SPARTAN047
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That's very good and sexy. I'd expect reciprocation but I do love to lick and suck someone's asshole even if it's a little sweaty and dirty.
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I love tops that eat my ass but for me I only eat a female ass.
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It could be. Over time, I think it could lead to a woman seeing it as submissive behavior. And maybe it stirs something in her…..or not!
But at the outset, I doubt many folks share an experience in the way you describe, which seems to characterize it as being initiated by the woman. I think that would be pretty uncommon.
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I wish I'd gotten it more often but I'm doing it more with my neighbors now, both giving and receiving.
Wife had a minor procedure done recently. Couldn't do PIV, BJ's were difficult, and we had a family member staying with us that reduced privacy.
75% of our lovemaking for weeks was me licking her all I could in the shower, finishing with kissing and licking her ass while I masturbated. Several times a week. She loves being adored like that. Who wouldn't?
I do massage / lotion her and kiss her ass for a good 10 minutes before sex normally, anyway. Did I mention our marriage is a FLR?
75% of our lovemaking for weeks was me licking her all I could in the shower, finishing with kissing and licking her ass while I masturbated. Several times a week. She loves being adored like that. Who wouldn't?
I do massage / lotion her and kiss her ass for a good 10 minutes before sex normally, anyway. Did I mention our marriage is a FLR?
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Love thisWife had a minor procedure done recently. Couldn't do PIV, BJ's were difficult, and we had a family member staying with us that reduced privacy.
75% of our lovemaking for weeks was me licking her all I could in the shower, finishing with kissing and licking her ass while I masturbated. Several times a week. She loves being adored like that. Who wouldn't?
I do massage / lotion her and kiss her ass for a good 10 minutes before sex normally, anyway. Did I mention our marriage is a FLR?
Some say if you adore your wife too much or kiss her ass (which I do throughout the week basically, but always just before sex) she'll lose respect for you. I haven't noticed that at all. Seems like she really appreciates it to me!
Obviously, if she's going to be sitting on my face for 45m fucking my mouth I'm only kissing her cheeks beforehand, not licking her starfish, for sanitary reasons.
Sorry, but that seems utterly fucking ridiculous. I rim my wife all the time and she totally respects me. I would love for someone to explain the psychological rationale for that.
Hmmmm…. What is it you’re worried about? I have been licking my wife’s starfish twice a week for years and have never had any kind of negative consequence.
It's just a critism I've read many times. "Don't put your woman on a pedestal / worship her or she'll lose respect / think less of you. "
So, I've watched out for that but it's not my experience at all. She's told me she loves how much I adore her.
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It's on my bucket list.
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Honestly, in the right circumstances, it can be pretty fucking romantic.
In my experience, it seems women, once they reach 40 grow less adventurous and don't care for it. However, girls who have never had it done to them before generally are surprised at how erotic and exciting it is, especially if they know there is no reciprocation involved. How can you be more intimate with a woman than having your tongue in her ass? It's a form of worship to me, and some women who take it as that crave it.
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I've had to do some dirty ones. That's my only exception, I want them cleaned up but if agreed upon, a bit of dirt and sweat on a sexy naked ass doesn't matter.
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There was only maybe 2 (low%) girls that didn't like their asshole licked. Most went for it, and most went for anal afterwards. I only got 1 or 2 to lick my asshole though. One gf was kind of dominant, so we understood, and I preferred being the server in that situation.
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Maybe girls clean their assholes better, but they don't always seem to like the idea of being licked in their asshole. IDK, it can be so pleasurable, but I'll admit that girls might not want to lick men's assholes except if they're being paid in porn since they can be hairy and there are so many guys who think it's gay to clean that area.
Perhaps the girls who loved their assholes licked were already kinky and enjoyed the random feeling of a tongue deep in such a personal, intimate area.
Perhaps the girls who loved their assholes licked were already kinky and enjoyed the random feeling of a tongue deep in such a personal, intimate area.
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I beg to disagree with the statement I bolded. I am not Gay (well I'm Bi) and my brother and sons are not Gay or Bi and they use "Dude Wipes". I think that it's become normal to clean our assholes, both for our own personal comfort and, in the unlikely event that our female partners would consider licking our assholes.
On the other hand, I dove right in to my wife's asshole on a few occasions during sex. Unfortunately, she was unimpressed at the thought.
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Most of the women I have asked to try it, hem and haw at first but damn near 100% enjoy it during. I started banging one of my gym / massage therapist gal pals and we had never discussed it but I had her legs over my shoulders with me tongue fucking her pussy and just decided to bury my tongue in her ass. She squealed and came almost instantly. After that she let me do anything I wanted to her ass. Apparently, her husband found it disgusting and she was afraid to ask me. She quickly found out I had zero hang ups and I’ve fucked her ass probably more than her pussy.
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I dated a woman once that could not get enough, giving, receiving, including penetration. She surprised me with it the first time she was giving me a bj. I reciprocated and she went wild. I quickly learned how to be clean for her. Tons of fun!
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I adore giving and receiving, but the wife, not so much. She'll do it on me rarely, but it's always a muted half-measure, even though she knows how much I love it. She doesn't like to receive either. Too self-conscious. Which is the story of her sexual make-up. Insecurities and self consciousness limit her potential pleasure. Oh well...
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I've only done that with one woman, a gf I had between marriages and I still remember it. The first time it happened I started at her shoulders and kissed my way down her back, then licked my way to the starfish. She said afterward that she didn't quite know what was going to happen... until it did. After that when she'd show up at my place and say, "I'm right out of the shower" I knew what she wanted.
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