Bi men "virgins"... (women plz read too)

[MrSneakyinPA]

Are you like me? Only having fantasized about it? Possibly even looking at personal ads other men post, thinking..... if I just see the right one, it'll compel me to finally try it! I'm guessing we aren't alone. We lived a big part of our lives wondering what it would really be like. Just being near a man in bed, seeing his cock up close, touching it, stroking it, and perhaps bending over for it to see if it would feel as good as you hope with a man slowly sliding it in you. You're wife/girl friend has fingered you, perhaps used a toy on you, or you have on yourself. Maybe she would be willing to let another man in bed with you so she could witness you experiencing it for the 1st time....for real. Or, she wouldn't understand, and you'd have to be sneaky to experiment with it. You aren't gay, you are bi-"curious"...VERY curious. You have no attraction to men, but you do enjoy seeing their cock in videos and pictures, and you watch MMF Bi videos, dreaming that you could be i the mix. Your ultimate dream would be MMF, either you and a couple, or another man with you and your wife, with your wife encouraging you and him to do things.

We live with this slightly frustrating fantasy. And like many fantasies we cling to, we wonder if it's merely a fantasy. Would, given the chance, we actually do it? Would we let another naked man in bed with our wife? Once we walked in to that room with another man, would we be shaking to hard to even unbutton our pants, and we'd apologize for wasting his time, and walk out? Would we really be able to enjoy his cum? Would it hurt? Would it be FREAKING AMAZING!? We have the impression that woman being with women, it's gay, it stinkin awesome. But we fear that women wouldn't understand why we might want to do that ourselves. So we would never "do it" or even suggest it to our wives that we are interested.

I say....... Fantasy is great. But hard to get past the mental part.

Women, do you think it's crazy for a man to at least just want to see what it's like? Are you fearful that if he enjoys it too much, it might "turn him gay"? If your man hasn't, but would somehow let you know he was interested in this, what would you do? Would you want to witness it? Or encourage him to try it and let you know about it?

-sneakyinpa

 

[desertslave]

I 'grew up' sexually open-minded to begin with. I thought so, anyway, since I'd dabbled with a few girls along with guys. When I went to college I met my first Dom, who happened to be bi (though he identified mostly as gay) and a switch. He was my dom, but another guy's sub. Confused yet? It was a trick to wrap my mind around, but I understood my place in the scheme of things.

A few years later I met my 2nd Dom. When we met he was straight and quite dominant. We had a bunch of gay friends (NYC in the early 80s, who didn't? LOL) and I guess he got to wondering. He was also curious about switching, so we tried that a few times. I can be a decent top but my heart really isn't in it, it's a service to me. Anyway, he met a guy with whom he felt comfortable truly experimenting. He's now married to a dominant woman and quite happy. I'm not sure how often he's with guys these days, I've just never asked. It wasn't a problem for us at the time, and I was glad that he felt comfortable telling me what interested him. My major emphasis was on his being SAFE. We split up later for other reasons.

 

[adambom]

Indeed!

I AM like you, Mr sneaky. Always wondering, sometimes craving. Needing it so bad that i take matters into my own hands,"so to speak". I've actually sucked on a few cocks, including my own and know that there's a huge difference between plastic/rubber and the real deal. Can't wait to take my first pulsating, throbbing meat deep in. If it's for the sake of a horny woman or two, so much the better! Got an exhibitionist streak runnin' through me. Hot post!