Bored with Masturbation?!

[dancerinthedark]

I've been single for a while now and recently masturbation has lost its fun for me. I'm not sure why either because I used to love it. I figured maybe it was because I was used to the same routines. I do own a vibrator as well, so I was wondering if anyone has any unique ways of getting themselves off that I can try because I'm always horny anymore but don't know what to do to finish the job. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

 

[mutualpleasure_]

Share it with someone...

It's always better when shared...
by phone...
chat...
and in person is the best.

S.

 

[VeronicaSexie]

I've been single for a while now and recently masturbation has lost its fun for me. I'm not sure why either because I used to love it. I figured maybe it was because I was used to the same routines. I do own a vibrator as well, so I was wondering if anyone has any unique ways of getting themselves off that I can try because I'm always horny anymore but don't know what to do to finish the job. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

Definitely tired of masturbation. I have sworn off of it for a while. Hoping maybe it might make me horny enough to actually flirt with a real live person. I used to use a real life type dildo and sometimes a glass dildo in the rear. A real plus is a bullet vibe to use on the clit, use all three together and it never fails!

 

[rosebud_6]

have you tried?

have you tried role playing? or copying what people in porn movies do? you could look up masturbation clips on the net and then copy how they do it and see who comes first? or maybe you just need a change of scenery? like at the office? or in your car? what about water play? where you use one of those hose things that connect to your bath? or maybe it's time to buy a new vibrator if you're bored with your old one? (let me know what you come up with! i'm always up for new and exciting ideas!)

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

haha, you sound so excited and helpful Rose it's really sweet.

Dancer, I can emphasize with you - sort of. Masturbation never really did anything for me, and maybe you're becoming like that too.

 

[rosebud_6]

haha, you sound so excited and helpful Rose it's really sweet.

Dancer, I can emphasize with you - sort of. Masturbation never really did anything for me, and maybe you're becoming like that too.

i do? lol. hmm... thanks for the sweet comment but i'm just trying to help. i can't believe people are bored with masturbation! it's just so good! i would hate it if i didn't want to touch myself anymore. that would be terrible.

 

[Username_In_Use]

Try getting some booty calls instead of mercilessly flogging it.

 

[Cattypuss]

Do you fantasise while masturbating? I no, try starting. If yes, try changing the fantasy. I would be wray of inceresing the physical stimulation... law of diminishing returns and all that.

 

[viking3]

After all these years, I've never gotten bored with masturbation -- or sex, for that matter. Good Old Literotica keeps coming through (!) with new stories. Could use some new pictures, though -- anyone got any ideas? Barely legal ones?

viking3

 

[miss_behave]

Hey hunny, hmm...there are a few things you could try...

Firstly reading the stories on here of course, go for the really high rated ones and imagine yourself as one of the charactors while using your vibe/fingers.

Try reading some more taboo stuff like group sex for example which is my latest fetish hehe.

What vibe do you have? Cause I have a rabbit and it is AMAZING.

Try playing with your ass a bit...it does things for me.

Try reading something naughty when out and about and having a 'quick trip to the ladies' hehe.

Meet someone on here and role-play.

Watch porn! A lot of girls don't seem to do it and it's good!!! Try youporn.com, a lot of amateur and masturbation clips!

Try changing positions, masturbating doggy style can be fun!

And when you do find you can do it again, bring yourself to the brink again and again before you actually orgasm. It makes it a lot more intense. It's hard but worth it

Hope this helps!!!

xxx

 

[Firebrain]

I find that vibes de-sensitise you after a while. I would stop using it and buy a huge dildo instead, but that's me

 

[Hanon435]

think of how much you save. lol i get bored sometimes but i have to wank each day. i just have to. i'm a guy though so there is the risk of a random boner if i don't. not good. maybe you could try changing things. surf forums, video, stories, audio, chat. there are lots of different ways you can turn yourself on.

 

[swampydonkey]

I am not bored with masturbation actually. Though i have enjoyed sex many times in my life. but masturbation gives me more unique feelings rather than sex.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

My suggestions would be:

- When you masturbate, try not to think about your orgasm. Just relax and enjoy your clitoris: my favourite way is simply with my fingers, making long, firm, slow, strokes on my clitoris. Hopefully, you'll find your climax will creep up on you unawares.

- That said, and has already been mentioned before, when you are ready to come, try and hold it off. Go the the edge of the cliff and then take a pause. Repeat several times. Let your tension and desire to climax build to bursting point, until you need to orgasm so urgently you can resist it no longer. This way, your orgasm should be especially intense and deep - bringing with it both joy, and relief.

- While you're doing it, think the dirtiest thought you possibly can. Entertain the wildest fantasy you can devise.

- Experiment with gently stimulating your anus while you masturbate. You don't need to go inside - just use the tip of a dildo or something similar to stroke around its opening. I personally find the sensation nicely complements what I can feel from my clitoris, and adds a satisfying extra sensual layer. When you feel bolder, maybe even try slowly pushing just slightly inside yourself, and see whether you like it.

- Stroke your nipples.

- Try different positions. For example, I enjoy masturbating on my front, just for the change of angle and feel - and I also like doing it standing up, perhaps in the shower - where I sometimes aim the shower head's spray at my arsehole...that's a surprisingly sexy sensation, and worth a try.

Good luck - hope some of these ideas work for you.

 

[VeronicaSexie]

It is not that I don't know how to, it is just that since I have NO real hope in the near future of having any real sex, I hate to be getting horny more often and just have to resort to self pleasure which leaves me feeling like a freak sometimes and even more lonely.

I am attractive but older and not skinny. The not skinny part seems to be my major problem. If you are white where I live, you have to be skinny or date people of other colors because they are not stupid about what a sensual woman can be like, even if she is not rail thin!!!

 

[Cattypuss]

Why not date people of other colours then?

 

[VeronicaSexie]

Why not date people of other colours then?

I guess I would if I met someone, but I live in heart of the bible belt where it is very looked down upon. A few years ago here, a bi-racial couple got shot and killed in their car just for being bi-racial. It sucks I know.

 

[Cattypuss]

I guess I would if I met someone, but I live in heart of the bible belt where it is very looked down upon. A few years ago here, a bi-racial couple got shot and killed in their car just for being bi-racial. It sucks I know.

 

[embarassment]

OK back to the topic of this forum... I know for me at least, its more of a issue of getting bored of what I'm masturbating to not the masturbation itself.

 

[miaction69]

yep its a little too routine lately - no matter what i use or which way i use it
solo sex is a quick get off....but tie me to the bed or chair in soft satin and have someone solo sex me...
that would work.

 

[miaction69]

I've been single for a while now and recently masturbation has lost its fun for me. I'm not sure why either because I used to love it. I figured maybe it was because I was used to the same routines. I do own a vibrator as well, so I was wondering if anyone has any unique ways of getting themselves off that I can try because I'm always horny anymore but don't know what to do to finish the job. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

oil....semi darkness (candles work well) ....a full mirror...MUSIC - body pounding rock music- posy the vibrator on the ground...and ride it (get a rabbit vibrator - they're the best - and the hard outer end stays in place on the floor)

 

[miaction69]

oil....semi darkness (candles work well) ....a full mirror...MUSIC - body pounding rock music- posy the vibrator on the ground...and ride it (get a rabbit vibrator - they're the best - and the hard outer end stays in place on the floor)

another workable change - get a motel room for a night or a weekend (spa jets softly work wonders)
balcony...get a massage - pamper urself to ur prime...relax...watch a little porn - get in touch with ur femme fatale - invite a doable guy to visit - or forget the guy and go for it solo - every 3 or so hours....works well I did it recently...and i'll be doing it again!

 

[VeronicaSexie]

yep its a little too routine lately - no matter what i use or which way i use it
solo sex is a quick get off....but tie me to the bed or chair in soft satin and have someone solo sex me...
that would work.

YES, that would work! But that is not really solo now is it? Sounds like just what I NEED! I have a lot of built up frustrations, whoever gets me next will have a good time! And that was not an invite to the pervs on here. A one night stand only makes me feel worse.

 

[frenchbeanuk]

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[satindesire]

I guess I would if I met someone, but I live in heart of the bible belt where it is very looked down upon. A few years ago here, a bi-racial couple got shot and killed in their car just for being bi-racial. It sucks I know.

I live in Oklahoma and I'm in a bi-racial relationship and we have had absolutely no problems.

Are you sure you're not just being a little too paranoid?