Body Modifications mainly Piercing...

[funkygreeneyedlady]

I have always been curious about body piercing, at times I think I was born to early for this era, I am what I think was called the "X" generation? we pierced the crap out of our ears, the nose, tongue and facial areas came along as I entered my early 20's. I was working in the medical field and seen the after effects of the tongue piercing, for that reason I stopped the desire and want in getting my tongue pierced... I already have enough issues with my teeth... I certainly didn't want to deal with something helping to destroy them too!

I got my first tattoo at 20, I love it, and had always planned for more, however, the person I was with was a selfish S.O.B. and I seemed to fall into the habit of supporting his hobbies and my wants definitely went someplace BEHIND the stove... not even on the back burner!

So after finally wising up after 5 years of his B.S., I was in my late 20's I started yearning for piercings and more tattoos, I eventually met a good man, he personally has no issues with me doing anything to my body... even back then, however, my sensibilities and us buying a home, moving, having our child, and simply life in general put my "fun" spending on the back burner... so now I sit here in my late 30's and still want to be pierced and get more tattoos, I also have an extremely sick fantasy of my hubby getting an Apadravya and his nipples pierced... (she rolls her eyes cause I know w/o a doubt I have made a few men cringe! sorry) Let's say this... I am into the BDSM lifestyle and if I had it my way hubby would be right next to me on that front... he isn't, he has issues with even thinking about 'hurting" me... even with I am yelling at him to DO IT! (yeah, figured out my likes well into our 12 years) so I joke that I want him to get pierced I try to tell him how HOT I think it would be... all the things I try to say... but; he is not into PAIN at all... although when he's really hurting, he laughs... oddly enough!

I would love to have my nipples pierced, however, at this current time in my life, my once perky bouncy plump boobies are now not so perky (*pout-pout*) - I nursed, I have no regrets, but, somehow they don't tell you IF you choose to nurse your boobs will be the old lady boobies we all winced at when we were like 16! In other words... Gravity has definitely likened the boobies a bit too much for my liking... but I digress... I want and fantasize about being pierced... I like my nipples played with... but I NEED TO FEEL IT!

Okay... so all that being said; (sorry - really I am - I tend to be long winded... maybe being a SAHM has made me a bit too talkative... naaaah I've always been WAY too chatty!)

I am curious... anyone that has their nipples pierced? I think about small bar bells not rings... but - that's just in my mind eye and what I ponder.
I have considered piercing my hoo-ha; however, as much as the thought entices me, I seem to have this odd luck at times.. and my clit is WAY TOO important to me... I fear someone hitting the wrong parts and then I'm fucked... and w/o NO clit feelings anymore... it my clit could jump off my own body and beat the living shit out of me... pretty sure she'd do it... so yeah... none of that... and you might say well IF you won't pierce your privatey parts (my childs lovely names for our girlie and boy bits -- and YES I know what the fuck they are called... I just live around a young child... you learn to adapt) okay so anyways... why shouldn't I be able to pierce myself if I want hubby to have a big steel rod shoved through his cock?! well... I'll tell ya... it's not the pain, hell I've had a KID! The pain I'd oddly welcome... plus that steel rod going through hubbys cock will not disrupt his orgasms... other then during the healing time...

So... judge me if you must, but, I am extremely curious, tell me... what it's like, pain - and the sex after... I get all bothered just imagining a big metal object sticking out of the side my hubbys cock... (shrugging my shoulders) ahhh well I can think and fantasize all I want I suppose...

and if "Wishes were Fishes... we'd all have what we wanted!"

 

[corks25]

I've had my nipples pierced about a year and my hood for about a month now and I love them both. I think they look great ( i have rings in nipples and currently a curved barbell in hood, but I am going to change that out as soon as I can ). I'm also in my late 30's and I am BBW so things are not in the same place that they were when I was 20, and I still think the piercings look good so don't let that stop you.

The sensations seem stronger. Depending on where the barbell is sitting that day, sometimes I feel it on my clit all day and sometimes I don't feel it at all. That's why I'm going to experiment with the jewelry.

Hood piercing only hurt while the needle was being pushed through and when the jewelry was being pushed through. No pain at all other than that.
The nipples hurt for longer. The first one wasn't too bad when the needle went through, but the second one was REALLY painful. They were vaguely uncomfortable for a few hours after. I had to wear a bra 24/7 for the next 10 days or so because any movement of the rings at all hurt. Bumping into anything also hurt.
The worst part was no playing for 4-6 weeks on the nipples. It was only a week for the hood.

 

[jfox6222]

I've had my nipples pierced about a year and my hood for about a month now and I love them both. I think they look great ( i have rings in nipples and currently a curved barbell in hood, but I am going to change that out as soon as I can ). I'm also in my late 30's and I am BBW so things are not in the same place that they were when I was 20, and I still think the piercings look good so don't let that stop you.

The sensations seem stronger. Depending on where the barbell is sitting that day, sometimes I feel it on my clit all day and sometimes I don't feel it at all. That's why I'm going to experiment with the jewelry.

Hood piercing only hurt while the needle was being pushed through and when the jewelry was being pushed through. No pain at all other than that.
The nipples hurt for longer. The first one wasn't too bad when the needle went through, but the second one was REALLY painful. They were vaguely uncomfortable for a few hours after. I had to wear a bra 24/7 for the next 10 days or so because any movement of the rings at all hurt. Bumping into anything also hurt.
The worst part was no playing for 4-6 weeks on the nipples. It was only a week for the hood.

Damn that's almost verbatim what I would have said! I had my nipples done about 6 years ago and the hood 5. Oddly enough one of the nipples decided to reject a few months ago. After my mammogram this year I plan on having it redone.

 

[sb2009]

I have had my nipples done twice. First time pre-babies. Took it out when I was pregnant, you know when your boobs hurt like mother fucking hell the first couple of months? Yeah, I took that fucking peircing out.

I had them re-done a couple of years ago. I love having them pierced.

I want to have my hood done but I heard fat people don't heal well and I'm a bit overweight LOL

 

[corks25]

I have had my nipples done twice. First time pre-babies. Took it out when I was pregnant, you know when your boobs hurt like mother fucking hell the first couple of months? Yeah, I took that fucking peircing out.

I had them re-done a couple of years ago. I love having them pierced.

I want to have my hood done but I heard fat people don't heal well and I'm a bit overweight LOL

I'm BBW and diabetic and had no problems healing.

 

[sb2009]

Thanks for the input! I know I should do some more research isntead of something i read somewhere LOL I also should talk to the piercing guy who did my nips, but I just can't bring myself to ask "so, I'm a fat ass, will my clit take more time to heal?"

You know, what, I am going to call and say exactly that! I'm sure they've heard everything!

 

[corks25]

If you don't want to call the piercing place, just call your doctor. The doctor should be able to tell you.

 

[lyinaboutitall]

Being a girl of 35 and a victim of gravity...I say fuck it, pierce and tattoo anything you want. I have three tats and love them. Go get your nips done

 

[Etoile]

7 tattoos, 10 piercings (incl both nipples).

Here in Japan, the jewelry stores (Claire's-type places) sell self-piercing kits. They're called "Safety Piercer" and they sell them for ears and noses. FUCK NO THANK YOU. I think they are related to these.

 

[corks25]

Yeah I'm not afraid of needles and in fact did pierce my own ears with a needle and a piercing earring ( at one point I had 4 holes in each ear, 3 each I did myself), but its a lot harder than it looks to get it all lined up right, and the nose has to be a lot harder to do by yourself.
I certainly wouldn't pierce anything else again myself.

 

[Etoile]

I did one of my nipples myself, with a proper needle and all that. I can't imagine using the gun type.

 

[corks25]

Me neither. I wouldn't do it. I also wouldn't pierce myself again either so...

 

[falling]

I have a prince albert (10mm) and can't imagine why any man wouldn't want something extra to play with. Remember that it takes patience to stretch to larger sizes. Often wanted nips pierced too, but mine are really small and I don't think it would work well. As to yourself, if you have your hood pierced your clit will receive stimulation but there shouldn't be any dangers from that. Clit piercings (actually through the clit) are pretty rare. Tell the hubby not only will you enjoy him pierced, he'll enjoy it too.

 

[Etoile]

As to penis piercings, I find the ampallang more visually interesting, but with the apadravya you can have a Prince's Wand. Where's Shanky when you need him?!

 

[where]

I did one of my nipples myself, with a proper needle and all that. I can't imagine using the gun type.

*faints*

I've been toying with the idea of getting a nipple piercing, but I think I'd miss wearing my rubber rings.

As to penis piercings, I find the ampallang more visually interesting, but with the apadravya you can have a Prince's Wand. Where's Shanky when you need him?!

this thread really needs pictures.

 

[corks25]

*faints*

I've been toying with the idea of getting a nipple piercing, but I think I'd miss wearing my rubber rings.



this thread really needs pictures.

I know that its really difficult to use metal clamps now - you cant get a good grip in the right spot

 

[where]

I know that its really difficult to use metal clamps now - you cant get a good grip in the right spot

well I have pretty long nips, but I like to use two rings on each one. partly because the sensitivity is mindblowing as a result but also it just looks gorgeous.
but then i suppose a bit custom gold or silver would look nice too...

 

[funkygreeneyedlady]

very interesting...

I have a prince albert (10mm) and can't imagine why any man wouldn't want something extra to play with. Remember that it takes patience to stretch to larger sizes. Often wanted nips pierced too, but mine are really small and I don't think it would work well. As to yourself, if you have your hood pierced your clit will receive stimulation but there shouldn't be any dangers from that. Clit piercings (actually through the clit) are pretty rare. Tell the hubby not only will you enjoy him pierced, he'll enjoy it too.

So... I am still new to the 'names' and I had to look for photos of a Prince Albert -vs- a Princes Wand... is there one? and just so I understand, these two examples of the piercing of the penis; that long part... it goes into the penis - like into the "pee hole"? (for lack of a better way of putting it) So... my "20 question, inquisitive mind" wants to ask -
-how does that effect, (if it does indeed go into the penis straight backwards from the head to the base) the times when you are relaxed and then going erect and then back to relaxed state after becoming hard? is it something that just doesn't or has never effected you or something that is a fun new sensation that you enjoy?

I obviously have no clue regarding the clit -vs- the hood piercing and honestly now that I know the stimulation abilities... it would be exciting, it excites me to think about it...

If I had it my way I'd be at the local piercer today. Thanks you for adding to the post... I was hoping for a male perspective regarding penis piercings too!

 

[funkygreeneyedlady]

thanks for the postings so far...

I have spoken to my husband about this, and it seems as I age and approach mid-life (yikes!) I seem to only get more adventurous whereas he seems to be a bit of a prude with regards to this subject, I personally think it's a really an exciting thought, but, whenever I bring it up, and I can assure you I have definitely talked his ear off... trying to ease him into the idea he claims he wants nothing to do with his body being poked in the manner of piercing...

I have also lately pushed the idea of me getting at least my nipples, which he has lately informed me he doesn't like the thought.... UGH! I don't typically live by his words being the bottom line (thus why I wonder if I am more of a switch - rather then a true submissive) I tend to push hard and often times still do what I want when I REALLY want something, even when he voices his "not so much into" whatever said thing is... he'd rather I have long hair... however, due to it being straight... and I was pushed to bend to another persons wants all the time when I was younger... I wear shorter should length hair... I chose a medically necessary option instead of the 2nd option and told him after I had chosen for myself... (that was in year 2 of our marriage) - he accepts...

There is a huge part of me that wants to be pierced, yet, there is also another part of me that also wishes he would be on the same page with at least a small amount of curiosity, I mean I get it... it's new and a bit strange, to him, but, he and I grew up differently, I grew a bit different from him... much less conservative and sadly his old man conservativeness seems to show it's ugly head occasionally... I just wish it wouldn't show it on this matter... what gets me is that he's perfectly fine with me getting more tattoos, but putting more holes in my body makes him bulk... maybe it's due to me already having a tat when we met?

Bottom line... I sincerely appreciate everyone that has read and posted on this for me... I really in a curious person, I thrive on knowledge and hope anyone and everyone that has anything to add will choose to do so!

Thanks!!!

 

[Etoile]

So... I am still new to the 'names' and I had to look for photos of a Prince Albert -vs- a Princes Wand... is there one? and just so I understand, these two examples of the piercing of the penis; that long part... it goes into the penis - like into the "pee hole"? (for lack of a better way of putting it) So... my "20 question, inquisitive mind" wants to ask -
-how does that effect, (if it does indeed go into the penis straight backwards from the head to the base) the times when you are relaxed and then going erect and then back to relaxed state after becoming hard? is it something that just doesn't or has never effected you or something that is a fun new sensation that you enjoy?

A Prince Albert is a type of piercing that only makes one hole in the body - through the penis and into the urethra. The jewelry is run through the urethra (pee hole) and the pierced hole. Pictures and so forth: http://wiki.bmezine.com/index.php/Prince_Albert_Piercing

A Prince's Wand is a piece of jewelry worn through a Prince Albert piercing, not a piercing itself. The long part enters the urethra and the short part is fastened through the piercing hole. Pictures of them: http://www.princeswand.com/ How to wear them: http://steelwerksextreme.com/blog/?p=790

Most people only wear Prince's Wands for playtime, and they don't generally go all the way to the base. (Look up "sounding" for inserted rods that DO go that far back.) I have no idea if they are enjoyable or not though!

You know, I'm going to try to get in touch with Shanky, our resident (albeit absent) male piercing expert...
Added: I've pinged him on here, Fetlife, and IAM. If anybody knows other ways to get in touch, please do. I miss the guy a lot.

 

[Black_Bunny]

When I was filling out my trusty little 200 question BDSM checklist, I came across the activity of "Play Piercing" : "Exploring the concept of body piercing but in a manner that is temporary."
Would your partner consider this? That way he doesn't feel like he's 'stuck' looking at your piercing for the rest of his life, but you still get the kick out of it

PS I saw nipple bar piercings on stripper recently, they were soooo hot I decided right then to get them. Uh, soon

 

[unsettled]

I am glad this topic came up, as I am planning on getting a VCH (vertical clitoral hood) piercing. I was undecided because I am a BBW and wasn't sure about the healing process. I really am going to get it now that I have seen some opinions from other ladies.

I did have a question about the nipples, has anyone gone through breast feeding with them? I am planning on having children someday and don't want to cause potential problems by getting pierced.

 

[Etoile]

I did have a question about the nipples, has anyone gone through breast feeding with them? I am planning on having children someday and don't want to cause potential problems by getting pierced.

Many women with pierced nipples have gone on to breastfeed perfectly well! You can't keep jewelry of any type in, though, as it will create problems when the infant tries to latch on. If you want to take them out every time the baby is hungry, that's okay, but you can't breastfeed while the jewelry is in the nipple.

 

[CurlyKat]

I am glad this topic came up, as I am planning on getting a VCH (vertical clitoral hood) piercing. I was undecided because I am a BBW and wasn't sure about the healing process. I really am going to get it now that I have seen some opinions from other ladies.

I did have a question about the nipples, has anyone gone through breast feeding with them? I am planning on having children someday and don't want to cause potential problems by getting pierced.

I have a vertical hood piercing and it was one of the easiest, fastest healing piercings I've ever gotten. Literally the only pain for me was a split second when the needle passed through. As soon as that was done, it didn't hurt at all. They said to give it two weeks before playing with it to heal, but it was really completely healed within a week. Seriously, my ears hurt worse and took longer to heal than this one did. And it is pretty fun to play with, too!

 

[unsettled]

Many women with pierced nipples have gone on to breastfeed perfectly well! You can't keep jewelry of any type in, though, as it will create problems when the infant tries to latch on. If you want to take them out every time the baby is hungry, that's okay, but you can't breastfeed while the jewelry is in the nipple.

Thank you for the reply. I apologize that I haven't done my research on the problems associated with nipple piercings. I guess it didn't occur to me that some would question the actual feeding process, sorry I wasn't more clear. My biggest concern was the possibility of an injury to the duct, causing milk flow issues... But the duct is probably avoided when piercing?