Blurting it out....Playground style

[BlitheSpirit]

Ok.....I have been through 4 years of taking care of my parents which I most gladly did as they were wonderful parents......having both of them die within 3 months of each other less than a year ago..
I have been through my son going off to fight in Iraq, having moments of downright terror during some of the news reports... and mercifully having him come home safe....
I have been through the experience of having an extremely close friend, something I have never had before.....and through all the ups and downs of that kind of relationship, it has brought me some of the most unexpected and desirable rewards.......which I expect will carry through a lifetime.
I have been through the discovery that my husband has incurable cancer and will give him support and love as best I can until the inevitable happens.
and....
I have been through an affair of the heart......a lover who told me that he loved me so much that he could barely express it.....a lover I have felt the same about and still do......but now...he apparently no longer has those same feelings........though....I still do...
So.....here I am....
I am hanging in there.....I am doing what must be done.....I am inherently strong and will remain so no matter what happens in my life....
and.....I am done blurting.

 

[Morrigu]

Ok.....I have been through 4 years of taking care of my parents which I most gladly did as they were wonderful parents......having both of them die within 3 months of each other less than a year ago..
I have been through my son going off to fight in Iraq, having moments of downright terror during some of the news reports... and mercifully having him come home safe....
I have been through the experience of having an extremely close friend, something I have never had before.....and through all the ups and downs of that kind of relationship, it has brought me some of the most unexpected and desirable rewards.......which I expect will carry through a lifetime.
I have been through the discovery that my husband has incurable cancer and will give him support and love as best I can until the inevitable happens.
and....
I have been through an affair of the heart......a lover who told me that he loved me so much that he could barely express it.....a lover I have felt the same about and still do......but now...he apparently no longer has those same feelings........though....I still do...
So.....here I am....
I am hanging in there.....I am doing what must be done.....I am inherently strong and will remain so no matter what happens in my life....
and.....I am done blurting.

*hugs you* Thank you for the share

 

[only_lj]

Zombification is not fun!
All zombification causes should be outlawed .

 

[blueeyes7564]

Ok.....I have been through 4 years of taking care of my parents which I most gladly did as they were wonderful parents......having both of them die within 3 months of each other less than a year ago..
I have been through my son going off to fight in Iraq, having moments of downright terror during some of the news reports... and mercifully having him come home safe....
I have been through the experience of having an extremely close friend, something I have never had before.....and through all the ups and downs of that kind of relationship, it has brought me some of the most unexpected and desirable rewards.......which I expect will carry through a lifetime.
I have been through the discovery that my husband has incurable cancer and will give him support and love as best I can until the inevitable happens.
and....
I have been through an affair of the heart......a lover who told me that he loved me so much that he could barely express it.....a lover I have felt the same about and still do......but now...he apparently no longer has those same feelings........though....I still do...
So.....here I am....
I am hanging in there.....I am doing what must be done.....I am inherently strong and will remain so no matter what happens in my life....
and.....I am done blurting.

(((((Blithe))))))) hugs and kisses to you girl.....I am more than sure that the close friend that you have, appreciates you as much if not more than what you do her......I can not sympathize with you on the loss of your parents but to a point........I am still lucky enough to have both of my parents.......

as for your affair of the heart, I can totally sympathize with you on that one.... I have had one of those myself....I do still have the same feelings for him, that I have always had, but it is very apparent that his feelings have changed for me now.......so I can understand where you are coming from......

You are a very strong person, and I know that you can handle anything that is thrown your way, but always remember that I am only a phone call away, and I always always have a shoulder for you to lean on, and an ear for you to talk with.............keep your chin up beautiful lady, you are a very special person to me............love ya girl.................

 

[tnblondie]

After everything is it too much to ask for a sign? Just one piece of proof??
I know that you are going through a lot right now, so am I. And when I think of all that I have went through, BECAUSE of you, NO, I don't think that it is too much to ask for you to give this one time, after all that I have given to you.

I told you that this would be hard. You said you could handle it.

 

[AboutFace]

yeah..... whatever. Is that all I'm good for... for people to talk to me when they are down, to get my support, for me to raise them up? When is it my turn?

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Wow... I just realized even when I am a grandmother... I still won't have a "happily ever after."

 

[koalabear]

Redheads 'have more sex than blondes or brunettes'


Blondes may have more fun but redheads have more sex, according to new research in Germany.

The study by Hamburg Sex Researcher Professor Dr Werner Habermehl looked at the sex lives of hundreds of German women and compared them with their hair colour.

He said: "The sex lives of women with red hair were clearly more active than those with other hair colour, with more partners and having sex more often than the average. The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation."

He added that women who dyed their hair red from another colour were signalling they were looking for a partner, and added: "Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better."

Psychologist Christine Baumanns said however that it may not be the women who were to blame for the better sex lives of redheads.

She said: "Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead he will think he is dealing with a woman who won't mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex."

 

[exividere2]

Redheads 'have more sex than blondes or brunettes'


Blondes may have more fun but redheads have more sex, according to new research in Germany.

The study by Hamburg Sex Researcher Professor Dr Werner Habermehl looked at the sex lives of hundreds of German women and compared them with their hair colour.

He said: "The sex lives of women with red hair were clearly more active than those with other hair colour, with more partners and having sex more often than the average. The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation."

He added that women who dyed their hair red from another colour were signalling they were looking for a partner, and added: "Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better."

Psychologist Christine Baumanns said however that it may not be the women who were to blame for the better sex lives of redheads.

She said: "Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead he will think he is dealing with a woman who won't mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex."

I've been saying for years... redheads and brunettes...redheads and brunettes

 

[Morrigu]

Wow... I just realized even when I am a grandmother... I still won't have a "happily ever after."

*passes Red some Fairy Grandmother wings*

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Redheads 'have more sex than blondes or brunettes'


Blondes may have more fun but redheads have more sex, according to new research in Germany.

The study by Hamburg Sex Researcher Professor Dr Werner Habermehl looked at the sex lives of hundreds of German women and compared them with their hair colour.

He said: "The sex lives of women with red hair were clearly more active than those with other hair colour, with more partners and having sex more often than the average. The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation."

He added that women who dyed their hair red from another colour were signalling they were looking for a partner, and added: "Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better."

Psychologist Christine Baumanns said however that it may not be the women who were to blame for the better sex lives of redheads.

She said: "Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead he will think he is dealing with a woman who won't mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex."

*chuckles* Would you believe for many many many years (and I still sometimes want to) ... wanted to dye my hair black.

I've been saying for years... redheads and brunettes...redheads and brunettes

w00t for the redheads.

*passes Red some Fairy Grandmother wings*

Thank you very much. It was a depressing moment to realize that last night, but I decided to not focus on it. Afterall, I have (I HOPE) many years before my eldest makes me a grandmother.

 

[sirgary]

...I am not sure why but I have been sleeping much more than usual..

I long to get back to normal and to have this surgery behind me.

The pain, the lack of mobility, the drugs that leave me not feeling like me, and the loss of quality of life has taken it's toll...

I want this to end....NOW....

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

...I am not sure why but I have been sleeping much more than usual..

I long to get back to normal and to have this surgery behind me.

The pain, the lack of mobility, the drugs that leave me not feeling like me, and the loss of quality of life has taken it's toll...

I want this to end....NOW....

 

[rollinlower]

trying to get back in control of my life the way i want it and all i got is a few small things keeping me from being there right now i have actually been able to work thru some of my blocks and been able to sit down and write again

 

[kendra1980]

Redheads 'have more sex than blondes or brunettes'


Blondes may have more fun but redheads have more sex, according to new research in Germany.

The study by Hamburg Sex Researcher Professor Dr Werner Habermehl looked at the sex lives of hundreds of German women and compared them with their hair colour.

He said: "The sex lives of women with red hair were clearly more active than those with other hair colour, with more partners and having sex more often than the average. The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation."

He added that women who dyed their hair red from another colour were signalling they were looking for a partner, and added: "Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better."

Psychologist Christine Baumanns said however that it may not be the women who were to blame for the better sex lives of redheads.

She said: "Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead he will think he is dealing with a woman who won't mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex."

See, it's good to be a redhead! I wonder if two red heads together would combust?

 

[texasvision]

damn I'm sleepy...oh my bad did I say that outloud

 

[asian_princess]

damn I'm sleepy...oh my bad did I say that outloud

Nope.

All i heard was.."oh yeah...right there"

or was that me??

 

[Morrigu]

I really feel like stripping off and running outside to feel the sun on my bare skin *sigh*

 

[Daizie]

I really feel like stripping off and running outside to feel the sun on my bare skin *sigh*

great googily moogily!

 

[blueeyes7564]

...I am not sure why but I have been sleeping much more than usual..

I long to get back to normal and to have this surgery behind me.

The pain, the lack of mobility, the drugs that leave me not feeling like me, and the loss of quality of life has taken it's toll...

I want this to end....NOW....

give yourself a few more days, and the worse part will be over.....then you will have the recoop time, so take it easy for a few days, and have some fun, and then you will be able to get back to your quality of life............

 

[Jelina]

Feel free....I'm sure there are plenty in your area who would love you to do just that
reply to Morri's post

 

[Morrigu]

great googily moogily!

Feel free....I'm sure there are plenty in your area who would love you to do just that
reply to Morri's post

It's such a lovely day I like moogily

 

[koalabear]

See, it's good to be a redhead! I wonder if two red heads together would combust?

That might make a good video..........

 

[kendra1980]

That might make a good video..........

It could, or could burn up your dvd player!

 

[sweetgypsy]

two words.............daisy dukes