Blowjob problems...

Adorah

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So, i frequently give my guy head, And he cums everytime. However, the last few times he has complained of me using "too much teeth"..And i wasn't even aware of it...I was just sucking harder.....
Can anyone please give me tips on how to avoid using my teeth?
 
Adorah said:
So, i frequently give my guy head, And he cums everytime. However, the last few times he has complained of me using "too much teeth"..And i wasn't even aware of it...I was just sucking harder.....
Can anyone please give me tips on how to avoid using my teeth?


Suck less hard....
 
Probably the best thing is to communicate with him while your are doing it next.

Try different things and ask him to give you verbal feedback on which thing feels better and why. That way you will know which position to hold your mouth. Ask him to be very specific in telling you on what feels good. Communicating while being intimate is a lovely way to feel even closer to your mate.

I wish my wife and I were able to communicate like this, but she alwasy gets offended if I ask her to do something differently. She says she feels like she isn't doing a good job. I keep telling her its not the "what your doing" thats good, but the attitude in which you do it. And since she isn't a guy, I should know what feels good and what doesn't. And if she doesn't know, how will she know if she doesn't let me tell her? :confused: I understand now why some guys go gay.
 
M's girl said:
Suck less hard....
Or just suck less altogether. No, I'm not suggesting giving it up, but examine your technique. The best BJs have very little actual 'sucking' involved in my view.

And BalonBob, your suggestion that bad blow jobs drive guys to be gay is hilarious :D . Since it is hard to read tone I'll assume you meant it that way - otherwise it is just weird.....
 
Straight-8 said:
Or just suck less altogether. No, I'm not suggesting giving it up, but examine your technique. The best BJs have very little actual 'sucking' involved in my view.

And BalonBob, your suggestion that bad blow jobs drive guys to be gay is hilarious :D . Since it is hard to read tone I'll assume you meant it that way - otherwise it is just weird.....

Nothing wrong with weird on this board...

Anyways, yes I did mean it how you took it.
 
I have a small mouth, too. However, my SO actually likes to sometimes rub his head along my teeth. Just the head, though, and he controls the movement...
 
There's also a product called Head Candy (Freddy&Eddy description and review) that covers the teeth in case it's too hard to wrap your lips around them, you have a small mouth, or you just want to try something different and fun. I think it's less expensive at places like eBay and Amazon, if you're interested.
 
There are some dental specialists who do work in this particular arena. They don't advertise but if you ask around...you'll get the right advice from a qualified professional.
 
I don't mean to contradict anyone but I don't think covering your teeth with your lips will work. How can you suck anything like that? I think it just comes down to really being conscious about what you're doing and trying to keep your jaw as wide open as possible while still keeping your lips in contact with the shaft.

But don't worry too much about it. I mean, don't let this shake your confidence or spoil your enjoyment. He's still going to love it. Any man would take a toothy bf over none at all any day.
 
human_male said:
I don't mean to contradict anyone but I don't think covering your teeth with your lips will work. How can you suck anything like that? I think it just comes down to really being conscious about what you're doing and trying to keep your jaw as wide open as possible while still keeping your lips in contact with the shaft.

But don't worry too much about it. I mean, don't let this shake your confidence or spoil your enjoyment. He's still going to love it. Any man would take a toothy bf over none at all any day.

Well, I don't really have to worry about that now, because my back sharp molers were pulled long ago.

But seriously. Yes, you can still suck great by doing this with your lips. When you suck you're not only using your lips but your tongue too, which glides up and down his cock.

Try wetting your lips and practice on your thumb. You'll know what I mean. You just have to press them harder together. It sounds funny, but it's true. ;)
 
Adorah said:
So, i frequently give my guy head, And he cums everytime. However, the last few times he has complained of me using "too much teeth"..And i wasn't even aware of it...I was just sucking harder.....
Can anyone please give me tips on how to avoid using my teeth?
When you get a little older, you can take your dentures out............ :)
 
My wife can never please me with either her mouth or hands.
It's hard to show her how to do.
However, I don't complain.

I used to go massage, the masseuse gave me a hand job (she was not whore), she let me cum within one minute, and the feeling was quite good, I don't know how she did that.
 
Good Head

I love to give my man head and here is what I do:

You want to wrap the top lip over your teeth and put your tongue over your bottom teeth so that your tongue is actually stroking his penis. The more you use your tongue the less you have to cover your teeth with your lip. Use alot of your saliva as lube so that if your teeth do happen to graze him then its more of an erotic sensation rather than a painful one. I would also recomend stroking his penis with your hand while you slide your mouth up and down the shaft because then he gets two sensations at once and IF you were to graze him with your teeth he probably WONT notice at all.
Hope I have helped you in some way...if not, sorry.
 
You want to wrap the top lip over your teeth and put your tongue over your bottom teeth so that your tongue is actually stroking his penis. The more you use your tongue the less you have to cover your teeth with your lip. Use alot of your saliva as lube so that if your teeth do happen to graze him then its more of an erotic sensation rather than a painful one. I would also recomend stroking his penis with your hand while you slide your mouth up and down the shaft because then he gets two sensations at once and IF you were to graze him with your teeth he probably WON'T notice at all.



This should be printed on a laminated, wallet-sized card.
 
Totaly Agree

hogjack said:
You want to wrap the top lip over your teeth and put your tongue over your bottom teeth so that your tongue is actually stroking his penis. The more you use your tongue the less you have to cover your teeth with your lip. Use alot of your saliva as lube so that if your teeth do happen to graze him then its more of an erotic sensation rather than a painful one. I would also recomend stroking his penis with your hand while you slide your mouth up and down the shaft because then he gets two sensations at once and IF you were to graze him with your teeth he probably WON'T notice at all.



This should be printed on a laminated, wallet-sized card.

I totaly agree!!! I dont know how many times my girlfriends have called and asked me how to give their guy good head. I should just make cards so they dont have to call! LOL thanks babe!
 
sexy_dancer said:
I totaly agree!!! I dont know how many times my girlfriends have called and asked me how to give their guy good head. I should just make cards so they dont have to call! LOL thanks babe!

Tattoos of that also make sense. Something they can quickly reference.
 
I Agree!

hogjack said:
You want to wrap the top lip over your teeth and put your tongue over your bottom teeth so that your tongue is actually stroking his penis. The more you use your tongue the less you have to cover your teeth with your lip. Use alot of your saliva as lube so that if your teeth do happen to graze him then its more of an erotic sensation rather than a painful one. I would also recomend stroking his penis with your hand while you slide your mouth up and down the shaft because then he gets two sensations at once and IF you were to graze him with your teeth he probably WON'T notice at all.



This should be printed on a laminated, wallet-sized card.

Hogjack, You are hilarious! And I totally agree...sure wish I would have had this advice handy when I was learning! Of course, I do think the laminated part is the best...you know, so you're instructions don't get sticky ;)
 
Kimberly39 said:
Hogjack....I totally agree...sure wish I would have had this advice handy when I was learning! Of course, I do think the laminated part is the best...you know, so you're instructions don't get sticky ;)

I have several things laminated for the same reason.

Getting a couch laminated is not as straightforward as you would think...
 
Yep. Lips over the teeth. Wife complains that it bothers her after doing that for *too* long though.
 
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