Blow Job

[cloudy20746]

What are the best techniques? After years of giving, I am still caught off guard when the man cums and get nervous about swollowing. Recently I finally swollowed and it wasn't that bad! I am in love with my current partner and I want to ensure our encounters are perfect. I want to ensure that he has no reason to want another woman!

 

[likes_to_purr]

What are the best techniques? After years of giving, I am still caught off guard when the man cums and get nervous about swollowing. Recently I finally swollowed and it wasn't that bad! I am in love with my current partner and I want to ensure our encounters are perfect. I want to ensure that he has no reason to want another woman!

Wow. The perfect sexual encounter...is that even possible? Well, I never swallow. Can't stand the consistancy and it gives me wicked heartburn to boot. It's strange because I happen to really enjoy giving head and I can always tell when he's going to cum so I merely finish the job off with my hand but anyway cut yourself some slack. If a lover strays it's not going to be because you don't give the perfect the blow job...trust me.

 

[Lust Engine]

What are the best techniques? After years of giving, I am still caught off guard when the man cums and get nervous about swollowing. Recently I finally swollowed and it wasn't that bad! I am in love with my current partner and I want to ensure our encounters are perfect. I want to ensure that he has no reason to want another woman!

Confidence works well as far as a huge turn on for me. Let him know you enjoy it. Each person responds differently to different techniques so half the fun is in finding those out. Ask! Ask him what he likes; being able to communicate is also another asset in being a great lover. Technique is only a minor part of it.

From the sounds of it, he's gonna be one happy camper.

 

[Quimmy]

Yeah, you don't have to swallow. I personally don't understand what's so bad about it. My girlfriend always spits into a tissue after, which I am fine with, although it's kinda inconvenient. I can swallow my own cum perfectly fine. It has the consistency of raw egg white.

You just have to ask yourself: "Would I want the guy running to the bathroom to gargle with disinfectant after eating me out?"

If you're OK with that, go ahead and spit.

 

[ifitsfundoit]

What are the best techniques? After years of giving, I am still caught off guard when the man cums and get nervous about swollowing. Recently I finally swollowed and it wasn't that bad! I am in love with my current partner and I want to ensure our encounters are perfect. I want to ensure that he has no reason to want another woman!

My wife loves to give head, and loves to swallow. So do I for that matter, but that's a different story.

The best thing is that she very obviously loves doing it. It's fantastic listening to her as she moans around my cock.

By the time I get close to cumming, I couldn't care wether I come in her mouth, all over her hand as she tosses me off, over her tits, or whereever.

Orgasm is only a small percentage of a blowjob. All that leads up to orgasm is the real enjoyment.

 

[Lust Engine]

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Orgasm is only a small percentage of a blowjob. All that leads up to orgasm is the real enjoyment.

Nicely put! HERE HERE!! Bravo!

 

[hotNnasty]

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Giving the perfect blow job doesn't keep a man faithful.
Once upon a time when I was actually shy LOL I wanted to be better. I bought a book called "How to make love to a man" and between that, the "butterfly dance" and experience I now pride myself on my blow jobs

and...... if you're not sure, ask your lover how he likes it done.


Trollin' LE

 

[sheath]

Laughing and saying Amen

You just have to ask yourself: "Would I want the guy running to the bathroom to gargle with disinfectant after eating me out?"

If you're OK with that, go ahead and spit.

LOL I like the way you put that in perspective!

If you are going to taste it anyway, what is the point in not swallowing?

S.

 

[Shadowann2]

LOL...

You just have to ask yourself: "Would I want the guy running to the bathroom to gargle with disinfectant after eating me out?"

That's good...I like that!

I know a lot of guys who love it when a woman swallows, but I also know an equal number of men who are just happy to get a BJ and don't care if a woman swallows. I agree with everything that was said here so far, but I do have my own advantage. I have a tongue ring! I have gotten an overwhelmingly positive response to my head-giving endevors since I got it. The fact that I love doing it and I make it obvious helps too. I've noticed that the more noise I make, the better he responds. Useing my hands at the same time as my hands seems to help, especialy with the big guys that I can't always fit all the way in my mouth.

Good luck and make sure you have fun learning what works for your guy!

 

[Lust Engine]

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Once upon a time when I was actually shy LOL I wanted to be better.

You were shy once? Nooooooo!

 

[Cytra]

It's not like you need to hold the jizz in your mouth, you just immediately swallow, like cough syrup or something. You don't really taste it, there is only the after-taste which can be driven away with a nice drink.

there are a bunch of how-to guides on blowjobs here on lit. Just search some up .

Cytra

 

[cloudy20746]

Thankyou everyone for the advice!!!! I guess my next endeavor will be to pretend that I enjoy doing it because for me I really don't enjoy, its more like a chore, something that needs to be done. However I want to keep my man completely happy so a woman must do what a woman must do!

 

[Lust Engine]

Thankyou everyone for the advice!!!! I guess my next endeavor will be to pretend that I enjoy doing it because for me I really don't enjoy, its more like a chore, something that needs to be done. However I want to keep my man completely happy so a woman must do what a woman must do!

Don't look at it as a chore! PLEASE don't!! It'll ruin your take on it and you might end up resenting him for it. Instead about thinking how laborious it is... concentrate on how happy you're making your man. Think baout how good you're actually getting at it too. Take SOME pride in knowing you're a damn good lover and actually getting better & better.

Lovemaking should NEVER EVER be a chore.

 

[hotNnasty]

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You were shy once? Nooooooo!

*a slight spank on the butt*

Really I really use to be very shy LOL
stop laughing LE! It's twuu it's twuu!

Trollin' LE

 

[ifitsfundoit]

Thankyou everyone for the advice!!!! I guess my next endeavor will be to pretend that I enjoy doing it because for me I really don't enjoy, its more like a chore, something that needs to be done. However I want to keep my man completely happy so a woman must do what a woman must do!

Another option is to let it run back down the shaft of his cock. Not only looks good, but feels rather good when slowly massaged in to the flesh.

Anyway...I digress from what I was going to say. Nothing in the world of sex should be a chore, especially in a loving relationship. Even if you don't necessarily "enjoy" what your doing, take a look at his face, and listen to the noises he makes.

Not only will this take your mind off what you're doing, but you may also find that there is pleasure to be had in the effect you can have on your partner.

 

[ramsey]

Be careful what you eat!

Foods such as asparagus make the cum taste bad.

Sweet foods, champagne, all make cum taste better.

If you smell bad when you pee, you will taste bad when you cum.

Hot, spicy foods are a no go before you blow!

Ladies, have a peppermint in your mouth at the same time if you don't like the taste.

Keep the head of the penis right at the back of the throat when he cums and you won't taste much

Good luck

 

[Lust Engine]

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*a slight spank on the butt*

Really I really use to be very shy LOL
stop laughing LE! It's twuu it's twuu!

Trollin' LE

You? SHY??

Oh, my ribs are still hurting thinking about you being shy!

Somehow even my warped imagination can't even fathom it!

 

[hotNnasty]

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You? SHY??

Oh, my ribs are still hurting thinking about you being shy!

Somehow even my warped imagination can't even fathom it!

*sitting here giggling*
I use to be so shy that until 5 years ago I never did it with the lights on and NEVER in the daytime.
LOL I've come a long way baby

LE's own personal troll

 

[Lust Engine]

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*sitting here giggling*
I use to be so shy that until 5 years ago I never did it with the lights on and NEVER in the daytime.
LOL I've come a long way baby

LE's own personal troll

And now you're damn near being an exhibitionist! I like that though! Why the change? Wherever did you find that kind of courage? And whatever you do... don't lose it!

 

[ApplesMcgee]

good question...

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