is to choose a time when you have time to talk and there's nothing immediately pressing that either of you needs to be doing, so there's no time pressure to say everything quickly.

Oh, and regarding the weight issue, you look incredible in all the photos I've seen you in, and I'd be astonished if that has anything to do with it.

Most men aren't great about talking about how they feel, especially when they don't initiate such conversations, so it may be difficult to broach the subject if he's not willing to discuss feelings. Tread carefully, but obviously you mustn't keep your own feeling bottled up about this much longer, otherwise you'll be harming yourself. Maybe just start by explaining how you're feeling and not ask him what's wrong or how he is feeling? He may simply be unaware of the effect this is all having on you deep down.

 

[Susurration]

Always biscuits for you!! There are plenty of panty sugar cookies left if you don't mind eating a lil ass...
I never leave. I live here now. Lol.
Hubby went to pick up some parchment paper and fresh nutmeg for my gingerbread men. I'm excited to give it a go!

You're making me hungry at 10:20pm over here ! You tease .

 

[SquirtnBrat]

There must be a Go Fund Me Orgy site out there.

Dude, for real though, if a guy can get $500 for tacos and beer; I should be able to get funding for a posh orgy!

 

[Stryderthorongil]

Awwww, you would be sooo cute....pounce....ouch, guess I can't pounce through the screen

That made me ridiculously giggle like a school girl!! Ha!! Thank you for always making me smile! Even if it is devilishly!

I've been putting off our discussion about what has been up (in this case not up), just seems like there is never a good time.
Anyone have any pointers about those talks? I don't want him to feel attacked or become defensive. And if the reason is the bit of weight I have put on, I think I'll die. I'm very insecure, I have gained a dress size these past few months going back to school and all the stress that comes with that... I guess that's why I haven't brought it up...[/QUOTE]

Wonderful to hear you giggle Best part of life, giggling. Your giggles made me smile.

As for your question, I am afraid I am of no help. I have no answers.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Tread carefully, but obviously you mustn't keep your own feeling bottled up about this much longer, otherwise you'll be harming yourself. Maybe just start by explaining how you're feeling and not ask him what's wrong or how he is feeling? He may simply be unaware of the effect this is all having on you deep down.

Great advice, thank you!! I think I will try to keep it to the "I feel yadda, yadda, how do you feel?" That way it doesn't feel like I'm attacking him just explaining how I feel. Hopefully it is interpreted as such. They say women are hard to read...

 

[SquirtnBrat]

I post a lot from this site, it is one of my favorites.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-2783...l&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer

 

[ralf3456]

hello Squirt

http://68.media.tumblr.com/34fa2aa120480de5b89ae9705ccd823e/tumblr_ofivgmLeec1u9111ko1_500.jpg

 

[Susurration]

Great advice, thank you!! I think I will try to keep it to the "I feel yadda, yadda, how do you feel?" That way it doesn't feel like I'm attacking him just explaining how I feel. Hopefully it is interpreted as such. They say women are hard to read...

Most of them are, in my experience . However, some men are also hard to read .

 

[SquirtnBrat]

hello Squirt

http://68.media.tumblr.com/34fa2aa120480de5b89ae9705ccd823e/tumblr_ofivgmLeec1u9111ko1_500.jpg

Good Evening Ralf!! Have some cookies and eggnog!

 

[ralf3456]

Hello sweet

some vanilla ice cream?

How's your day/night?

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Hello sweet

some vanilla ice cream?

How's your day/night?

I can serve ya up some of that too! My search for eggnog and boobs did not turn up as many sexy images as I would have liked...
I had a great day! Stayed in my pjs without undergarments... I got a lot of cleaning done today. I just put a pot of coffee on, I know I'll be up late wrapping gifts.

 

[ralf3456]

Sounds like a busy and productive day.

I've gotta wait another 2 hrs before home time

http://68.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2g1ytmRCV1qmwbyho1_500.gif

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Sounds like a busy and productive day.

I've gotta wait another 2 hrs before home time

http://68.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2g1ytmRCV1qmwbyho1_500.gif

This image is great. A full panty can be just as sexy as a g-string!
Yuck! I have been sending the ole man on all my errands today. He just asked why I was so reluctant to go out. "I don't want to put on real clothes." He laughed and replied with a shoulda known. He gets me.. Most of the time...

 

[ralf3456]

Fantastic!

http://68.media.tumblr.com/2046e4df6ffe535efa0b3da7469d83d1/tumblr_ofnn1wCSSx1umgjjjo1_500.jpg

 

[SquirtnBrat]

http://m.imgur.com/gallery/gkhAPVl
so I found this... I have very mixed feelings. But I also just laughed until I cried. No shit.

 

[ralf3456]

http://m.imgur.com/gallery/gkhAPVl
so I found this... I have very mixed feelings. But I also just laughed until I cried. No shit.

LOL...so funny. His reaction is priceless. I'd be diving in!

http://68.media.tumblr.com/4f201847af41ffea730e5054bf16be06/tumblr_ntlhywx2s41sajoh5o1_500.jpg

 

[SquirtnBrat]

LOL...so funny. His reaction is priceless. I'd be diving in!

http://68.media.tumblr.com/4f201847af41ffea730e5054bf16be06/tumblr_ntlhywx2s41sajoh5o1_500.jpg

I like this one as well... Reminds me of a Litster's submitted tale.

 

[Papa_Cali]

http://memeshappen.com/media/created/dude-where-are-the-cookies--meme-44276.jpg

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Smh..... These poor gingerbread men... So... That ended in carnage, instead we cut out some owls, dolphins, stars, and butterflies. Then watched Dolly Parton's Circle of Love while snaking. All my ginger cookies were ate up this morning so they must've tasted better then they looked! Made chocolate chip and white chocolate chip cookies as well, plenty of those left!

 

[wrant]

Smh..... These poor gingerbread men... So... That ended in carnage, instead we cut out some owls, dolphins, stars, and butterflies. Then watched Dolly Parton's Circle of Love while snaking. All my ginger cookies were ate up this morning so they must've tasted better then they looked! Made chocolate chip and white chocolate chip cookies as well, plenty of those left!

You were one baking machine. That is my plan for this morning.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

You were one baking machine. That is my plan for this morning.

I know my way around the kitchen. I'm not the best chef or baker but I do mix in a lot of love!!

 

[Susurration]

This image is great. A full panty can be just as sexy as a g-string!

Knickers are often more sexy to me than g-strings. I like a little more being left to the imagination and I also love how knickers hug a woman's body.

I know my way around the kitchen. I'm not the best chef or baker but I do mix in a lot of love!!

I have no doubt of that .

 

[Papa_Cali]

Smh..... These poor gingerbread men... So... That ended in carnage, instead we cut out some owls, dolphins, stars, and butterflies. Then watched Dolly Parton's Circle of Love while snaking. All my ginger cookies were ate up this morning so they must've tasted better then they looked! Made chocolate chip and white chocolate chip cookies as well, plenty of those left!

Gingerbread dolphins are sexy too...

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Merry Christmas Brat!

 

[coacheric]

Merry Christmas brat! Hope you have a perfect day

 

[VIPER2121]

Merry Christmas Brat!