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[Guest]

hi. on friday night, i gave my boyfriend a blowjob. it was my 1st time giving and it was his 1st time receiving. he said it was really great. my question is how long does it take most guys to cum? i was sucking him off for about 5-10 minutes without him cumming. then i started jerking him off and i went back down on him and swallowed. i was just wondering how long should it take?

 

[noseed]

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Being his first, it sounds like he held out well. My wife's jaw usually aches because I take so long. I enjoy Blow Jobs and like to savor every second and usually take longer to cum this way that if I were having regular sex.

 

[Merelan]

Anywhere from seconds to hours... working jaw in remembrance.
You know something. Look at the top of the screen. See the word search? Do a search on blowjobs. You will not only get lots of descriptions of them, but some super techniques. Ideas on how to make them better, and easier, for both of you.
If you see something by a poster called hello_nurse, let me know. she gave the most descriptive how to on them. Damn. It was hot, and informative.

Good luck, and enjoy. Oh yeah, make sure he reciprocates, only fair!

Okay I did a search for ya,

here

http://very-koi.net/tutor/cock/cock.htm

I do not take credit for the link. Skibum shared it with us. Is very good, very. In fact maybe I shall go practise a bit.

Couldn't find the one from hello_nurse.

 

[JUDO]

A pussy with a mind

Just remember what you are pretending to be and make sure all the working parts are there. You say that he didn't ejaculate until you start jacking him.

Well, we're you simply sucking with your lips and tongue only at the start? How much saliva did you use?

All of these things, besides rhythm, heat and suggested moods play a part in the suckcess (sorry, couldn't resist) of a blow job.

Your mouth is hot and wet, just like your pussy, but how tight is it? Only your hand (well-coated with saliva) will determine that. How fast and how hard is he fucking? Depending on his position, you might be the sole determining factor of that one.

The biggest difference between your mouth and hand pretending to be a pussy is that you have a brain and can decide what stimulation where instead of "the package" that your pussy presents.


- Judo

 

[Julian]

Woo-Hoo!

Don't worry about technique or timing or the silly little details. Just enjoy it, and smile about it. You worry & you'll never have fun. Read, watch porn, whatever...just remember: this is a seduction of the senses.

Pleasure is the outcome, not being connected to a technique.

And always touch him (or her) everywhere...make this a regular part of sex just like anything else.

Have Fun!



Julian

 

[SallyIsHere]

Foresuck!

There is foreplay and foresuck. If you spend a few minutes telling him how much you want to suck him and how much it turns you on, he might just cum before you touch him. Some men are self conscious about being sucked or whether she wants him to cum, cum in her mouth or move on to intercourse. Some women are self conscious too, wondering if he really likes giving her oral sex, if she tastes good, if she takes too long to cum.

Start the fire before first.

sal

 

[Mr.G]

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Don't forget that on purely the physical side of what your b/f's dick is going to react to is based on probably years of masturbating before he ever got close to a woman. Some guys are pretty ruff on themselves as they become desensitized and really have t pound themselves to get any good reaction.

OK, that's the physical side. Somebody already mentioned the mental side and that is where you have to concentrate if he needs a LOT of stimulation. Your mouth, neck, lips will have a hard time simulating 15 minutes of intense masturbation so you have to stimulate his largest sex organ - his brain. Turn him on between his ears and your mouth may never get close to his dick before he explodes. A nice touch that you swallowed. I don't get this spewing over her face in the porn movies. Visually, I guess it looks cool but to take your dick out of a hot wet sucking mouth right at the moment of orgasm...DUHHH!

Anyway...

The HollyWood Madam said that a combination of sexy stories and a BJ was how she treated her best customers ($40,000 for a night of multiple orgasms) so find out what makes him HOT and talk about it. Pretend, fantasize talk to him, tell him what it feels like having his dick in your mouth, you'll know from his reaction what is making him hot and go there. Have fun. It sounds like you've had a great start with your enthusiasm only.