Big heads

[Grendel-25]

I have heard a couple women talk excitedly and enthusiastically about a guy's cock head being big as a really good thing. How is just the head being big better than the shaft? Wouldn't more friction occur with a thick shaft?

 

[Hotred911]

Personally, I don't know if it was the just the head during penetration as he was well endowed. But for some reason, giving him blow-jobs was much enjoyable to be than most other guys. Just something about that big head....

 

[Grendel-25]

Is a big mushroom head more visually appealing? Was he more fun to have in your mouth because of it's size? And with large knobs do you get a more "stretched out" feeling? Like he has to work it into your body with some grunting and pushing?

 

[cyberski]

why does H.R. Puffenstuff come into my mind when you say big head and small shaft?

 

[Grendel-25]

You don't suppose they made a dildo model based off Mr. Puffenstuff's neck and head do you?

 

[cyberski]

BWAHAHAHA!!!!


Good gawd....now I can't get that fucking song out of my head


http://thehub.capcollege.bc.ca/~sstubbs/krofftsite/images/hrpuff.jpg

 

[Grendel-25]

Just think of the Bugaloos and you'll be just fine...

 

[cyberski]

Or just turn up knac.com alot louder

 

[Grendel-25]

Seriously though, even you guys, what is your opinion on the big knob issue? Is it better going in swelled up or does it make a difference?

 

[Grendel-25]

None of you lovely ladies has any comments on the big glans issue?

 

[frustratedpoodle]

Big Head Question

My hubby is well endowed in this manner. He is normal to above average in length, but he is thick and his head is large without being out of proportion with the rest of the organ. I like it. No, I mean... I really like it. It looks better to me, and it doesn't disappoint in practice. The hype is for real!

Of course, that head is what made anal sex so difficult the first time or two, but I can forgive him that.

The Poodle

 

[Grendel-25]

Hmmmm, so what of us males with smaller heads? Does a woman's interest or desire for his member decrease at all? I am decently thick, but the head is a tad smallish, though it can swell up to a respectable size, but it doesn't always retain this size unless I am superexcited, or I restrict the bloodflow somehow. I don't want my woman to worship my manhood, but I do want her to like and love it.

 

[frustratedpoodle]

Heads Will Roll!!!!!

Actually, that was something I did not know I liked in a penis until I experienced it. Not that guys with smaller heads need worry. I prefer a thicker head, but it's hardly a fetish. I think that so long as a guy knows how to use what he has, he'll be okay, no matter what it looks like.

Look at it this way, most guys have in mind what the ideal breasts look like, but they aren't going to hold back if someone doesn't match that ideal, whether it be for sex or love. A little head won't diminish the experience, but it does feel different going in and it has its aesthetic value to boot. Beyond that, it's how it gets used from that point forward, and from that point forward, head size isn't as important.

But then again, this is the girl who when she saw one for the first time, laughed her head off. My first time was a story in and of itself, needless to say. I thought that it was the funniest looking thing in the world until I knew what it could do.

The Poodle

 

[Grendel-25]

I understand your point about the breast size thing, but penis and head size is a little different because it's not just visual, it's friction and physics at work. It physically causes pleasure because of it's nature and some will cause more than other. Guys want to give the most pleasure they can, partly out of love, and also because they enjoy giving it-at least the non-selfish ones do.

I think most guys get worried about things like this because whether they're true or not, stories of women fantasizing over it and lusting over it gets the idea into their "head" that their woman will leave them for it, or secretly not be satisfied and lust over men that do because their man does not have it, and then cheat on them. Being "accepted" is not as good as being "wanted".

 

[frustratedpoodle]

Feeling...

In terms of feeling, I can really only say that on entry, there's more friction there. This doesn't take away from sex with a guy that has a smaller head, either. There's much to say for someone that can piston the hell out of you with that first mighty stroke and not have to guide himself in.

I do understand your point, though. You always want to be pleasing, and you always want to be an object of fantasy for the person you desire or love. I think that in terms of head size, general aesthetics, once you use it, and use it well on a person, that there is a certain amount of cock worship there regardless. Women aren't like men. We may have the ideal in mind, but if something else works, you no longer want the ideal. It just doesn't matter that much, because we aren't "settling" in our minds.

As for the insecurity of having a woman leave over the way a penis looks, I wouldn't worry so much if the relationship is otherwise solid. Few women really are that shallow, and if they are, then they aren't worth your time.

The Poodle

 

[Grendel-25]

You've got some good things to keep in mind there. As a guy I have ideas in my mind, but I am strange (for a guy) because once I get into a relationship, all other women go out the window. I no longer care for any specific woman, because here is someone who loves me and they are my pride and joy. I digress...

Thanks for all your input, I do appreciate it.

 

[frustratedpoodle]

*grin*

That's just it. Once you are with someone, and that person has done you right, so to speak, they become a living fantasy for you. I don't think that women worry too much over how it looks as much as they do how it works. Seriously.

And you aren't that weird, even for a guy. I wouldn't be with mine right now if his attitude were different, but that's the difference between what makes for a long term thing or not. If you feel that way, you are off to a good start.

Seriously, though, this is nothing to keep you up at night. Too often our hang ups get in the way of living and loving, and they aren't worth it. A smaller head doesn't mean that you will be liked or respected any more or less. It's like the boob factor with men, only less important. Sure, I personally like a thicker head, but that makes no difference when it comes down to what's all attached to it.

The Poodle

 

[heavynole]

pretty deep convo u guys are haveing