Bi Guys More Common Than You Think

[Samuelx]

I'm beginning to think that bisexuals are far more numerous than homosexuals.


In the library, I see guys checking out different sites. " BBW Hardcore" sits side by side with " BICURIOSITY" and "Shemale Fun" at the bottom of the page. I always knew that men just liked sex, it's only society's brainwashing of us that makes us think "this is wrong" or whatever.


I think bi-guys are a lot more common than hetero guys and homo guys. I also think that most bi guys lead "straight" lives but secretly explore their multi-sexual desires through fantasies, dreams, erotic literature, porn and of course, sex.


What do you think ?

 

[Nabokov]

It is my firm belief that most everyone is bi. I subscribe to the sexual continuum point of view where people's sexual preference exists on a line between hetero and homo. On one end, there is dogmatic heterosexual and on the other is dogmatic homosexual. Different people exist on different points of the spectrum, but I believe that very few fall on the dogmatic ends. Where you fall has a great deal to do with your life experience and the culture around you. In the ancient western world for example, there was no shame in sexual relations between two men.

I think under the right conditions (key words), most heterosexual men would have sex with other men, and most homosexual men would have sex with a woman.

 

[CharleyH]

I'm beginning to think that bisexuals are far more numerous than homosexuals.


In the library, I see guys checking out different sites. " BBW Hardcore" sits side by side with " BICURIOSITY" and "Shemale Fun" at the bottom of the page. I always knew that men just liked sex, it's only society's brainwashing of us that makes us think "this is wrong" or whatever.


I think bi-guys are a lot more common than hetero guys and homo guys. I also think that most bi guys lead "straight" lives but secretly explore their multi-sexual desires through fantasies, dreams, erotic literature, porn and of course, sex.


What do you think ?

I think you are decades behind in your own sexuality and the culture around you. I mean that with respect.

 

[Samuelx]

Hey, I'm relatively new to the world of sex. I'm 20 years old ! I had my first sexual encounters with both sexes in my early teens, went through a severe drought in my mid to late teens, had some fun recently and now, I'm single, AGAIN !!!!

 

[Nordic man]

bi-sexuality is much more accepted and even encouraged in women. Men it is still like one of the last remaining areas. it is like if you cross the fence so to speak, that your really a gay man just hiding it. Why should you not be able to be attracted to both sexes/ Sexuality is fluid and not locked in.

Many people still feel that you can be either straight or gay and nothing inbetween.. I know we are able to be straight, gay or bi-sexual. so just enjoy what ever your feelings are. What may be right for you, may not be for someone else, and that is ok, it is you that you have to wake up with in the morning..

Aloha

 

[badger9]

probably true

I guess I'd have to agree that there may indeed be more bi guys around that we all think. The more I chat here and elsewhere, they keep popping up (no pun intended).

Unfortunately, unlike bi-women, bi-men are not as accepted and open about it. It's a shame really. Someone should be free to be who they are, without societal pressures telling them what to do, or who to be with.

 

[DarkAurora]

I think it's an even amount of all three. I think it's just that most bisexual people enter into long-term heterosexual relationships, so from the outside view, heterosexuals are the majority.

 

[John Doe]

Depends on your definitions.

 

[Scepter]

I believe that for every active bisexual man there are about 100 that are bi-curious but haven't really done anything about it.
I'm bi-curious, but that's about it, I haven't done anything with another male.

Yet....

 

[bisexplicit]

No one else is freaked out by the fact that they are looking at this at a library? Thats a public place. With plenty of children around.

Creepy times a million.

 

[Mary Hall]

I thought library`s had something that blocked porn sites or anything involving nudity

 

[bisexplicit]

I thought library`s had something that blocked porn sites or anything involving nudity

Maybe theres some libraries that don't...?

 

[Samuelx]

Uh, my library has a section for grown-ups as well as a children and young adults room. Dig ? No one under 18 walks into the grown-up section. No one over 18 can walk into the children or young adult's room and use the computers, okay ? It's a good deal. We dont get in each other's way.

 

[rwattsIII]

takes one to know one?

I'm beginning to think that bisexuals are far more numerous than homosexuals.

What do you think ?

I take it you're bi.......

 

[Samuelx]

Well, duh !!!

 

[Xelebes]

There simply is more bi guys than gay guys.

 

[buffybot]

i am a bi-female, and my best friend is a bi-male... what has really amazed me is that, most people assume that i am just "straight and curious about women" they all asume he is "gay and just not ready to admit it"... i just don't get that.... sorry just had to make that comment

 

[williby]

There must be heaps of bi guys out there, but there are alot of those that are also resistant to the thought, or nervous to participate due to possible social alientation, or stigma of others thoughts.

 

[kitwinn]

Im bi most of guys i go with r the same married like togive & take oral with a guy & to kiss with passion;

 

[SLOBOY3000]

I think you are decades behind in your own sexuality and the culture around you. I mean that with respect.

Interesting comment in light of current political trends and gay/lesbian marriage. The republicans won the White House due in no small part to anti-gay/lesbian ballot initiatives in key states. It was a brilliantly orchestrated plan that brought republicans to the polls.

Rember the exit polls showing, "...this election was about morality!" Morality...give me a fucking break. We elected the man who will likely be rembered as the least moral of our presidents (but conservatives will tell you Clinton's going to hell for a blow job).

Bush has lied to us, advanced a political agenda that gives the Federal Govt. authority/power beyond imagination, been the commander-in-chief over the insanity in Iraq (and the 2100 soldiers who won't be coming home) and in a performance, almost certainly to be unequalled, played out the racist, bigoted, priviledged, never suffered a day in his life charachter that his history and heredity condemned him to embrace. He....and we...alowed people in New Orleans to die. Going back to those images the message was clear, "These people don't matter."

I wish I could share your optomistic views of our culture. In my mind we aren't even in the neighborhood and have a long, long way to go.

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Hmm...I agree..

But rather than just say that I really think that Buffybot has said something that is really true..
It's all the same to me..
Even though I told my good friends I was bi, they still thought for a while that I just said it cause 'gay' would annoy them.
Telling some friend you are bi is probably easier than telling them you're gay..
The heterosexuality still exists in bi and that makes it more 'alright'..

But the usual reaction is that a bi-guy is in reality gay and either in some sort of denial, or just afraid to tell the whole truth.
And that a bi-girl is just straight and she just fools around with women but isn't in reality interested in them..

I do not fully understand them, but it's quite natural for them to be confused I think.
If a guy takes it up the ass, or likes to give blowjobs, he's gay..It doesn't really matter to them that he is equally interested in fucking with a woman, I guess.
If a woman wants to have sex with another woman she's just experimenting..
It's he fact that she dates guys that matters...

Oh, well... Ignorance is bliss..They can think what they want, but let us know what WE want.

 

[rwattsIII]

just like me.....

It's common to want to belive that everyone else is just like us. It makes us feel comfortable, but if you think that world is crawling with bi-sexuals just waiting the opportunity to express themselves, try making a pass at a few of your hetrosexual friends and see how it goes.

 

[brightondream]

bi guys more common

I agree. Personally I think EVERYBODY is somewhat bi(per most definitions of the word) and most are just too afraid to cum to terms with it.
50 years from now it won't be no big deal. Please wake me then!

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Yeah, there're probably a bunch of guys with urges that they try to suppress just because society frowns upon them, and there're probably a bunch more closeted bisexuals who prefer to be discrete about what they do.

Myself, I'm just starting to experiment with feelings I've had for a while. I'm going to getting my first blowjob from a guy very soon, and I might do something for him in return... haven't decided yet, and he's fine either way.

But yeah. The thing of it is is that you never know who's gay or bi or whatever, so of course there're more than you think.