Blackmailed in to Submission

[kittenkatherine]

I had someone ask me if I knew what this was the other day. I don't understand it to much and was wondering if anyone could explain it to me a little more. Just what is being blackmailed in to submission mean to you?


kitten

 

[graceanne]

Non consent is what it means to me. Although it's hot in fiction.

 

[Puman]

Let's see...
"Get down on your knees or else...."
or perhaps (more literally)
"Get down on your knees or I'll tell your s.o. about your dirty little secrets"

 

[BlueEyesEternal]

One of the most common scenes with blackmail to submit is the student/teacher roleplay...gotta earn that A

 

[FurryFury]

Blackmail can be a hot fantasy. IRL it wouldn't work well with me.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Very hot fantasy.

I like the "I'm going to take pictures of you doing that, and you'll do what I want, when I want. And if you say no to me ever, I'm going to show them to your partner/family/the world" types.

Mmmmmmm

 

[kittyroissy]

that sounds really hot.

 

[Etoile]

If it's REAL blackmail, then it's not submission. You can't submit if your heart's not in it. You can do what you're told, but you're not submitting.

But play blackmail is hot for many people.

 

[mrtbear1956]

hi all

Iam like all of you it hot to play in roleplay , but not rt unless you are just role playing with someone you know it just play . if any want to play some time send me a note and we can play and talk our roles over , karl

 

[Primalex]

Just what is being blackmailed in to submission mean to you?

Been there, doesn't work very well. So far it only worked well when it was about exchanging favors ("Sure, I can help you with this. But can you suck dick?"), not when it was about negative consequences ("Either you suck my dick or..").

 

[ReadyOne]

One of the most common scenes with blackmail to submit is the student/teacher roleplay...gotta earn that A

Avoid the traffic ticket?

Forgive the shoplifting?

Or take a staged approach, like a spymaster recruiting an agent. Each step is just a little more black, until the target realizes the spymaster owns him. Sound like a story here...

 

[SweetGigi]

One of the most common scenes with blackmail to submit is the student/teacher roleplay...gotta earn that A

But, but, but.... I had to or he would've flunked me.

*sobs*

 

[subwannabe]

It's definetly hot in fantasyland, probably sometimes in real life too, but, I agree with everyone else that in general it implies non-consent, which means being forced to do something or things that you really don't want to do. It depends on what you mean by submission though. Do you want to be forced to do something that in reality YOU WANT TO DO? Are you being forced to submit to one act, several acts, or 24/7? Are you only being forced to submit to things you really wanted to do in the first place, or are you being forced to submit to doing things you really don't want to do?

 

[WCHSP]

Most BDSM implies a nonconsent angle. The difficulty is that you're only doing it for pretend, and both of you know that.

 

[Primalex]

If it's REAL blackmail, then it's not submission. You can't submit if your heart's not in it. You can do what you're told, but you're not submitting.

When I read this, I picture a naked guy with a cock in his ass, screaming "I'm not gay, he only fell on me!" as someone walks in on them.

You submit the very moment you make the decision to stop fighting. Everything else is just a lame excuse to maintain the dignity.

 

[staciliv]

When I read this, I picture a naked guy with a cock in his ass, screaming "I'm not gay, he only fell on me!" as someone walks in on them.

You submit the very moment you make the decision to stop fighting. Everything else is just a lame excuse to maintain the dignity.

Oh, come now, Prima! (as opposed to screaming, "OH! COME NOW, PRIMA!!!")

Do you really believe that if you were confronted by a man with a gun you'd not "stop fighting"? Would that mean you'd decided to willingly submit?

Having said that - I was once blackmailed into sex. I was working late, in my office. Earlier that day I'd rather harshly berated a subordinate. He was cute, manly, young.

I was sitting behind my desk fantasizing about him; my hand reached under my skirt...Soon I had my eyes squeezed shut, legs spread wide, skirt hiked up, hand inside my panties. I was on the verge of a shattering climax when I heard a little "click, click". To my horror I wasn't alone after all - there stood young Bob, cell phone in his hand, a huge grin on his face.

We each knew at that moment that he owned me! If he showed the picture around the office I'd be finished! I quickly moved over to him, sunk to my knees, and began begging him to delete the picture from his cell.

Well, he didn't delete it, damn him, but he didn't show it around either - but from time to time he'd have his way with me. That first night he told me I had two minutes to suck him off or else I had to take him up my ass.

I quickly unzipped his fly and sucked and bobbed as fast as I could but he managed to hold out. He yanked me to my feet, spun me around, pushed me over my desk. In a flash my skirt was over my head. I felt my panties pulled down roughly.

I leaned on my ebows and spread my legs as wide as I could, hoping to ease the pain of the anal sex I knew was coming. Fortunately I had a bottle of hand cream on my desk. I felt the slick liquid, then he eased himself into me.

Well, no lie - it hurt! He pumped me for ten monutes or so, seeming to enjoy my moans, then he shot about a gallon of cream up my thoroughly sore anus. Without another word I heard him pull up his pants and walk out the door.

Overall I'd say it was a fun experience. At the time I didn't know I was into submission; it was a little scary - but it worked out well. He turned out to be a considerate lover with good stamina; all I had to do was pretend I was being forced.

Forced, hell - after that first time it was all I could think about!

Anyway, if you're into it being blackmailed can be a lot of fun, but scary!

 

[Primalex]

Oh, come now, Prima! (as opposed to screaming, "OH! COME NOW, PRIMA!!!")

Do you really believe that if you were confronted by a man with a gun you'd not "stop fighting"? Would that mean you'd decided to willingly submit?

Of course, it would. What it does not mean is that I have a submissive nature.

 

[lilylicious]

I have a few doms I could use this on, doms who have never submitted to anyone previously and don't think of themselves as switches.

When a dom submitts to me, I've always found it such a turn on that I alone know this secret side of his desires and it so directly conflicts with the persona he shows other women. While I'd never really out them in real life, a little play blackmail could be a lot of fun.

Because of course they'd never want their little subs to find out what REALLY turns them on.

 

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[Strong1]

Kitten,

I think the most interesting thing would be YOUR answer to the question:

"Really. Why do you ask?"

(Yeah, yeah, I know "a friend" asked/said. Like " a friend " of my has these sores on her ... what should "she" do?)

Tell us the whole story, and you will get a better answer. Yes, I am just nosy that way.