blowjob question

[HappyAlone]

Ok so i have a question that I've been curious about for quite a while but never asked anyone.
When giving a blowjob - do guys prefer the sloppiness of it as well? I mean i rarely swallow the spit until i feel it begin to slide down his cock. So its nice and sloppy and the sounds it makes is just awesome. I was talking to a girl friend about it and she said that most guys hated that, that's what made me think to ask you guys!!!
I don't plan to give a bj any time soon, just curious for future references. Now is as good a time to ask as any!

 

[NippleMuncher]

As with all things sexual, it is up to the beholder to tell you what is preferred or not.

Lots of lube is a good thing, sloppy for me isn't so sexy, but deep throat is. You want to make me come quickly, gobble my cock to its base. I also prefer more mouth action than hand action, so slobbering on the tip while you stroke my shaft isn't going to get you too far. For some guys it's about having you swallow their load, I personally don't care one way or the other, but I do want to make sure that whatever happens, we deal with it in a manner that is good for you.

Now, having said that, I am absolutely thankful for any tender mercies that you wish to bestow upon my cock with your mouth, I appreciate all efforts, it all feels great, but it takes a certain method to really make it over the top.

Every man is different, just as eating out every woman is different, sure some things are similar, but some need more clit play, some need finger insertion with the oral, some need lots of tongue, others need ... you get my point.

Ultimately, you need to have this conversation with your partner to determine what works best for them and adapt your techniques to accommodate those needs.

 

[bad_dave]

I like it nice a sloppy, but as above its personnel preferance.

 

[silverwhisper]

you know, i've never been that big on BJs. i like 'em fine but they aren't what rock my world, no matter how well performed.


so i don't always receive BJs, but when i do, i prefer less sloppy.

:>

ed

 

[Lord Pmann]

you know, i've never been that big on BJs.

I know each of those words. But when placed in that order, I don't understand them at all. I don't know what that means.

For me, I mostly don't prefer sloppy. However, it depends on the situation. If the initial purpose is to turn me on, sloppy will get it done. But if the purpose is to make me cum (which it ultimately always is), then slow and steady wins the race. I prefer steady, half mouth/half hand movement. Consistency is key.

I don't normally do this, but I'm feeling generous. I'll offer my stick for a trial. I know, selfless. But I'm no hero.

 

[Eilan]

so i don't always receive BJs, but when i do, i prefer less sloppy.

I see what you did there.

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

I know each of those words. But when placed in that order, I don't understand them at all. I don't know what that means.

I understand them fine and I agree with them. I've never gotten off from a blowjob. Granted, I don't think I've ever received one where she was trying to get me off. They've always been in the context of foreplay, so 15 seconds to a minute or two before on to intercourse.

So, not too much experience receiving sloppy ones. I don't like the slobbering gagging sounds when they show up in porn though so I doubt I'd like them in person.

 

[bambikiller]

I take a blow job sloppy or not sloppy.
I probably perfer the less sloppy kind but I won't stop you from drulling all over my dick and balls.
It's a shame you aren't planning on sucking dick any time soon.
But if you want to learn all you can about them untill that time comes there's plenty of threads on giving head.

 

[clb84]

i think it's more common for a guy to like it less sloppy, from my experience. wetter is better, yes. but actually sloppy is something that i think not as many prefer. it's more about the technique of what you're doing and seeing what they respond to than the amount of saliva you put on/leave on. just kinda run through a few things and see which gets more of a response. then you know where to start and keep trying until you find his winning combo, so to speak.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Ok so i have a question that I've been curious about for quite a while but never asked anyone.
When giving a blowjob - do guys prefer the sloppiness of it as well? I mean i rarely swallow the spit until i feel it begin to slide down his cock. So its nice and sloppy and the sounds it makes is just awesome. I was talking to a girl friend about it and she said that most guys hated that, that's what made me think to ask you guys!!!
I don't plan to give a bj any time soon, just curious for future references. Now is as good a time to ask as any!

The whole "sloppy" thing originated in porn, for visual impact. Drooling all over a cock makes no difference in the sensation. It's one of those purely porno-generated sex memes.

 

[DrHappy]

I like sloppy, do count me in

Having said that, there are different degrees of sloppiness. Some of the extreme sloppiness in porn, along with the gagging sounds is a bit much. I'm perfectly fine with it running down into my hair and balls, though.

 

[Hang0911]

I like em sloppy, to me it means she's really getting into it hopefully on both ends

 

[Carnevil9]

I like sloppy in the sense of wet - lots of saliva is a good thing. But I don't like sloppy in terms of unpleasant noises: gagging, spitting, coughing...yuck! Keep the sounds loving, like humming, cooing, polite slurping, and maybe some dirty talk.

 

[clb84]

i have *never* understood the gagging thing. i only know one guy that actually really likes it. the noises and the reflex, everything. i don't know if it's that the woman is letting him enjoy himself so much that she doesn't care if it gags her or that he just has the control?

to me, blow jobs are amazing and beautiful. vomiting on a guy's lap is not. i just don't want to mix the two.

 

[HappyAlone]

I don't normally do this, but I'm feeling generous. I'll offer my stick for a trial. I know, selfless. But I'm no hero.

Its all i can do, you already promised me a hero pic, so i'd be enthused to reciprocate.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Its all i can do, you already promised me a hero pic, so i'd be enthused to reciprocate.

Enthused eh?

Perhaps we will try a sloppy wet one, among all other kinds.

I've posted this elsewhere, but it's worth watching:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZItsbLzc73s&sns=em

 

[amofiga]

I like it sloppy with the woman telling me how much she loves getting her mouth fucked and how much she loves the taste of cum. The dirtier and sluttier the better.

 

[NippleMuncher]

I like it sloppy with the woman telling me how much she loves getting her mouth fucked and how much she loves the taste of cum. The dirtier and sluttier the better.

How is she able to talk with her mouth full?

 

[amofiga]

The more muffled the talking is because of cock-filled mouth, the better Then again, it's necessary to come up for air now and then so a little conversation at that point adds interest to the festivities.

 

[sethp]

Sloppy.. lot's of drooling around my cock.. when I cum...the head gets hypersensitive and I don't like a lot of action there. I love to cum in the girls mouth...seeing her swallow it...just having her groan or grunt as I shoot in her mouth. Love blowjobs.

 

[Carnevil9]

Almost without exception, the answer to any blowjob question is: YES!!

 

[xanach]

The wetter the better. Nothing feels better than her spit running between my legs and balls with my dick in her mouth. Put down a towel or you'll be sleeping on a wet spot.

 

[lovecraft68]

Depends on the scenario, a little spit play is fun, but actually hocking one on me is very unattractive.

What generally does it for me is the little noises the other half makes in her throat and the eye contact and I'm a sucker for a cute little pout when sheis' down there.

However if we have gone out and she's been drinking and a little drunk the sloppiness is a huge turn on, I think it lends to her drunkenness and gives it that kind of raunchy one night stand type of feeling

 

[aluv]

I love a sloppy BJ and all the sounds that go along with it, in fact I will get my wife's pussy super juicy and wet stick my dick in her and the pull it out with her pussy juice dripping off and let her suck it and slobber it up some more then we will stop and have a big sloppy juicy kiss her mouth an d lips tasting so incredible then do the cycle all over again.

 

[amofiga]

I love a sloppy BJ and all the sounds that go along with it, in fact I will get my wife's pussy super juicy and wet stick my dick in her and the pull it out with her pussy juice dripping off and let her suck it and slobber it up some more then we will stop and have a big sloppy juicy kiss her mouth an d lips tasting so incredible then do the cycle all over again.

absofuckinlutely!!!! Nothing like a woman that loves the taste of cunt juice and cock juice all mixed together. That's the REAL original dirty martini.