bloody anal

[xxoddxx]

I'm not a fan of abuse.
But, something that's always turned me on as much as standard sex is anal abuse.

Sticking a large dildo in her ass before she's prepared, just lube up and shove it in, something at least 8 inches and hard. Something that will make her bleed.

Ass to mouth, ass to pussy, and eating anal cream pies...

Any chicks get off on this, or is it just waaay too harsh?

 

[Bandit58]

Nope - I don't want to get torn, perforated or sick

 

[xxoddxx]

Nope - I don't want to get torn, perforated or sick

well...
not badly torn
and no feces, ewww.

 

[Wyldfire]

Sorry, but no. That gets into the realm of criminal abuse. If a woman screams in a bad way when you do anything you're being an ass and need to have a glass rod smashed in your prick for it.

 

[Kierae]

Seriously as I adore anal - the preference is NO BLOOD fool. Blood just means serious rehab for several days or longer and possible complications. I enjoy big toys but they have to be worked up to IN the session which means stretching and not just slamming it in. I understand the mentality behind your lust but there is reality and if you want a play partner for any length of time in this arena...well back the fuck up before you hurt them.

~kierae

 

[Wyldfire]

On an added note, feces or not, anal to vaginal or anal to oral is inviting serious health risks.

 

[Kierae]

I have no issue with ass to mouth or ass to vaginal since I know that if played right, it isn't that horribly risky (ie people who fast, do enemas, and urinate after sex can pretty much bypass alot of the "major" risks). It is those folks who think they can just dive right in and slam from one to another without any forethought are fools.

~kierae

 

[HottieMama]

Ass + blood = HELL NO.

 

[BiBunny]

I'm going to be the odd one out here, I guess. As long as it's with a fluid-bound partner (Kitty or B.), I don't really care. I have thin, sensitive skin, and I'm anemic. I bruise and bleed easily. There's almost always a little bit of blood after sex, vaginal or anal. Doesn't mean any major damage is done, and I'm used to it. *Shrug*

 

[callinectes]

Waaay too harsh. You don't want to injure her.

 

[xxoddxx]

Well, I've done it all with my girl except the slamming a large dildo in and she's just fine. She's been ripped slightly and not had any health complications, no hospital trips or anything.

I guess as athletes we both live under the mentality that as long as we eat enough and sleep enough there's rarely a need for doctors.

 

[myinnerslut]

A once punished me with very rough anal. i bled then. it was painful, rough, dry, and brutal. and punishment.

normal anal for us is never that bad.

 

[callinectes]

Yeah well, the large dildo makes all the dsifference in the world, that is what I was thinking of as being harsh.

Why did you ask anyway seeing as you already seem to think it is A-ok?

 

[Kierae]

See I have no issues with that if you BOTH agree to that (which IS the issue) , but I gather from your post that there is non consent in the slamming of the dildo. There can't be - period. Once you both agree than so be it but until than you have to ask. I am with Bibunny - I have had my gi/gu disruptions and a retired nurse so I know my physical limits. But I can guarantee you that you need to keep consenting in mind and hear it - or she could hurt you. I sure in the hell would...

~kierae

 

[EmpressFi]

Well, I've done it all with my girl except the slamming a large dildo in and she's just fine. She's been ripped slightly and not had any health complications, no hospital trips or anything.

I guess as athletes we both live under the mentality that as long as we eat enough and sleep enough there's rarely a need for doctors.

Actually, with E.coli, which is normal flora in your intestines and is present no matter how much you fast or how many enemas you give yourself or your partner, it wont matter how healthy you are if it gets into your bloodstream. An E.coli infection can lead to kidney failure and death and it's not really a respector of persons.

Granted, most commonly, this infection is caused when someone goes to the bathroom and doesnt wash their hands and then handles someone's food. And yes, generally the infection stops at fever, nausea, vomitting and severe bloody diarrhea... but it IS a risk - especially in anal to mouth or around broken skin.

For more information, click here http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/common/digestive/disorders/242.html

 

[xxoddxx]

Yeah well, the large dildo makes all the dsifference in the world, that is what I was thinking of as being harsh.

Why did you ask anyway seeing as you already seem to think it is A-ok?

-shrugs-
Just wondering about the outside world, and if it's just with this chick I can do it with or if it's one out of a 100 or 1 out of a million...
and I ilke to know the perspective of stuff.

 

[xxoddxx]

See I have no issues with that if you BOTH agree to that (which IS the issue) , but I gather from your post that there is non consent in the slamming of the dildo. There can't be - period. Once you both agree than so be it but until than you have to ask. I am with Bibunny - I have had my gi/gu disruptions and a retired nurse so I know my physical limits. But I can guarantee you that you need to keep consenting in mind and hear it - or she could hurt you. I sure in the hell would...

~kierae

I'm not one for non-consentual sex.

 

[FurryFury]

-shrugs-
Just wondering about the outside world, and if it's just with this chick I can do it with or if it's one out of a 100 or 1 out of a million...
and I ilke to know the perspective of stuff.

You have got one in a million cherish the time you have with her bleeding or not.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

What bothers me is that although you are both consenting to rough anal play you're doing so without being aware of all the risks. Shoving an 8" dildo into an unsuspecting anus is likely to cause more serious tearing. Very rough anal over time could leave her with haemarroids (can't spell it) or faecal leakage. It's a sphincter, a muscle and as athletes you should understand the risks of repeatedly overexerting and damaging a muscle.

I also think the infection risk is a real one and if athletics is your profession the last thing you need is gastro-enteritis before an important sports event. Nothing from the rectum should end up in the mouth or the pussy, it's not worth the risk in my opinion. Even with enemas and so on there's a risk, just as if you withdraw from the vagina before ejaculating rather than use a condom there is a pregnancy risk - a small risk but not an insignificant one - especially not if lady luck decides to shit on you from a height.

I think that you and your lady both need to do some research. There's more to your original question than whether people find what you described distasteful. Some women might do ass to mouth or pussy if there was no health risk and it was just a question of personal boundaries, as it is, most of them don't.

 

[Life_Noir]

I'm going to be the odd one out here, I guess. As long as it's with a fluid-bound partner (Kitty or B.), I don't really care. I have thin, sensitive skin, and I'm anemic. I bruise and bleed easily. There's almost always a little bit of blood after sex, vaginal or anal. Doesn't mean any major damage is done, and I'm used to it. *Shrug*

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Blood.....

But not with anal...

 

[SheDevilShay]

I love anal abuse.. but no blood play.. My Dom and I had anal sex one night after some wine... no lube.. and he made me bleed and were not talking about like blood blood.. were talking a few drops... never again... I told him straight up his cock was to big for no lube and that was a hard limit...
I can't do Scat, blood play... Kids or beastilty....

Also, you can get hepatitis A from anal play.. make sure you and your partner are up to date on all your shots.


I want to add that since when I gave birth to my son I had ot have a whole fist shoved up my ass to massage my uterus to save my life because I was dying...

I got hemmroids so bad I couldn't goto the bathroom or sit comfortably for over 6 months after he was born... it took me 2 1/2 years after his birth to even try anal play...

If it makes me bleed, I will get hemmroids again and those fuckers hurt and suck... there's a difference "to me" between Anal play and physical abuse...

If you both consent to the abuse.... your body, your choice.

but again, be cautious because it CAN do lasting damage, I would think if you truely care about her, learn how the body works, for her safety even if she gives you 100% trust.

 

[LolitaLolly]

Sorry, but no. That gets into the realm of criminal abuse. If a woman screams in a bad way when you do anything you're being an ass and need to have a glass rod smashed in your prick for it.

That's a little harsh! I wouldn't say it turned me on at all, but if she consents, what's the harm in it?

 

[Wyldfire]

That's a little harsh! I wouldn't say it turned me on at all, but if she consents, what's the harm in it?

Consent hadn't come into the discussion when I made that statement but it still stands with the tone of the initial post. Non consent was implied.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Consent hadn't come into the discussion when I made that statement but it still stands with the tone of the initial post. Non consent was implied.

I agree, the OP wanted to catch her unprepared which suggests that he wouldn't ask her nicely first.

Wonder where he's gone?

 

[uptoplay2]

both consenting is key.... but..

See I have no issues with that if you BOTH agree to that (which IS the issue) , but I gather from your post that there is non consent in the slamming of the dildo. There can't be - period. Once you both agree than so be it but until than you have to ask. I am with Bibunny - I have had my gi/gu disruptions and a retired nurse so I know my physical limits. But I can guarantee you that you need to keep consenting in mind and hear it - or she could hurt you. I sure in the hell would...

~kierae

Knowing that when you are finished having your fun, she is going to turn you around to have hers might keep the Golden Rule in your mind, "Do unto others...." I know I would NOT like to be rammed by something is too large for me, so I would never to that to her.

I like Kierae's logic and her openess to having fun... slowly.. .building...to bigger and "better" things.

If I were with a woman with different ideas, like pain is fun... well... I'd have a hard time living up to her expectations, and, I'd be very very wary about switching places.