Bisexual Women: The Latest Fad?

[cutie pie]

I have no bisexual experience. Curiosities, perhaps. But nothing I've ever acted upon and it's not something I really discuss with anyone.

A few months ago, I was at a bar watching a local band perform. During a break, my friend and I ran into the lead singer in the ladies' room. She started talking to my friend, proceeded to tell us that she's bisexual and that she and her husband will occasionally bring in another woman.

This friend swears that she has no bisexual tendencies. Yet this same person will "talk the talk" when in a crowd.

Another friend has recently made comments about her and I together or in a threesome. Again - when in a group of people. We've never really discussed this in private.

Is it the "cool" thing to be bi these days? Or do I just hang out with odd people.

Please discuss. I need to start getting the little rugrat ready for Trick or Treat.

 

[penguindance]

 

[Chicklet]

a friend and i discussed this

for instance, why are more women bi than men?

I think it's because as they say in chasing amy "it's cute to be a lesbian" - it *is* sort of a fad.

in my opinion.

speaking as a bisexual.

Chicklet

 

[Chicklet]

well, like, for instance, you tell someone you're bi and they're like "that's cool" but if a GUY is bi, then he's a "FAGGOT!"

 

[Ms_Lilith]

well, like, for instance, you tell someone you're bi and they're like "that's cool" but if a GUY is bi, then he's a "FAGGOT!"

I agree. In many ways, it's a fad. Many women know that men would like to see two girls "dyke out", and so they play the role with innuendo and suggestion, when in a group of people (I have friends who do this, and it annoys me to no end).

I'm bisexual. I enjoy that aspect of my life. I wouldn't change it for anyone. And I wouldn't advertise it for the sake of catching some guy, who wouldn't like me if I weren't bisexual in the first place.

Dumb de dumb dumb.

 

[penguindance]

 

[Saint Peter]

Is it interesting that a bunch of bi chicks are the only ones to reply to this thread?

I wanna be a bi chick too. I need a bumper sticker. When is the parade?

 

[Saint Peter]

OMG!!!!

I am a bisexual women's thread killing bisexual woman wannabe.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Bisexual women

are most men's fantasy, so of course women are going to give it lip service.

It gets attention from and turns on the menfolk.

 

[Michael42]

RE bi

Yeah Rose, if I had to guess I'd go with about 9out of 10

 

[SexyChele]

Years ago no woman would admit to being bi, let alone having fantasies of being with another woman. Now, it seems bi-women are coming out of the woodwork. Is it a fad? I would say definitely so, though not to disrepect those women who truly are bi.

I do not consider myself bisexual in the least. I admire other women, yes. I have fantasies about other women, yes. I like to play with other women, yes. I enjoy other women, yes. But, no, I am not bi.

Unfortunately, I think a lot of women have bought into the idea that men would be far more interested in them if they professed to being bi. And then there is there is that never-dying myth that all women are latent lesbians who just need to be "introduced" to it.

It plays on men's fantasies, IMO. Unfortunately, some women are just too insecure to feel comfortable with themselves for who they are.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: RE bi

Yeah Rose, if I had to guess I'd go with about 9out of 10

Yes and that is most of the lady's goals here..... Turn on those male looooove machines. LOL

 

[A Desert Rose]

Years ago no woman would admit to being bi, let alone having fantasies of being with another woman. Now, it seems bi-women are coming out of the woodwork. Is it a fad? I would say definitely so, though not to disrepect those women who truly are bi.

I do not consider myself bisexual in the least. I admire other women, yes. I have fantasies about other women, yes. I like to play with other women, yes. I enjoy other women, yes. But, no, I am not bi.

Unfortunately, I think a lot of women have bought into the idea that men would be far more interested in them if they professed to being bi. And then there is there is that never-dying myth that all women are latent lesbians who just need to be "introduced" to it.

It plays on men's fantasies, IMO. Unfortunately, some women are just too insecure to feel comfortable with themselves for who they are.

Yes, just what I said.... in few sentences. LOL

 

[SexyChele]

Yes, just what I said.... in few sentences. LOL

Unfortunately, some of us have been born with the condition of being verbose - such as me!

 

[A Desert Rose]

And P.S. Michael....

Yeah Rose, if I had to guess I'd go with about 9out of 10

I'm going back to the feet AVs..... this one ain't working up those male looooove machines for me... LMAO

 

[BreadMan]

Major Fade

I think a woman should not call herself bi if she would not have an serious relationship.

 

[marksgirl]

OMG!!!!

I am a bisexual women's thread killing bisexual woman wannabe.

I know of something you can put on that tongue to shut it up!

 

[Saint Peter]

I know of something you can put on that tongue to shut it up!

 

[Rambrat]

All woman are freakin Bi-curious!

 

[Temptress_1960]

I do not consider myself bisexual in the least. I admire other women, yes. I have fantasies about other women, yes. I like to play with other women, yes. I enjoy other women, yes. But, no, I am not bi.

Me too. I would not call myself bisexual. But, mmmm, I like to play with girls. They taste good *WEG*

And Chicklet is right, it's way more socially acceptable to be a bisexual woman than a bisexual man.

Why? Beats me.

Didn't Jerry Seinfeld do a monologue about it? Something about men having no sales resistance. "Here, just hold hands, see how you like it..."

*giggling*

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

Re: Bisexual women

are most men's fantasy, so of course women are going to give it lip service.

It gets attention from and turns on the menfolk.

The annoying thing is that this dam well works. To hell with you all for toying with me!!!

DM.

 

[Kitte]

Finally, I am fashionable.

 

[cutie pie]

I agree. In many ways, it's a fad. Many women know that men would like to see two girls "dyke out", and so they play the role with innuendo and suggestion, when in a group of people (I have friends who do this, and it annoys me to no end).

This was my thought. The whole FFM threesome discussion came up one night and I asked the one guy who happened to be there why it was ok to have two girls, but not two guys. His answer was that with two women there is no "unnatural penetration." The friend I mentioned earlier was in on the conversation and of course she played up the whole thing. It annoyed me, especially knowing that she would never participate in anything like that.

I have no qualms talking about my sexual preferences and what I would like to try, but I certainly don't say things just to get some guys attention.

 

[cutie pie]

All woman are freakin Bi-curious!

Dude, I'm trying to have a serious discussion here!!

 

[Rambrat]

Dude, I'm trying to have a serious discussion here!!

what makes you think I'm not serious.