Bored Husbands

[Scoval63]

Ok what about all of us sexually frustrated and bored husbands?
Think we need a thread of our own here as I am pretty danged sure
I am not alone in this. Yea so we're husbands and dads but dang it we need fun too huh. C'mon Ladies, don't be shy to us now

 

[RawHumor]

The reason you don't see many threads about this topic is because bored husbands are the rule, rather than the exception.

 

[lastingpassion]

Sorry Scoval, its just a fact of life for us...... lifetime membership when you
said "I do".

 

[Scoval63]

Hmmm

Think we need a thread for married bored looking males 'eh...lol
works for me, where are ya ladies?

 

[jshawk74]

I'm in this club!

 

[Gem_tiger]

Hiya guys ................................. can 'seperated' blokes join too ... technically still husbands and definitely bored fukkin shitless!!! err, sorry, got carried away there

 

[skloves]

Yup, I'm in that club.

 

[AlwayzHorny]

sign me up

 

[Scoval63]

Now what we need

All we need now are some Lovely Ladies to take an interest in us.

 

[AlwayzHorny]

is it bad that I am willing to cheat just to take out the sexual frustration I feel as long as she doesnt find out?

 

[Scoval63]

who am i

Who am i to judge you or anyone else, Specially when Im looking to do that same. its neither here nor there at this point

 

[AlwayzHorny]

i need a session with a girl wh ojust needs to be fucked hard

 

[jshawk74]

don't we all

 

[AlwayzHorny]

unfortunately I live in an area where there are not a whole hell of a lot of opportunities to do just that

 

[blue-girl]

i'll be the first

guess i am the first female to jump in here.

i will never understand how with all the excitable men out there i ended up with one who is completely not interested in sex.

i would love to be with a man like any of you who wants lots of sex, lots of positions every place in the house, anytime of day.

 

[Bumpme]

guess i am the first female to jump in here.

i will never understand how with all the excitable men out there i ended up with one who is completely not interested in sex.

i would love to be with a man like any of you who wants lots of sex, lots of positions every place in the house, anytime of day.

wow, ok, where are you, I am in!!!!!!!!

 

[Scoval63]

Blue Girl

Hey blue girl, Send me a pm through here and we'll find something to do and cheer each other up ok

 

[blue-girl]

wow, ok, where are you, I am in!!!!!!!!

right at this moment i am in bed!

 

[AlwayzHorny]

where do u live

 

[Scoval63]

More Ladies wanted in on this thread

 

[pink]

i know there are two sides to every story but i fail to understand how wives can let their husbands go like this? i just don't understand it at all? If i had a good horny man in my bed, he'd be getting fucked everynight.



Maybe i am just old fashioned but to me, it is a wife's duty to bring pleasure to her man. Just my opinion.

 

[Scoval63]

Pink, thats the way it should be, (Keeping your man Happy) But........
and I can understand and appreciate this but enough is enough, they feel tired after working, stress'd due to outside worries etc etc son on and so forth. But again enough is enough I say. I wanna coffee and see sumfin naked

 

[Eilan]

It would be nice to get both sides of the story

This issue is more complex than some of you would like it to be. Having been the spouse who wasn't interested, perhaps I can provide some insight into what the other half thinks.

Although my hubby doesn't believe me when I say this, I was the wife who wasn't interested in sex during my first marriage. I've posted about this elsewhere, so I won't bore you with the details, but I did a lot of soul-searching after my first marriage collapsed, and because of this, I wholeheartedly believe that problems in the bedroom often have their root causes in problems outside of the bedroom. Sex is only one part of a healthy relationship.

For me, it wasn't all about the sex, though painful sex was an issue. It was about other needs, namely emotional ones, that weren't getting met. It was about unspoken resentments; that's why communication is paramount. It's difficult to feel sexy when one works all day and then cares for infants and toddlers all evening while one's spouse works and then spends his days off involved in a time-consuming "hobby." I resented being ignored until it was time to fuck.

I'll grant that there are some people out there, both male and female, who just aren't interested in their partners. Usually, however, there's more to it than that, and we're only getting one side of the issue from people on Lit. Do you really expect people who piss and moan about not getting any from their SO's to admit to us that their behavior might contribute to the problem? On Lit, people like to portray themselves in the most positive light, so they don't admit that they don't do housework or help with the kids or make any effort to spend nonsexual quality time with their partner.

My ex and I both made mistakes; fortunately, we were both able to learn from them, and we're much happier with our new partners.

 

[michaelinteas]

i know there are two sides to every story but i fail to understand how wives can let their husbands go like this? i just don't understand it at all? If i had a good horny man in my bed, he'd be getting fucked everynight.



Maybe i am just old fashioned but to me, it is a wife's duty to bring pleasure to her man. Just my opinion.

I think I love you pink

but the man should keep the woman just as happy

 

[Trust4]

guess i am the first female to jump in here.

i will never understand how with all the excitable men out there i ended up with one who is completely not interested in sex.

i would love to be with a man like any of you who wants lots of sex, lots of positions every place in the house, anytime of day.

You go girl!!! Where are you from?....