Black female subs

I’m a new black female here! I consider myself to be a bit dominant, but at heart I’m very submissive and seek a dom/sub relationship. I’ve never been in one before and have always longed for it. I’ve tried looking for a partner on Fetlife to no avail. So, I ended up deleting my profile a few years ago.

I’ve been into BDSM for several years, however I’ve never been able to experience it. My ex husband wasn’t into it all that much and when he did try, it typically ended with him being the only one satisfied and I did not like that. It just never worked out. I’ve been doing some research here and there and I think a pleasure dom would be more aligned to what I am looking for.

I’ve dated here and there and have found it a little difficult to share my interests when it comes to that. I don’t want to stifle myself anymore and I’m at a point in my life where I feel like if I’m not going to get what I want/need then why even bother at all. Even though I have done some research on the topic, I am still very new and I don’t know ALOT about BDSM. So, if my terminology isn’t correct, I apologize.

I do hope that while I’m here, I can not only share my stories, but also meet likeminded individuals!! ♥️
 
I’m a new black female here! I consider myself to be a bit dominant, but at heart I’m very submissive and seek a dom/sub relationship. I’ve never been in one before and have always longed for it. I’ve tried looking for a partner on Fetlife to no avail. So, I ended up deleting my profile a few years ago.

I’ve been into BDSM for several years, however I’ve never been able to experience it. My ex husband wasn’t into it all that much and when he did try, it typically ended with him being the only one satisfied and I did not like that. It just never worked out. I’ve been doing some research here and there and I think a pleasure dom would be more aligned to what I am looking for.

I’ve dated here and there and have found it a little difficult to share my interests when it comes to that. I don’t want to stifle myself anymore and I’m at a point in my life where I feel like if I’m not going to get what I want/need then why even bother at all. Even though I have done some research on the topic, I am still very new and I don’t know ALOT about BDSM. So, if my terminology isn’t correct, I apologize.

I do hope that while I’m here, I can not only share my stories, but also meet likeminded individuals!! ♥️
Welcome! :) Also comparatively new here.

A very illustrative post. Not surprised as to your results on F3tlif3, as its intentionally structured to be ill-suited as a "personals" site. I left there long ago for other reasons, but can empathize with your relevant disillusionment.

You sound nice. :) May you have whatever/ whomever you wish for! :)
 
Welcome! :) Also comparatively new here.

A very illustrative post. Not surprised as to your results on F3tlif3, as its intentionally structured to be ill-suited as a "personals" site. I left there long ago for other reasons, but can empathize with your relevant disillusionment.

You sound nice. :) May you have whatever/ whomever you wish for! :)
Thank you! You're such a sweetheart! I wish the same for you as well love! 😊
 
I used to travel overseas for a time for work. During this time while in Kenya I hooked up with a very beautiful lady who really just wanted to be used and dominated. I am a white guy and she was very dark and I found that quite exciting as I had never had a black sub before her.
She turned out to be a real freak, too.
 
How's everyone's lit experience going? Still hanging in there? Found someone who doesn't fetishize you but embraces your kinks/fetishes? Someone to explore with, no strings attached.
Or did you start getting to know someone, start opening up and then they just fuck the fuck off?
 
How's everyone's lit experience going? Still hanging in there? Found someone who doesn't fetishize you but embraces your kinks/fetishes? Someone to explore with, no strings attached.
Or did you start getting to know someone, start opening up and then they just fuck the fuck off?
I'm pretty new here so I'm still learning my way around but so far the chat has been pretty tame. Looking for a little more to be honest
 
How's everyone's lit experience going? Still hanging in there? Found someone who doesn't fetishize you but embraces your kinks/fetishes? Someone to explore with, no strings attached.
Or did you start getting to know someone, start opening up and then they just fuck the fuck off?
Anonymity, the very thing that helps some people open up is the very thing that allows bad behaviors like ghosting and worse. Have fun! Explore! But guard your heart!!
 
An honest question.

When you ask if there are sexually submissive black women here, why it's tacitly assumed that the Dom has to be white?
 
How's everyone's lit experience going? Still hanging in there? Found someone who doesn't fetishize you but embraces your kinks/fetishes? Someone to explore with, no strings attached.
Or did you start getting to know someone, start opening up and then they just fuck the fuck off?
Hi... I have had some great experiences here on Lit, and some not so rewarding. It's hard to know which way it's going to go when you first connect with someone. I am appreciative of people who are considerate and don't just disappear. Hoping that the next person you connect is awesome... or the one after that. Hang in there... you will find a good one!
 
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