gingermango
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That is the perfect enlightened attitude. I only wish everyone was as accepting and supportive of their partner's sexuality as you are. A whole lot of people would be a whole lot happier.
Bi married Guys, does she know?
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That is the perfect enlightened attitude. I only wish everyone was as accepting and supportive of their partner's sexuality as you are. A whole lot of people would be a whole lot happier.
As my first marriage was ending, I started to have fantasies about sex with men and after we separated had a few encounters. That stopped when I remarried, but I had told my soon to be wife of my experiences (no details, just that they happened). She was fine with it. After a few years of marriage, we started talking about maybe swinging, but as we edged closer, she got uncomfortable so we did not proceed. One guy offered to just meet with me, but while she was accepting of my sexuality, she could not bring herself to share me. As tempted as I have been, I have not been able to cross that line. I would love to have her permission, but since I do not, I am left with my fantasies once again. Not complaining, it is just how it is.
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I've never had the chance to share my thoughts with my wife, then again I don't know that I would because I fear she wouldn't understand. I would love to share her with another, I feel that is the best fantasy
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I have never shared my secret side as I know it would devastate her and I would be shown the door....but I must say that keeping this to myself is harder everyday and it actually makes me feel like I am unable to control it, very strange dynamic but I sometimes feel that the bisexual side of me controls me......guess i need a good therapist, maybe one that would take blowjobs and fucking me as payment !! see there it goes again 
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Love this thread.
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i suspect it is a very big boat but there's plenty of room for you
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Sharing your thoughts, fantasies, desires, curiousities, etc. is one thing. Sharing yourself physically/emotionally is another.
I think sharing your desires et al is healthy. Its probably something you can do a little at a time. Especially if you are uncertain (or scared) of your spouses' reaction. Its probably not a good idea to start with "Honey. I've been thinking about being a cock whore!"
As to sharing yourself, why would you think that your spouse would be more accepting of you being intimate with someone of the same sex than of the opposite sex? If you have an open relationship, that would be one thing, but if not, shouldn't GLBT fantasies be left at just that?
I think sharing your desires et al is healthy. Its probably something you can do a little at a time. Especially if you are uncertain (or scared) of your spouses' reaction. Its probably not a good idea to start with "Honey. I've been thinking about being a cock whore!"
As to sharing yourself, why would you think that your spouse would be more accepting of you being intimate with someone of the same sex than of the opposite sex? If you have an open relationship, that would be one thing, but if not, shouldn't GLBT fantasies be left at just that?
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i agree
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Nice to see you around Mr. B!
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My wife knows and is very supportive. I was apprehensive of telling her for obvious reasons like you all have mentioned. I went to a buddys house one night to play, and the next day she asked me about it. So, I told her what we did. She said she wanted me to experience what I want to do. And she admitted that she was also curious and turned on by male bi experiences and wanted to see me and others. Of course that was a huge relief to know she had similar feelings/thoughts. That was about 7 or 8 years ago. Since then we have played with that same friend several times and a few others with Bi males. She has been very supportive and encouraging about it. And has even told me a few times, why dont I see if 'so-and-so' is busy and able to play. I am happy that she is so open minded and supportive. We have had a few encounters with 2 other bi couples which was alot of fun. And met one other bi guy which we have had several 3somes with plus with a lady friend of his too.
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Yeah, my wife and I both had many same sex experiences before we met, and we talk about those often I love hearing her talk about fucking other women (and men), and she obviously knows I love talking about my experiences with other dudes too.
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My wife is aware that I am bi-curious (she is also). We frequently share our fantasies in bed, and use toys, and a strap-on to explore.
Recently, my wife had the chance to engage in some light F-F touching, kissing and breast play, with a friend, she really enjoyed it and would like to explore further. We talk about finding another couple to play with, but putting it into motion in real life is quite challenging when you consider health, safety, discretion, finding compatible partners, etc. Cheating is not an option, so unless we can do it together, it will remain fantasy.
Recently, my wife had the chance to engage in some light F-F touching, kissing and breast play, with a friend, she really enjoyed it and would like to explore further. We talk about finding another couple to play with, but putting it into motion in real life is quite challenging when you consider health, safety, discretion, finding compatible partners, etc. Cheating is not an option, so unless we can do it together, it will remain fantasy.
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This boat
Is forever open seating. I had the pleasure of M/M experience after my first marriage dissolved. It then turned into MFM with this married cpl. I have had one GF that was into my Bi-side.
I Think MrsK has an idea of my curiosity, though she doesn't know what transpired the summer after my divorce....we met at the end of my 'Summer of fun'... One of our first hot and heavy sexual encounters (we were just dating) I wanted Mrsk to play with my ass.... she was a little freaked out. Nothing of the kind happened until after we were married.... she started playing with my ass while we showered together and now when she sucks my cock.
She is aware that I use her dildo and vibe.... and has mentioned a fleeting interest in a MFM..... nothing about MFM and M/M contact.... I can't judge how she would react if I came out and just told her.... I think it would be a weight off the shoulders. But it isn't the end of the world. I don't ache for bi-sex.... If she got into it... all the more pleasure......
Is forever open seating. I had the pleasure of M/M experience after my first marriage dissolved. It then turned into MFM with this married cpl. I have had one GF that was into my Bi-side.
I Think MrsK has an idea of my curiosity, though she doesn't know what transpired the summer after my divorce....we met at the end of my 'Summer of fun'... One of our first hot and heavy sexual encounters (we were just dating) I wanted Mrsk to play with my ass.... she was a little freaked out. Nothing of the kind happened until after we were married.... she started playing with my ass while we showered together and now when she sucks my cock.
She is aware that I use her dildo and vibe.... and has mentioned a fleeting interest in a MFM..... nothing about MFM and M/M contact.... I can't judge how she would react if I came out and just told her.... I think it would be a weight off the shoulders. But it isn't the end of the world. I don't ache for bi-sex.... If she got into it... all the more pleasure......
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The last time I was between girlfriends, I decided that I would be honest and up front with the next one. That didn't really work out like I wanted. To be honest, I chickened out.
When my current wife and I started dating, I hinted. And I hinted. I told her I liked the taste of my own cum. She asked me if I was "curious." I said, "Nope.. not curious," in a tone I thought suggested I had satisfied my curiosity (which I had several times since before I was even old enough to talk about it in this forum). She either got the hint and dropped the subject immediately, or missed the hint entirely.
I gathered from our later conversations that she's not receptive to the idea of men having sex with men. I made the fatal mistake of not being right up front, knowing how she apparently felt about the issue, and telling her I am bisexual. I should have given her the option to decide on that issue, and I didn't. Once I decided to engage a monogamous relationship with her, though, the point became moot. I chose this woman to be with exclusively. So now I feel like I owe it to her because I misled her from the beginning. How fucked up am I?
The problem with me is not that my wife doesn't know I'm bisexual. That really doesn't matter any more, unless we decide someday to bring another partner (or two) into our bed. The problem is, I don't want to be monogamous. I want to date men. I want to date women. This happens to me every time. I last about two or three years in a relationship, and then I want to move on. Not only do I suck at this "mating for life" thing, I can't seem to get it into my own head that there's no single perfect soul mate for me. Now I'm stuck looking out the window at all those things I want and can't have. I'd love to share with her, but she doesn't appear to be interested.
The good news is, our love-making is usually fucking incredible. And she does let me lick my cum out of her pussy while ramping up for round two. She seems to enjoy it, but has commented a couple times (like, "your stuff is in there you know). I can't tell if it yuks her out but she puts up with it because it feels so damn good, or if she just thought I might not have remembered cumming inside her and was warning me in case I had that inhibition. I've even sucked on her vibrator a little while we were "focusing on her," though I didn't get a response from that.
Anyway... no, my wife doesn't know. Or she doesn't let on that she knows. Personally, I like to think she knows but ignores it because it's irrelevant to her now.
When my current wife and I started dating, I hinted. And I hinted. I told her I liked the taste of my own cum. She asked me if I was "curious." I said, "Nope.. not curious," in a tone I thought suggested I had satisfied my curiosity (which I had several times since before I was even old enough to talk about it in this forum). She either got the hint and dropped the subject immediately, or missed the hint entirely.
I gathered from our later conversations that she's not receptive to the idea of men having sex with men. I made the fatal mistake of not being right up front, knowing how she apparently felt about the issue, and telling her I am bisexual. I should have given her the option to decide on that issue, and I didn't. Once I decided to engage a monogamous relationship with her, though, the point became moot. I chose this woman to be with exclusively. So now I feel like I owe it to her because I misled her from the beginning. How fucked up am I?
The problem with me is not that my wife doesn't know I'm bisexual. That really doesn't matter any more, unless we decide someday to bring another partner (or two) into our bed. The problem is, I don't want to be monogamous. I want to date men. I want to date women. This happens to me every time. I last about two or three years in a relationship, and then I want to move on. Not only do I suck at this "mating for life" thing, I can't seem to get it into my own head that there's no single perfect soul mate for me. Now I'm stuck looking out the window at all those things I want and can't have. I'd love to share with her, but she doesn't appear to be interested.
The good news is, our love-making is usually fucking incredible. And she does let me lick my cum out of her pussy while ramping up for round two. She seems to enjoy it, but has commented a couple times (like, "your stuff is in there you know). I can't tell if it yuks her out but she puts up with it because it feels so damn good, or if she just thought I might not have remembered cumming inside her and was warning me in case I had that inhibition. I've even sucked on her vibrator a little while we were "focusing on her," though I didn't get a response from that.
Anyway... no, my wife doesn't know. Or she doesn't let on that she knows. Personally, I like to think she knows but ignores it because it's irrelevant to her now.
Like all most all of you guys. My wife would freak out and leave. She has no idea I like cock and playing with another guy. As I get older, senior now, I want it more and more. She has no sex drive at all since menopause and I am getting hornier by the day. Would love to meet a guy younger or even my age in my my area that wants to play. I have had many, many bi experiences in my life. Start when I entered high school and ended when I got married. I discussed it with her before marriage, whooooa, not the thing to do. Soooo, here I am , stroking alone. Any one in NW Oregon interested in a sexy senior, PM me.
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can someone please help me??? i really need some help :-(
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=737408
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=737408
my soon to be wife knows about my bi curiousness but not that i dress when shes not around or that i've had sex with other men. its not that shes against man on man relations, just that she wants me to be commited to her and no one else in that regards. for the most part, i've respected her wishes, but im no angel and have 'cheated' a couple times.
I thought my wife would leave me but we are very open about everything. I figured if the love is strong and true she will accept or we have deeper problems. It turned out, she loved it. She was closet bi too. Now we have a very diverse sex life and we couldn't be closer.
Now it could have just as easily gone the other way, I do live in the buckle of the Bible Belt. So I think I just got luck to find the PERFECT girl!
Now it could have just as easily gone the other way, I do live in the buckle of the Bible Belt. So I think I just got luck to find the PERFECT girl!
Not necessarily bi...
...But I do have quite a likeing to Trannys. I just told my girlfriend the other day (the only person I have ever told.) She was very relieved that i told her, for honesty and trust purposes. I was very nervous about telling her but she took it better than I guessed she would. She is very open-minded, but said she would never be open to a three-some, not just with that gender but with any gender.
...But I do have quite a likeing to Trannys. I just told my girlfriend the other day (the only person I have ever told.) She was very relieved that i told her, for honesty and trust purposes. I was very nervous about telling her but she took it better than I guessed she would. She is very open-minded, but said she would never be open to a three-some, not just with that gender but with any gender.
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Two by two we board and once aboard we fuck and suck to our hearts content?
My question is this. For the married bi curious bisexual guys whose wives do not know. If the opportunity presented itself and there was was no chance of repercussions would you go for it? If so how far would you go and what aspect of m/m sex most intrigues or excites you?
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